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I'm looking to fulfill some fantasies with my S.O. when we visit Ottawa later this year, but I'm having trouble finding a way to accomplish this. Specifically, we want to try MMF (more accurately MMFF or FMMF or ... well, whatever). The one MF pair I knew of in the Ottawa area doesn't appear to still be in business as such anymore. Does anyone know of a M/F pair of service providers where at least the man, but preferably both, are bi? Thanks, -Adam

Going a bit off-topic... I saw Jane when I was in Ottawa earlier this year and was VERY pleased. From what I've !earned, you will otherwise have to go to Toronto, Calgary, Vancouver or Montreal to get a good experience. So I can claim I'm still on topic there's a reason Kinsey used a 7-point *scale* to measure sexual orientation: no researcher has ever credibly proposed a binary measurement system. There are actually dozens if not hundreds (depending on how reliable you think Wikipedia is) of ways to measure and categorize sexual response and behavior. Most researchers (AFAIK) consider even Kinsey's 7-point scale uselessly simplistic, even naïve. In my case, having sucked a cock moves me from a 1 on the Kinsey scale to about a 1.5. Simplistically, I'm therefore "78.6% straight" or "21.4% gay". Both of those are useless labels and also inaccurate and misleading. I consider myself straight, but I enjoy experimenting. Sometimes I eat salad - does that make me a vegetarian? -Adam

Well, since I recently sucked Miss Jane's cock, partly to settle some confusion in my own mind, I'm very clear on *my* answer: I may be technically bi-sexual, or more accurately pan-sexual, in the sense that I'm going to have fun in a sexual sense with just about anything and anyone, no matter what shape their genitals are. I'm not strictly heterosexual or homosexual, since those imply a 100% perfectly strict adherence to only have sexual contact (or being sexually excited) by a single gender, and that's not the case. On the other hand, I don't identify as LGBT in any other sense. I'm definitely not "gay". I only want romantic relationships with females. This could possibly extend to TGs who are extremely feminine (including emotionally) as those are female in my mind. I'm not interested in a romantic relationship with a "man" (including FtM TGs, sorry guys) even though I have no objection to having fun with one sexually. The problem is that western society conflates who/what you want a romantic relationship with, with who/what you want to fuck, and those aren't necessarily the same thing. Consequently, I'd provide a completely different answer to a biologist than I would to a psychologist, if they both asked me if I was bisexual. -Adam

(Since I don't have the required five posts yet, I can't post this in the Recommendations forum.) I saw Miss Jane this week while I was in Ottawa, and I can say a few things about her. Her photos are real and accurate. Miss Jane is very feminine, beyond "passable" and well into "Really? No Way!" territory except in the one area that counts, and even that is nice and smooth!) On her website, she says she adds an extra 15 minutes to help first-timers relax if necessary; she went well beyond the 15 minutes, and made sure I was comfortable and not anxious. Miss Jane is an effective top - she knows how to use the tool of her trade very well, and I was completely satisfied in several ways. I'm quite impressed by he ability to be gentle, yet to still be forceful when appropriate. Lastly, YMMV, but I was very pleasantly surprised by how much "output" she produced near the end of our session, and she was able to meet my particular requirements without any complaint. All in all, I wholeheartedly recommend Miss Jane to anyone else who wants to explore that part of their sexuality! -Adam

For anyone reading who's wondering what this might be like... go see/rent/download the movie "The Sessions" (2012) with Helen Hunt. Hunt plays the part of a [licensed] Professional Sexual Therapist, which is not *exactly* what SPs here generally call themselves, but it's close enough to get the flavour of what it's like for both parties. I've had bad enough reactions from my partners to simple erectile dysfunction and an insulin pump; I sincerely hope I never have to worry about what it's like from a wheelchair!