Music Man

From both a client's and an SP's perspective, what are your pros and cons on each side, and what's your personal preference?

I'm new to CERB, joined because I've become interested in what this industry has to offer me, but have yet to partake... I'm still learning. But even a neophyte like me can comment that this seems like very strange behavior. Showing up on time for a 30 minute appointment, then wanting a shower? For me, a shower IS 30 minutes, and if my first ever appointment was only a half hour, maybe spending that time in the shower with a playful SP would be a good way to spend it. More likely, I'm thinking that my first ever appointment with a professional SP will be at least 2 hours, with perhaps the first 30 minutes spent in the shower and the rest open to interpretation. This, to me, would be the way to do it. I'm just foaming at the mouth here, but one of the things I've learned about the industry is THE TIME! SP's have schedules, with clients that will be depending on those schedules. Believe me, if I booked my first ever appointment, showed up on time nervous as all hell (which will surely be the case), and had it pushed back because of an inconsiderate jerk, it might just cause me to lose my nerve!!

Brunette! "D" cups or "B" cups?

I'm a newcomer to CERB and have not yet availed myself of the services of a professional SP. I discovered this wonderful CERB community around the same time I started seriously considering this industry as an ideal avenue for someone such as myself, in short, a man who wishes to remain unattached, but still has an itch to scratch! I'm a hundred and twelve percent positive I'd be nervous as hell the first time, and worry about this being detrimental to the experience. Is there any advice you could offer?

Well said. Family is everything!

If ever there was something I couldn't understand, it's mens' infatuation with big boobs. Really... you like those? To me, little ones look way nicer! They're not half hidden for starters, you can see all of them. It's definitely not as much of an exercise to play with them. And if you DO happen to fall in love, they stand much more of a chance of looking the same after twenty years!

Thanks, everyone. I guess it was encouragement I was looking for and you've all been most helpful. What I've learned so far as a CERB member has demonstrated to me that this industry has grown up, and definitely has something to offer someone like me. Patience is a virtue, I'm certainly in no hurry, and I plan on maintaining my presence here. You've all shown me that CERB is a wonderful community, and bolstered my confidence that being a member here will ultimately lead to the experience I'm looking for. Cheers, all!

Okay, here it goes. I became a CERB member a good long while ago and have yet to post (until now I guess), and was hoping to get some feedback. I have never before availed myself of any services available in this industry, but I've learned a fair bit about it by joining CERB and reading some absolutely terrific commentary. I'm 53 years old (6'0", 165 lbs), I've been divorced for about 18 years now, and there is absolutely nothing I regret about my life. Answering to nobody and doing what I want, when I want, are things I could no longer give up. I've had a small handful of brief flings along the way, but none I would have cared to pursue. Quite frankly (and at the risk of sounding like a dirty old man), I'm no longer interested in any experiences with the type of women I'm capable of attracting in real life. Is this just plain wrong? Or am I on to something here? I guess the biggest issue for me (and excuse my naivety) would be being sure I'd be hiring someone in the industry who LOVES being in the industry. That would be important to me.