Blade

Being an office party, what is the typical dress code for the event? Jeans, business casual, formal?

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Actually, the roast beef is pretty good and the entertainment is frisky and entertaining. The upstairs option ... well, check it out.

The manager Louise will welcome you with a hug. Gabby the bartender is hot and very provocative. Anita, well she looks like she should be dancing but is a bubbly waitress that will make you smile. The girls are down to earth and they won't jump you as soon as you walk in. Many can carry a conversation and are playful. The VIP rooms are more like cubicle that are open (too bad). But most girls are willing to go the extra mile - YMMV. If you want extra, ask them if they go upstairs.

Understood LeeRichards. When you play in your own back yard, extra precautions are always warranted. Needless to say, communication must be discreet and absences must have solid alibis. My SP experience in Ottawa has been very good. Blade

My apologies. This was not meant to demean SP(s). I had a bad experience with an SP who decided to text me on my private phone in the evening. My phone was left in the Kitchen where my spouse saw the display. I made a few mistakes here and you're right, the SP was very aggressive. By the way, this happened in Montreal not Ottawa. When I get close the SP's location, I usually use the company cell phone. I'm the one that's the idiot that shared my personal cell phone number. Of course, I would delete all text messages, but sometimes, the mind isn't always there. I hope my honesty will be accepted with an open heart. Blade

Hey folks, I was simply sharing my opinion. I didn't think I would solicit such negative attacks. My spouse is going through my texts because she doesn't trust me. Why, because I got an unsolicited text message from an SP. My phone was in the kitchen when this happen. Does she go through my personal stuff. NO!!!! My phone was on display. I am not suggesting that all SP would do this, but this was my experience. If you feel offended by the SP that did this, then be angry with the SP in question, not me. Could have I prevented this from happening. YES!!! I was stupid to leave my phone number with this individual. My apologies for offending anyone who would know better. Blade

Perhaps my past experience was based on naiveté and I became paranoid. As I gain more experience, I'm understanding that with the right SP, trust does go both ways. Thanks Meg for reminding me of this. Blade

If you are single, please ignore this thread. Otherwise, you may want to read on. We all get caught at one point or another. It's just a matter of time. I have been living the double life for over 15 years and got caught numerous times because I got too confident or I was sloppy. God bless my life for enduring me all this time. This may sound straight forward but here are some of my lessons learned: 1) Never use your personal email address to set up an account such as CERB or sex sites. Emails from CERB on your home computer will cause scrutiny. 2) Never give your cell phone number to an SP. NEVER! Receiving an unsolicited text message from your mistress or SP when your home and the cell phone is left on the kitchen counter may be difficult to explain. 3) Don't call or text message an SP using your cell phone. Even if you erase the text, the SP now has your number (see lesson #2). 4) If you use your home computer to browse CERB or any other adult sites, make sure your browser history is cleared after use. Better yet, browse in private or configure the settings to clear the history automatically upon exit. However, a cleared history may send the wrong message. 5) Time your events carefully not to draw suspicion. Fictitious Dr. or Dentist appointments during the day time usually works. Going out for a beer after work with the boys may backfire on you. If you do get caught, don't deny it because you never know what evidence was collected. Just admit it and beg for forgiveness. YMMM on this one. Men were not build to have only one lover. Few women understand this concept. For this reason, learn your lessons well.

Does she have short spiky blond hair and works mostly nights?

I agree with Igab, playmate is the one.

First time here folks (be gentle) The Ashley I have been seeing for the last year at the pm is a classy MILF with a killer body. She has long curly dark hair, real breasts and a tight behind. She has the type of personality to invite you for a drink, chat a bit and kick your ass at pool. At one point, YOU will be asking her to the CR. Our CR sessions over the last few months have become more personal. Of course YMMV. When I asked her if she goes upstairs, she indicated that only with a very choice few. Then, she whispered in my ears: "Would you be interested?". OMG (in a good way) is all I could muster. I wasn't prepared for this experience. So a few weeks later, I got siked and went back to the pm. We both connected immediately and I simply nodded "yes". She disappeared to the dressing room and came out in very tight jeans. WOW. Our experience together was *&^*&^%$%@#@$"]*&^*&^%$%@#@$*( ... oh Ashley. Sorry gents. I went back a few weeks ago and ... round two. The playmate rocks.