Liv Waters

Hi there, I just wanted to seek your feedback about a potential host location I'm considering (not a hotel)....nothing I've committed to, but I'm looking at my options and certain aspects are important, and it's a challenge ticking all of the boxes, but I'm keeping in mind factors including but not limited to: A nice, fresh inviting space that keeps with the standards I've had thus far in hosting you gentlemen here in Kingston Allocated parking that is as discreet as possible For the the host location to be AWAY from the downtown and/or any other congested area where privacy is an issue, so NO fishbowl cul-de-sac type places either And, ideally, for the location to be no more than a 7 minutes drive from the 401 So, the place I have in mind ticks all of these boxes except for the last one. It is out by the airport. I'm in no rush to settle on something...it has to work, but the place has a lot of pluses. To get to the point, do you think that hosting by the airport would be an issue? Would you gentlemen see a lady located in this part of the City, or is it too inconvenient? Your input would be greatly appreciated. Feel free to PM me directly if you prefer. Thanks very much, oxox Anna

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There's no need to coddle poor behavior on the part of clients, or men who we may not have seen but that recognize us from our ads. The lack consideration or insight as to feelings of unsafety implied by such actions as Emily detailed are unacceptable and a reflection of the harmfulness of male privilege; to insert oneself in the life of a given woman on terms that do not consider her right to feelings of safety and comfort (psychological, emotional and physical safety)....ignorance is no excuse. In fact, the luxury of it is part of the problem. An action does not have to be consciously willful to be threatening or violent, or in need of challenge. It is not my aim to demonize men (far from it! I would be in the wrong industry if those were my feelings ;)), or to infer that experiencing privilege is one and the same as exercising it (to the detriment of others)... With all due respect Christy, this thread was started, I believe, to serve as a reminder of what it is like for ladies that do the work and experience toxic, unsafe behavior, and potentially to refresh gentlemen about OUR needs for privacy and discretion. If someone started a thread on having experienced being robbed or assaulted, and someone followed up with comments like, "so, yeah, that's too bad, but, you know, I'm surprised it does not happen more often", people would be all over that, naming it as invalidation. I'm sure that was not your intent here, but I feel things are going in that direction. Best

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To the Gentlemen I had the pleasure of spending time with during my Ottawa visit, whether it was a first time meeting or an encore delight: Thank you for your kindness and generosity. I love visiting your city :). See you again in February Ottawa! Ox, Anna

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Wow, what an awesome social! I had a great time! Thanks for all the effort, patience and hard work it took to pull this off :D

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Yes, a happy, happy birthday to you Yabut!

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