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There is also the liability and clear rights infringement issues (yes, going too far even under the tyranny of C-36) of Police appropriating the images of real escorts (current or former) and using them for their own aims. It just would not happen. They are an extension of government so they can't do this....it's just not the same scenario as the fly by night, dime a dozen shady sites that steal pictures.

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I don't want too say much, because this stuff is really subjective and different session durations make sense to different people for different reasons, both on the client's and the companion's end. For me, 30 minute encounters would leave me anxious...not leaving enough time to establish a comfort level before diving in...to talk and flirt and set a nice pace. Also, I specialize in a more holistic, and, shall we say, reciprocal pleasure oriented experience, which is extremely hard to achieve in 30 minutes.

A little bacon cheeseburger and fries from Five Guys followed by a soft serve chocolate dipped cone from Dairy Queen. Made my 2 hour workout today so worthwhile. Mmmmmm. Next thing I might buy is an antacid, lol. Wait, that's another thread.

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Just wondering if there is any word on when the Summer Ottawa Social will be? Would love to make this one! Thanks, Anna

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Hi kingstondan, I noticed that no one has replied to your thread yet, so I thought I'd mention a couple things. I'd recommend feeling out communications with some ladies who have piqued your interest, and seeking out the company of those who come across as kind, patient, and comfortable with themselves. Age does not necessarily dictate these qualities. Be upfront that learning and gaining experience interests you. Once you find a compatible lady (or more than one lady), you may want to consider multiple engagements as that helps to build rapport and a comfort level with sharing over time. On this latter note, if you can swing it financially, I'd also reccomend opting for longer bookings (1.5/2hrs+) so you can both take your time....sharing in a bevvy or some sweet nibbles together and taking time for conversation and laughter can do amazing things in creating that spark. Having realistic expectations is key, as is being conscious to not put undue pressure on a companion to 'perform' unlocking the hidden secrets of the universe. Learning and mutual enjoyment is something that has to flow and come out of a sense of ease that both people participate in creating. Good luck in your search!

For the most part, the gentlemen who seek me out like the elegant and sophisticated look, and it is my general way of being anyway; that is, in terms of what I typically wear and how I portray myself in my photos. On the other hand, fantasy role-plays have their place, and on a handful of occasions (in recent history), I've done the schoolgirl look. I think it's the novelty and playfulness that these clients have enjoyed most when I've sported such an outfit upon request. Given I am in my 30s, I think it has made such Gents feel like things are staying within comfortable moral bounds while still getting a chance to explore the fantasy. Interestingly, I have even played Domme in a schoolgirl outfit, which is an interesting mind-bender for those who would assume the schoolgirl look is inherently submissive. Nicolette, you have me thinking that I should invest in a sexy cop outfit; sounds like fun ;-)

Super disrespectful, boys club style porn commentary.

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Me: Dumbfounded look with a smack to the forehead

Yes, thank you Berlin! Historically, the medical profession has made an industry of producing expert knowledge based on ideas of sickliness and deviance and suffering, and sex workers, who have struggled for voice in having their experiences accounted for and counter narratives respected, have been a key group to be made subject to this paternalism. A reality that is very hard to change without destabilizing the basis of expert power accorded to medicine.

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Yes, last minute cancelations are a real pain! Thankfully, I don't experience them too often, but, sometimes, they come in waves and that is frustrating because it can make a whole day a practical write off. I find this especially true for me because I build in a generous amount of time between appointments for self care...relaxing, making sure I make time for meals, etc., etc., so, not only is the timeframe of the appointment lost, but also any potential appointments one turned down in the planned 'break times' in between...So, a last minute cancellation on a one hour booking can potentially result in pretty much a whole afternoons income lost. I find the following things to be helpful for me: For new and repeat clients booking days and weeks in advance, I ask for confirmation of a date the day before by or before 4pm. If I do not receive confirmation, I assume the date is not a go ahead and open up my schedule for other bookings. I have had a few people get frustrated with me over this if/when they lose their opportunity to see me because they failed to confirm on time, but pre bookings are not an automatic right. They are a privilege and also something I greatly appreciate but only when a gent respects my time and confirmation protocols. Otherwise, it defeats the purpose of pre booking. And, if contact is initiated first through email or text, I ask for that to be followed up by a phone call AT THE TIME OF RESERVATION, even if it is weeks in advance, and this also goes for when I am visiting Ottawa. While it does not prevent time wasters, or cancellations or no shows in general, it increases my confidence that the intended booking is sincere and makes the interaction more personal. I have actually had gentlemen tell me that the phone conversation makes them feel more accountable to respecting my time and more excited to see me because it is more personal...also meaning not waiting until the last minute to inform me of a cancellation, but rather telling me in advance even if they think they may not be able to honour their appointment because they do not want to lose out on the chance to see me in the future. For my Ottawa visits, I have had a few gentlemen come across as somewhat irritated that they would have to call me weeks in advance of a date in order to reserve a time with me. However, I stick to my protocols and most totally understand why I ask for this call. The call not only lets me know they are a sincere about booking, it lets me assess how they come across, and if I want to take the appointment at all. If someone sounds like a jerk, I don't want to block off 2, 3, 4, 5, hours of my time, only to find out the day before that I don't want to see this person. Similar to what some of the other ladies in this thread have stated, I also ask that a check in happens an hour before meeting. If I don't hear from a gent by then, I know things are a no go, and because I accept same day appointments, often from regular and repeat clients, many of whom are spontaneous about checking in about my availability, then I am able to give them the appointment time or at least a start time shortly thereafter. I know some ladies do not provide same day appointments due their business models that work for them (total respect for that), but I find that offering same day appointments really helps me on a number of levels. And, for sure, cancelations happen for very real reasons, and so I take that into account, but if it becomes a repeated issue with a given client (due to an unpredictable schedule), and say, it isn't too last minute and it is someone I am choosing to see again, I may say that I prefer if they check in with me same day to inquire about my availability and if we can work something out, then great. If someone cancels on me last minute, with few exceptions, (here in Kingston) I ask for a $100 cancellation fee payable at our next appointment if I choose to see them at all. For some, they will refuse to pay and just never call back, but for those who have already seen me, more often than not they will pay the fee. This helps to offset lost income, and also increases the likelihood that they will honour their bookings and/or at least to provide me with more advanced notice when they cannot make an arranged meeting time in the future. Have I potentially 'lost' clients over staying firm on my protocols, sure. But, they are not the client base I want and it prevents a lot of headaches and frustration for me. And, even with all of this, last minute cancellations still happen. Jenny, take a little comfort in knowing it is not you. We ladies know what you are going through. Hugs! Anna

The things I value most in a client: kindness, respect, excellent hygiene, good communication. These things not only make me feel safe and respected, they set the stage for being turned on mentally and physically. 50s, 60s, 70s, 80s; bring it on! Meow :-D And, to me, the aging body can be wonderfully sexy...it's how you live within your skin that counts. I'm planning on being an outrageously sexy old lady.

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