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DeeperConnection

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  1. sex in your car is illegal. It is considered a public place. I do believe it is against the rules to post anything to do with car dates. I may be mistaken.
  2. Far from perfect, as I have made some mistakes regarding bookings. The few gentlemen I stood up or messed up on an appointment (especially over my recent kidney infection few weeks back) are encouraged to get ahold of me so I can not only apologize but make it up to them along with an incentive to show that I appreciate their time was wasted. It would of course be my pleasure to make a lost connection in past a distant, forgotten memory replaced with all sorts of sexiness.
  3. I am a backpa e girl so please don't throw us in one negative stereotype. There are ways to research a lady that many men either don't want to bother or have not been informed of. I would start by asking the discretion level of the incall. I intentionally located myself in a smaller refurbished condo block that is just off downtown and with free parking. Some gentlemen may know people and bail out on an appointment out of fear of running into someone they know who lives there. It also isn't too hard to simply say you are their visiting a coworker or aunt or neice etc. Highrises have their advantages as people casually come and go all day etc. I also like that I am close enough to a fast food place and a general pharmacy that if a gentlemen is seriously concerned, he may wish to park at either and walk the 3-4 mins to my block. If you do go to a ladies incall, consider discretion factors for yourself such as did you do all communications through text only. This i hate say is careless on the providers part as she should at least have you call before you given the address to confirm you are male, not wasted etc. and to protect her discretion. Her operating in a discreet manner, will most certainly affect the discretion of you as well. Also if a neighbor is around you may not want to address the lady by her sp name and simply act like you should be there until behind closed door of her space. When leaving try not to say in a loud voice... "Thank You it was so nice to meet you, or escort talk as leaving. This could get overheard by neighbors etc. Some ways to screen the quality of a ladies incall could be questions like "do you provide clean shower facilities and towels should I wish to have a quick shower? You may ask about pets, and definetly make aware of certain allergies you may suffer from such as perfume or lube or oils etc.And if you are ultra concerned about being seen entering or leaving a call, simply ask her of the probability percentage hall way neighbors etc, I always ask a gentlemen to call or text once parked but still in car. That way i can receive him without him lurking outside and possibly running into a neighbor or looking unusual. Your discretion depends on her discretion in my opinion. If she requires you to call from a intersection close to her place, call from corner. She does to dramatically reduce the number of people who get the address early and then don't show.
  4. I think if you pre discuss this reason as why you are seeking a late appointment it may increase the comfort level a sp has to take on a gentlemen she has not met previously. I shy away from these hours as it is an increase risk of winding up with an intoxicated individual. If you explain in advance your request for this hour is due to work hours etc. you may get more favourable results than simply asking for a last minute availability at the closing of bars and whatnot. Prebooking also helps the provider to not over book so she will have an appropriate energy level to entertain you.
  5. I prefer when a man has a plan and prebooks. It is much less chaotic then attempting to answer to are you available right now? inquires all day every day. I prefer to know what and when to prepare for. Rushing into last minute encounters leaves me feeling anxious and depending on the day it can wind up being obvious. I also find last minute booking to have higher incidents of no shows. (again loosely based on my experience) However it isn't to say last minute inquires aren't welcome as you could be the request right after a no show, and this is always a good thing to luck out with for both you and the provider who happens to be ready and without the company of the gentlemen who for whatever reason did not cancel. How far in advance would really be up to you. Just keep in mind, some sp's have their other jobs and commitments to work around so maybe asking the providers you have in mind what works best for them would help prevent any disapointments. Oh and noon hours and fridays seem to be a popular request, on average based on my own experiences. So seeking those mentioned above may require a bit more pre planning than say a dinnertime hour of 5 or 6pm. Also would depend on the reliabilty of the provider of course. Hope this helps somewhat.
  6. Not having a website should hardly be considered unprofessional. If a lady is doing fine without one or isn't comfortable having one or prefers a telephone introduction etc. where she can answer any questions someone may have, perhaps it should not be viewed "unprofessional." I prefer a telephone conversation, as one can't claim to have not read or seen something on a website. I prefer simplicity. Asking a gentlemen if he has any questions regarding rates or services etc. has worked well for me. Not to mention due to a few indiscrete individuals, I have had my personal identity smeared all over the net. No need to ad a website to all that. Also I have been independent for just over 14 months, not a few years.
  7. Sexy remix I just discovered... http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XbCpt41G0o8
  8. Waiting over an hour for a taxi that never came. Having multiple cars pull over and freak me out with the last car trying to start a fight with me. Cancelling taxi, only to have a private number call now at 2:48am asking me if I need taxi still, he sounded drunk. I called for taxi at 1:15am and usually the taxi company calls with an automated message when taxi arrives. Why on earth the driver would call over an hour and a half after the fact from his personal number is beyond me.
  9. This woman's body is amazing.... don't miss her riding the bull in a wet white t-tshirt near the end. prrrrrr
  10. 14 or 15 non cancelled appointments from gentlemen who seemed polite and serious in week and half. The last one not showing up after getting exact address. Totally creepy! Like how hard is it to call or text if they are unable to make it? I could have made other plans. Thats a significant amount of money I wasn't able to make, as I do not book spur of moment. This a very big thing that sucks! There I feel better already, bath time!
  11. I do not. However I will only consider duos with a gentlemen I am familiar with and after discussing with the lady we are arranging with. Takes a bit of time to plan, but the outcome is always super hot! xo
  12. You don't want to work a winnipeg agency. They won't screen your clients and will take a very large percentage of your earnings. If you are looking for something safe and easy to get comfortable within this business I would recommend having a look at executive bath. They have a virtual tour that gives you an idea of the interior. I worked on and off there for several years. Management is strict but I do feel they want what is best for the girls, your uniform is a one piece bathing suit and you get to chill in jetted tubs, give massages and little happy endings. They aren't a FS establishment though some girls apparently break the rules. It's a good place to learn the clients, and get familiar with the industry without throwing yourself in head first. I found CERB had tons of info that helped me when I started as an Indie. I probably read the entire board 3 times at least.
  13. I agree that with communication to get familiar with the disability, it wouldn't be a problem for me either.
  14. She may have. We can only assume to know based on what he shared. Which was his side and reasoning of the events.
  15. Girls wind up with pimps two general ways. The first being drugs, and there are usually several warning signs one can see or feel if they are in the company of someone high. The second, and one thing that I feel the need to stress is LACK OF A LADIES DISCRETION. Sharing our incall locations, asking or sharing our names, asking us personal questions etc. I can't stress enough that our discretion is equally, if not MORE important than the gentlemen's as we want to provide those who visit us with a safe, uninterrupted, stress free encounter as much as a gentlemen wants just that. There are all sorts of opportunists, and due to the public's opinion of sex work along with the isolation some sp's experience from their involvement in this industry along with a lack of support and/or fear from law enforcement, woman in this industry are often targeted by low life individuals who wish to benefit off of them. It should really not be that surprising that most of us go to great lengths ensuring that we and the gentlemen who visit us are as safe as possible. I find it extremely inappropriate to question our safety procedures. In a perfect world our security would be a drop dead gorgeous ninja woman who joined in for fun during your encounters. However I don't know any, and until I find one, like most ladies, it will usually need to be a male involved in our safety plans. The beautiful woman who offer these services are taking many risks to do so. We do our best to avoid the bad things and people we have all heard or read about. I can't stress enough that DISCRETION, and RESPECT are the two most important things in this lifestyle.
  16. Like other individuals in other careers, we have personal lives, friends, boyfriends and family. No where was it suggested she had a guy lingering around. Consider the damage you are doing to a ladies finances by posting such assumptions as pimps etc. All providers who value their safety have a safety network whether it is a friend, boyfriend, family etc. This guy shorted her, and didn't want to make it right. A phone call to tell him he should give the lady the difference he short changed her from a third party is hardly evidence of her being pimped out! As I stated before, had he paid her the agreed upon rate before the encounter began like it should be this call he received wouldn't have happened. No one else has posted similar issues as they didn't intentionally short her on her rate. She certainly doesn't deserve to lose potential business of respectful, appreciative gentlemen over this sort of incident. This is more protective friend or boyfriend trying to get the guy to do the right thing which was return with the difference she was shorted so all would be well again, with everyone happy. Please guys, this pimping stereotype can destroy a ladies income, please don't throw out the suggestion of pimps so lightly.
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