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May I ask why you didn't simply request a bit more light for your session if you found her room to dark. Had you had the rate prepared for her as most others usually do, there should have been no issue with her receiving what you claim was a good rate for her hh service. Admitting you gave her 15 instead of 40 and using the lighting of her room as your excuse is in very poor taste. How do you think it made her feel to be short changed by a stranger she just offered intimacy to? I'm not saying it is right to be contacted by someone other than her, especially a male, but to jump to conclusions that it was a pimp and not simply her boyfriend is also rather rude. She was probably very upset she got duped out of a portion of her rate after providing you with her body on a intimate level. There is nothing worse than the feeling of having thought you were offering services to a gentlemen who winds up showing a total lack of respect to a woman after she has been intimate with you. I understand she should have counted her rate, but the way you have written your post feels like you are blaming her for her not getting paid in full. Several things happened here that could have been easily avoided. You could have had the rate for the time you had requested counted and placed in an envelope for her to receive upon your arrival to her incall. She then could have quickly double checked it while you washed up for your encounter. At which time you could have easily asked for more light for your session with her. Despite the bf/pimp claim, nobody else so far has stated any similar experience likely because they did not short change her on her rate. Now on top of shorting her rate, you have chosen to post this, which could now cost her more than you care to appreciate! All that for accepting your request for an intimate rendezvous. Doesn't sound very fair to me. She should have received what she quoted her rate as, upon your arrival and before you received her services. I find it disturbing that so many ladies are being claimed pimped. This is Winnipeg after all. Don't assume we wouldn't have security measures in place for our safety. You aren't the first or the last client to short a sp. By posting this you are inviting the possibly that others may now attempt to do the same. I feel very sorry for this provider and can imagine the regret she is feeling in regards to your encounter. I think the way you chose to post this was in very poor taste. I do realize my opinion is will not be that well received by some, so be it. It is not my intention to offend but shed a little light to the damage something like this is going to cost this provider in the long run. After all this is how she is supporting herself. Imagine if you will, having your income and job affected by a half hour incall with a provider.

I have had a number of experiences that left my spider senses tingling. I have had complete strangers contact me who have attempted to fly me to florida, las vegas without even introducing themselves. In winnipeg, I do believe there are a few groups and individuals who target the newer ladies aiming to profit off them, whether by theft or intimidation. For my safety I will keep this short. I urge any provider to have safety procedures in measure, and do not share them with anyone, (including potential love interests) Having spoken with several younger sp's here along with the increase in scams, drug use and BBFS providers often mentioned recently in winnipeg is a sure sign that these ladies are falling victim to individuals they thought they could trust. If you are a service provider and you feel you may be in danger of exploitation, violence or have been a victim of sexual assault there are several resources and phone numbers you can acquire by contacting the DREAMCATCHERS program at KLINIC COMMUNITY HEALTH.

Wild or not, you don't leave a living being wounded to die slowly over hours. days or even weeks..... There are surely more humane options than leaving these dogs with wounds to slowly die from like the pictures one can find on Paw Tipsters or Northern Manitoba pet rescue. How would we like it if this happened to us?

Having one's discretion blown by linking to a place with my real name not once but twice. Let alone by a member banned 5 times in one week. The fact that it is still sitting their like last time. The kicker is adding lies to punish me for his own actions getting him banned. Yet admits once again he has never met me and has nothing against me! The daily anxiety and fear I live with daily since the first time he did this. It looks pretty hopeless that I can ever safely continue being a provider. Everything I worked hard to acheive --POOF-- gone like it was never even there. sigh..... there aren't any words to describe.....

You will be busy taking in the sights of her in a skimpy number, she may then crawl over to you and remove her bra exposing her breasts Lightly touching, licking and barely touching her lips heading slowly up your inner thighs, followed by feathering her bottom lip and/ or tongue in unmentionable places. A light smacking of your cock against places nearly insinuating that she may give you what you truly desire, while gently caressing other intimate places..... there are sooo many ways to get a man "ready" without even getting a bj, if this is holding you back from seeing a provider, you need to stop worrying and go have a yourself a good time! I would focus your thoughts more on how are going to avoid being too excited once she is baring herself in the sexiest of lingerie and heels. If she knows what she is doing you will be hers to devour in her secret lair. She may tell you how badly she wants to take you all in.....while she then demonstrates her deepthroat abilities, lastly allowing you to fuck her face (if she does this) Those things and or a neverending amount of other little detailed actions that make any blowjob covered of not a truly unforgettable experience. It's no fun to tell all secrets..... go and experience it. A bj is only one part (in my case multiple times) of an encounter. xo

How boring and unoriginal it would be if we all wore the same naughty things, just saying.... especially if the proposed uniform had money signs all over it.

if service providers had a standard uniform it would still be illegal to approach and solicate them on the street. We already do though, its a mix between lingerie and our birthday suit. Any time you see us out and about and clothed it would be very disrespectful and indiscreet to approach her. If someone approached me on the steet and suggested I was Emily, I would be extremely upset, for multiple reasons, especially seeing as I don't do my running around, grocery shopping all dolled up so you would actually be approaching the me that isn't the "Emily" one would meet beside closed doors. Please don't approach providers or worse woman you think may be a provider in public places. No good will come of it and you could get arrested for freaking out a civilian woman who you assumed was a service provider. You may also wish to consider she may be out with a client or meeting up with one, so approaching her is never good, unless you contact her the way she requested in ads, and make an appointment I really see no reason to approach her on the street.

I would try not to take it so personally. The above comment by Mr. Green is very accurate. I have found for myself anyways, an unusual amount of run around, mini crisis situations (had no heat or hot water in building yesterday for hours as example) I also have many clients cancelling short notice for multiple reasons, or contacting me about availability, then not responding to my answer. (text) It also would seem to be a weird week for bp inquires, with every strange possible text, call or email (for me at least). I sometimes get so frustrated I stop taking calls for a day to get back into a good mindset, as I don't take appointments if I'm feeling stressed or irritated with life. Yesterday was meltdown day for me, as I had to cancel my day of visitors due to the heat and water situation. And of course, as luck would have it, my cell was ringing off the hook and my pay as you go monthly plan expired while this was all happening. What I'm trying to say is, sometimes life just gets all messy for a bit, and it isn't personal. Sometimes, a lady simply isnt working, or can't answer due to company etc. And sometimes her sched. gets all chaotic due to no shows, cancellations, rebooking etc. Having trouble connecting with a lady is common, and i am sorry this has been the case for you. I do hope when you make your next arrangments with someone, that you have the most memorable leave your legs shaky encounter that makes all your efforts and time well worth the wait!! (to those of you double booking ladies, as a back up....For SHAME! ) Please don't do this as there are many others who would like to and will honour their appointments. I now appreciate the idea behind a cancellation fee, though I imagine would be a headache to enforce.

There is a variety of woman. Feel free to go there and look through the photos at the desk. The ladies range in age, ethnicity, and size as the buisness is well run with gentlemen's desires and comfort in mind. I worked their for several years, (no longer employed their) but it is a clean establishment, you get the time you are paying for, no rushing. There are different ladies day and night. And they also vary daily. If you don't see someone who catches your eye, try again on another day or shift. You should have no problem finding a lady who interests you. Hope that helps.

You may want to include if she can contact you and best hours to do so? She may just not be recieving your messages til later and is being discreet for your sake. If not you may consider approaching the situation differently.

In such a case I would consider the possibility she got the message quiet late and carelessly pressed 7 instead of 9 to save the info, leaving her unable to to guess which of a few telephone numbers she had missed earlier that day was the correct one she had been given the ok to call back anytime. I do believe she feels bad for such a situation, and should the gentlemen who left the perfect message with all information needed to get a call back wish, he should call back to recieve a personal apology from said provider/or leave new message so she can return the message to give personal apology. xoxoxo P.S. Sorry. XOXO XXX!

I have to get a feel for a gentlemen through conversation before I will even consider stating any availability. My rates are always in my ads and when I'm sent text asking available? rates? addy? it shows not only did they not read my ad, but they lack discretion for thinking I would be willing to text my address out to all text inquires be it men, possibly someones significant other, another provider even. There's no harm in being to the point, but introducing yourself helps you to stand out, shows a level of respect IMO that helps with the "I'm about to invite a new total stranger into my space and self" pre encounter anxieties that go with the territory. We have little if any info and certainly no pictures of you to help us form an opinion of whom is about to join us. I love when I get either a text saying Hi, I'm so and so, have heard great things on such and such site or word of mouth. Was looking to get together in near future/said date/length of time? Is there a good time I can call to discuss further? Being polite works as well too. This will stand out from the onslought of multiple texts of HEY. Hey Sexy. Whatup?. avail?rates?location? Where I going? etc. again this is just my opinion based on my experiences but I do feel it will help you stand out from multiple others.

Just wanted to add that you may get better results trying to book an evening appointment after dinner. Daytime appointment requests are often booked very early 9-11 even earlier, which is why prebooking is a good idea. It also gives the lady adequete time to prepare for your visit. Of course I can't say this for everyone, but has been my experience. Also an unblocked telephone call is taken much more serious by the provider unless otherwise stated in her ad. Here in Winnipeg many guys and possibly some woman will bombard us with texts (many just intended to waste our time or indulge in sexting) If you do text, I would text a friendly introduction of your name, when you are seeking to get together and what length of time etc. this will be replied to more so then 'hey u avail. Rates? location?"

Pre booking is a good idea. Also leave details if the provider can text or call back. I would keep trying. Often, she simply couldn't take the call due to people around her or her being in thr middle of something. Sometimes when my afternoon is already prebooked, I don't get to check messages til evening time. I often assume the gentlemen llikely found company in the 6-7 hours I hadn't gotten the message.

You can do a tineye search of the photos to see if they have been stolen from somewhere else on the internet. Hopefully one of the gentlemen can elaborate how to use tineye?

I use to tan but developed a connective tissue disorder (not sure if from tanning) now tanning makes my skin react and causes symptoms. I now use Neostrata natural instant tan. Haven't found any other product with same instant results. It's rather pricey though.

Wow wow wow, this is very offensive, not because your opinion is wrong but because you based it on assumptions, which are completely false. Where did you get the impression that I wanted to exploit someone and take advantage of their situation. Instead I thanked someone for giving me this angle of thoughts that it would become a no-choice situation for that SP. I even mentioned that i was thinking that this way i may be helping someone to provide roof on her head. while on the topic of assumptions, it is a huge one to assume many of us would need help with our living situation. Not to be rude but how on earth could a woman feel at home at a place where she is not in control of her guests, living arrangements and especially body. Can't speak for other ladies, but I personally would never agree to this. Any lady that may, could quickly become resentful and angry. I can only imagine the fall out of a situation like this. And the personal info and slander that might end up being shared and slandered for both parties. A woman should be in full charge of her body, mind and soul. Agreeing to such terms would easily alter the balance of things. I would without a doubt feel exploited, especially if and when expectations become more than what was expected.

all the more reason why you shouldn't be inquiring about the lady. You totally provided her location in your first post ever, which is likely why it would appear she has retired (my assumption, but she has not advertised since) If she isnt advertising, you should take that for what it is. She has likely moved on to better things and would likely not appreciate someone who thinks they may know her inquiring about her past.

Prebooking helps a provider to ensure she will have the energy needed to give you the type of experience you won't forget anytime soon. Leaving an evening encounter til last minute decreases the chance you will find an available provider, and possibly finding one who is available but tired yet still accepts the request. Which could lead to dissapointment or lackluster encounter. Prebooking helps eliminate the majority of these concerns and many providers appreciate a man with a plan! (when permitting) If you do pre book and something changes, do let her know as soon as possible. Hopefully this will help you find, arrange and experience one of your most memorable experiences to date!