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I heard the same thing about the NuDen ... (It being run by a more people with Criminal Ties) No idea I talk to the dancers if they are happy I guess I don't care who owns it... though if it was a criminal group I'm guessing the girls wouldn't be "I totally hate this place because of all the Hells Angels" ... Glad at least the Fax isn't owned that way :) Hopefully neither is Barbs that's the only two places I go.

And not in tonight either lol...

Last week she was at the Fax everyday I think but Friday.

From what I've seen she is hot or miss at any club.. Keeps you guessing seen her once at barbs before Christmas

Oh that's horrible!!! Glad nobody was hurt though.

I'll have to try that sometime some,girls I lose track of songs almost,instantly,and others I count close but not,having that,on the back of my head would be awesome

That's what I was thinking as well... Already you'll hear some dancers express frustration of what "that" girl does to keep the clients coming back over and over etc... And think about it if the club is getting a kick back from dancers who are "providing" in their expanded area's ... say a single 1$ from each transaction that happened... who do you think the Club is going to want in working? The girl who pays her "fee" to dance the day and takes clients back for 1$ to the club each time? Or the girl who pays her "fee" to dance for the day and refuses provide "extra's" and just wants to strip as it is now??? I think its pretty obvious the club is there to make money too. The girls would either be forced to clubs that don't offer these other services or they'd be forced to possible go a route they don't want to go, or leave the work.

So went to Barbs last night looking for Jordan as I've seen her work some afternoons there did not find her but noticed a very pretty girl on stage.. Not very often do I watch stage shows but I couldn't help but keep peeking up at the dancer ... I was running very out of time before my bus came but when same over and starting chatting she introduced herself as Bridgette.. after introductions and knowing that I was running low on time we went to the CR... We didn't get to chat enough but the experience was intense and personal it was a fantastic time and had I had a dance with her in 2013 I would have added her name to the best list! Course I'll have to wait until the next one comes later this year :P But I can say while I was initially disappointed in missing Jordan ... Bridgette made me quickly forget! Best "disappointing" day ever!

Well im sure not all but many would go, sone of m'y favorite girls didn't have Nice thing to Say about providers ... Still whatever makes the girls money and keeps both the girl and the client safe.

I think,some of that is already happening for sure..not what I'm looking for. My worry is if the dancers wanted to be providers they would be....and many wonderful ladies I've met may stop dancing...

Ah okay!! Funny how Ottawa is such a prim and proper town and we have more relaxed club rules. And Calgary attracted all the youth, known for the red mile and its rules super strict

My god,that sounds horrible!!! Least your in Ontario now!! And I ,agree how do you even manage to bring time up someone said nu-den has a sign 20 a song or 150 an hour never saw it,but,he,goes enough to know

Great suggestions! I'm going to go the timed approach ... she doesn't have to dance the whole time I know with my two favorite dancers they often took breaks chatted, danced to songs they really liked etc.... All of that was fine by me ... as I think it would be pretty hard to keep dancing for a solid hour .. though I guess at the same time we go go in for X dances go back and chat go back in for Y dances get a drink she gets a smoke/food/bathroom break rinse and repeat...

Its definitely something I'm thinking about when I talk to a dancer is if I go back to the CR and we have fun that the next time I'll see if I can get a block of time so neither of us are worried about counting songs I've been with a couple of dancers who lost track of the songs... generally that's in my favor... I lose track of songs almost every time I keep a rough estimate unless I know I only have enough money for X songs in my pocket then I count very closely because I don't want to go over. Time seems so much better wonder if some Ottawa dancers will go by time.

She also dances at Barbs sometimes that's where I had been looking for her :) Can't wait for the next visit.

I would,have said Jenny at Barbs big boobs blonde seems popular and a bunch of fun

Tall (in heels) stunning brunette, long legs, fit lithe body, with a huge smile long straight hair often in a pony tail or in a bun

Found Jordan at The Fax Friday afternoon after looking for her. Spent an enjoyable time talking with her and several trips to the CR she is stunning, chatty, very funny, a great smile, little quirky but she came off very real. It was a great time great dances.

I think maybe SC will change over time.. Especially if laws change over time.. Many may say no but we did go from np touching to all sorts of touching..ill be honest I don't go to SPs because I don't need to have the ending I have a wife who meets all those needs. I like dancers because I get to see them and watch how they treat people and then once I find one I like I get to flirt and chat with the lovely lady. I like very chatty girls that will let me touch thier cheeks and who do more sensual dances and less here is my butt in your face... Even in the CR I look at the dancers dace more than anything else... So a SP could meet what I'm looking for but they have so many other people while it seems dancers seem to almost have to push the boundary between dancer and sp

Wow really? How icky ... even though I normally keep my hands to myself unless the Dancer does something with them (I don't know the rules well enough to go venture out on my own and each girl seems to have different "okay's" I tend to like to touch the face/cheeks/neck ... which some seem to enjoy/tolerate while others don't ... so best to let the girl direct :) But no touching ... well that just blows unless its like 10$ a song.

Anyone seen Jordan around? I haven't been able to catch her at Barbs ....

I was there as well and agree that Selina's dances where hot I tried and failed to get her attention for the CR but saved me a couple 100 :)

I can't say exact numbers but what I can say is I have been in clubs where my friends have been back for awhile and it required a condom... I didn't ask questions nor did I want to know ... that's not what I'm looking for. If you really look at escorts vs dancer I really wonder where the money is ... escorts get payed by hour from what I've seen generally anywhere from 150-260h depending on what is offered ... a very good dancer can make 260 in 13 songs which is about 40 minutes of her time which doesn't involve having sex... I get its probably harder for a dancer to find multiple guys who want to go back for 13 songs in a row... but I've seen some dancers that I've wanted a dance with and I couldn't get in because they had a line up :) Its interesting I was talking about this with my friend yesterday who spends alot of money on his ATF and gets nothing in return sexually she's by the book, sometime she's naked sometimes she's not they talk, txt, see each other outside of the club for chats drinks, coffee but nothing physical... I joke with him that the money he spends on his ATF he could have a SP provide the same experience with a more beneficial ending ... finding a good SP who provides GFE and repeat visit enough I'm sure he'd get her number and they'd txt and chat if they connected mentally ... I don't understand either profession (but I'm glad they exist :P) Mainly because I'm a middle aged overweight guy who could never sell anything to anyone :P

I started very late didn't see that many girls (About 10) and only the Fax/Den/Barb's. Anyway I'd say: Paige @ Barbs Jordan @ Barbs

Good advice silly at Barbs not Barns silly auto correct