Toper

I'm interested in her submissive nature as well. Thanks for the recomendation. T

Agreed! When a lady has a website and what she posts can tell me everything I need to know about a potential meeting. Only once did I meet with someone who didn't have a website and it was great but felt like a risk! So I'll give a shout out to some ladies who have a great web presence Sensuous Summer (R.I.P.), Carrie Moon, Emily J, Shay Lovell and Berlin. Toper

I'm a plan ahead type. I always book two or three days in advance. That's just my preference. i confirm the day before and call an hour ahead of the rendezvous for the ring #. Booking in advance can lead to a lady requesting a change or an accommodation, which is her right. But I'm most interested in having a wonderful time so that's okay with me. I've only gotten radio silence once and was easy come easy go about it and moved on. No harm no foul. T

I know I always seem to recommend Carrie Moon but she's a 5 11 wonder! Keep an eye out for when she's touring. T

Great list. I'll add that if you watch for touring ladies, do yourself a favour and watch for Carrie Moon.

Agreed. It is difficult to balance the demands we all have for privacy and the desire to mourn someone that we had become close to in the context of this "hobby". I don't like the word hobby, just a personal preference but you get my point. Summer was very generous with her time and we got to know each other quite well. I will miss her and I hope she didn't suffer. I will be making a donation on her behalf to Power and raising a glass of wine in her memory. Good night my dear Toper

Next time Carrie Moon is in town make sure you book! T

I'd like to send my best wishes to the Birthday girl. Keep shredding the Gnar! Toper

From personal experience Sensuous Summer is a very talented lady...

Ouch, I thought I was on the Ottawa board. Please ignore, unless these ladies happen to tour NB... Not to disparage local ladies but when Amber Rose, Berlin or (especially) Carrie Moon are visiting - rush out and see them. You won't be disappointed. Toper

Happy Birthday love!

Sounds like you could teach a master class! I've never used toys before (on me). There is a great adult store in Ottawa that sells amazing toys and offers workshops for women. I wonder if they have anything for men. Maybe they assume we all already know everything we need to know! Care to share what toys you have? Toper

I thought I was the only one! I tend to abstain for a few days before I see a lady. I find the build up increases the pleasure at the end, pun intended. Toper Additional Comments: I admire your ability to type one handed! Toper

I think a lot of people who identify as heterosexual have some level of bi-curiosity. We're raised as children to fear anything not hetero but fetishize lesbianism. As men we watch pornography and imagine ourselves as the male porn star up to the point of timing our orgasm with the his. Once you realize that you can separate love from the sexual act, you expand the confines of how you achieve that pleasure. Personally I'll seek pleasure and companionship when, where and with whomever I find a connection with. Some of my happiest days have been spent in threesomes and foursomes of consenting and liked minded individuals. Toper Additional Comments: ...I've always wondered about how many people who identify as gay or lesbian are secretly bi? Gay friends who are my age (40s) would consider this question as potentially offensive. But the younger people who I've met really don't see themselves as being rigidly gay but much more fluid.

Ali Bomaye! Ali Bomaye! We'll not see his like again....