Toper

Agreed, I'm uncut and I may be more careful about cleanliness but I've never had a negative response with anyone I've ever been intamate with. All down to personal preference I guess...

I've always had a hard (ha ha) time finding a condom that fits. So I went to Venus Envy in downton Ottawa and picked up one of their sampler packs. What a great shop! Each sampler had eight different brands and types. The sampler packs come in snug, medium and large. Even though I'm not huge I found the best fit was the Lifestyles Skyn Large. I'm thicker at the base than at the head so most condoms only go on half way. I've been back to buy all sorts of other toys and things since. A very positive sex friendly place.

Sorry I'm going to miss this, sounds like it's going to be a lot of fun. I've never been to one of the socials. Promise to make it to the next one! Have fun everyone Toper

Thank you Canuck The response has been amazing lots of avenues to persue and I appreciate the info. CMJ is an interesting choice as its members only. Cheers Toper

Thanks roamingguy Helps a bit but I thank you for giving it a shot. Really I'm looking for a place I can more or less use on a semi regular basis without drawing too much attention. I'm worried as an Ottawa resident sooner or later I'll run into someone I know. And, as I used to work in a highly visible industry and am "known" about town that would be disastrous. Toper And ...fStop Interesting I would never have thought of AirBnB I'll check it out. This looks like a good possibility although I`m still hoping that one of the spas offer room rental. Kinda like the Japanese Love Motels... Toper

This might not be right place to post this but... I'm looking for place, preferably downtown'ish where I can entertain without too many questions. I may want to entertain someone who is not an SP/MA and still do it discreetly. I know it sounds dodgy but I'm really wary of most Hotels because of giving credit card info, being recognized, etc. Does anyone know if one of the spas offer a room only rental by the hour? Toper (PS I looked for simmilar threads and didn't really find what I was looking for...)

Interesting thread I imagine that a lot of us here on CERB, both Hobbyists and SPs, are nervous about the new laws and how they might impact our community. But how does someone get screened in if they're a first timer or an intermittent hobbyist? I made an informed decision years ago to ditch social media to get a semblance of work-life balance. Mostly because I work in IT and I spend more than enough time in front of a computer already. At the end of the day the ladies here will have to protect themselves as best they can from the dark side of society and the criminal justice system - with common sense and by trusting their own intuition. I know the first time I called for a date I was nervous as hell but I used my real name (first name). I don`t know how much farther I`d be willing to go to prove the sincerity of intent? Toper

Funny, I just finished reading this artcile on the BBC before checking in with CERB at the end of the day. Yes I also was wondering how nuch of this story is driven by the medias need to paint every exchange of sex outside of a traditional marriage / relationship as victims and victors. Toper

Happy Birthday Carrie! I hope this day finds you well in mind, body and spirit. Toper

If I'm not too late... For reasons of discretion a private residence or condo for me. Like Dori mentioned it's more than possible that I could run into someone I know or who knows me. I'd prefer to not have to create back stories about why I'm visiting a hotel in my own town, etc. Whereas visiting a privite residence is my own business. Toper

Glen at Barnstormer on Bank is a genius with fine detail he was an artist before he started doing tattoos - his partner glen does really nice old school flash type work as well. He's booked for the next six months... Toper

Desire is a funny thing and can depend on so many factors and preferences. I will however trumpet what seems to be the majority view so far ...I do my research. First and foremost a good quality photo with or without the face - after all this is a fantasy date were talking about! Secondly does she have reviews here on CERB and what is the consensus. Thirdly does she has a website with clear information on what I can expect and what is expected of me. Lastly in the nice to have file and this can tip the balance in favour of making that call ...does she update her website/profile on a regular basis. Regular updates help me get an understanding as to the kind of date I can expect. Just my two cents Toper

I'm average for a man (5 ft 9 in) and I don't think height has never been a deciding factor when it comes to attraction. However, I did once date a woman who was much taller and while we were together my posture would have made my old Drill Instructor proud. So maybe I'm a little insecure.... Toper

I can attest to Carrie Moon's natural bounty, absolutely fantastic! In the interest of serving the CERB community I may need to undertake some more field research on the matter. Good times ahead. Toper

Hi Savannah Interesting question. I can't say I'm all that interested in playing the Cuckold ...but being a Bull well that would have it benefits! Personally I find it exciting when others find my partner attractive, as long as the attention isn't crass or too obvious. Having said that, the idea of having sex with someone after they've had sex with someone else, especially if they've got cum inside or on them has always been a fantasy of mine. Toper