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Yellow Submarine (The Beatles)
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I just read your other post and for the most part I agree with the key message. I am on older gent and although I struggle with many of life's issues, this woman has mad me feel joy and thrills like I have never before. I am committed to her as the chosen one for me and I want no other. I have giver her my unconditional love and support and have tried to be as patient as I can to respect her feelings as she is not as clear on what she feels, but I have no regrets. I love her and don't ever want to look back on what ifs or regrets on not trying. thanks for your insights and I do share the distinction between love and lust. this is love.
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What about forgiving yourself?
LDBF123 replied to JoyfulC's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
I agree that to truly forgive yourself you do need to love yourself - I struggle with this as I have always suffered from low self esteem and never feeling worthy of being happy or being good enough. I am looking to get support as I think I'm a good person but I just need to remember this and really believe it. Life can be sooo complicated even without self loathing and guilt. I've been told by a wise woman that guilt is a wasted emotion -
I'm torn by reading your comments - simple reason is I've met a girl in the business and we've stopped being client and provider and I truly believe I am in "L" with this woman. I fear you are right as she has been unable to reciprocate and use the dreaded word in reply...maybe I need to heed your words and deal with the heart ache now.
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What about forgiving yourself?
LDBF123 replied to JoyfulC's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
I love these thought provoking posts. For me it was when I lost my mum. I had always felt like I had disappointed her with many of my choices in life and even though I think she forgave me, it took me several years, many self destructive nights and bottles of vodka and rye, but I have finally been able to move on. I know she would never want me to destroy myself - she loved me too much. -
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salmon Italian food or chinese?
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What Did You Learn Today?
LDBF123 replied to mrrnice2's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
I learned that a simple text from a special lady can make me smile for a day...I can't wait to see you at the "office" again soon. you know who you are, xoxo. Hope dinner was fun. -
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I know I'm late to the party here but Happy Valentine's Day to all the beautiful women here on cerb.
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love giving (daty, massages) top or bottom...I'm partial to being Missionary Man (vanilla guy)
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Approaching a lady about a "retainer"
LDBF123 replied to Wolf Knight's topic in General Discussion Area - all of Canada
I have to admit I'm a little surprised by the overwhelming response that this would be welcomed and not a negative. I get the idea that this provides the woman a level of predictability and certainty so thats a good thing but the idea of getting some perks like extended sessions etc did feel like it would be negotiating or haggling to get a deal. I guess its not that different than some spas that allow you to purchase a set of door fees in advance and give u one free. I guess it just feels different when its with an individual versus with a spa but really isn't that different. seems like a thumbs up from this group :) -
so I'm new at this but Ima give this my honest first impression. the one thing in my mind where I personally could not forgive is any abuse where a child or a handicapped individual is involved. In almost any other set of circumstances where there is true remorse I think I could see a way to forgive. the situation where someone is clearly not in a position to understand what is happening or is betrayed as a child...well, I dont think I could ever forgive. that may seem harsh but it is how I feel.
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