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mrrnice2

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  1. Sybartism?? Hmmm. LOL Looking that one up! Binding Only Unleashes New Dimensions Next: TREAT
  2. Congratulations Nicki. Wow, 2500! I have nejoyed reading and learned a lot from your contributions. Well done and keep them coming.
  3. I was ever so fortunate to have recently met with Gabriella. We had been in correspondence for a short while and when I saw that she would be in Halifax, ever so close to home, it was an opportunity that I did not feel that I could pass up. First meetings for me are always so awkward but thanks in part to our prior communications but more so because of her kind and happy and positive outlook on life she had me relaxed in no time. She gave me a tour of her beautiful condo on the Halifax waterfront before we grabbed the umbrella and walked to a great Italian restaurant that was nearby where we were ever so lucky to have a private table. We had an extended dinner complete with a shared bottle of wine and she was my personal sommelier for the evening. The conversation was wide ranging from the events of her trip to Halifax to a sharing of personal histories. It was a thoroughly enjoyable time and if I had left her at that point it would have been a perfect evening. Much to my delight we returned to her Halifax locale. It was not long before a shared bubble bath led to a wonderful interlude in the bedroom and there I knew that I was in good hands. She was fun, and enjoyed herself, and led me in directions that were entirely impromptu and ever so pleasurable. Dessert in bed was a whole new experience. We are already planning a repeat visit, but perhaps in Montreal. However, should she return to Halifax in the fall..... :) Gentlemen if you have an opportunity to meet Gabriella I am confident that you will enjoy your time together. Thank you Gabriella for a wonderful evening. It was a pleasure to have met you.
  4. Malika, that is so unfortunate that this has occurred and the person in question is someone who needs to do some self reflection in terms of understanding others, tolerance and having respect for different opinions. For me as a hobbyist it is meeting new people and learning about their interests, their goals, and their ways of thinking that has become one of the most intriguing features for me. I for one like to know a bit about the women that I come in contact with and because of that interest and their willingness to relate with me I have learned a great deal about such a wide variety of things. The spirituality that is embraced by so many, and that is expressed in such a wide variety of different means is both touching and uplifting. I have learned a great number of life lessons from SP's and Sara is correct that it is fantasy, but if I ever felt that it was all just show or total make believe then I might as well start booking those 30 minute sessions. Malika, you are who you are and I for one would like you to continue to be the free spirit that I am seeing. You have lots of support!
  5. Pete - Sending condolences your way and know that thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. I wish that I had some wisdom that would help you through this period. Take Care.
  6. I don't think that tattoos are necessarily an age thing, nor primarily a woman thing. I am certainly male and certainly getting up there in age and 5 years ago got my single small Canadian flag. I have seen people with tattoos for whom the tattoo was meaningful to them for a specific reason, and that is pretty cool. Others use tattoos simply as an art expression. I also have to say that I must be a wimp because my one and only will be the last! I cannot imagine going through the process of having the full arm or leg bodyart that we see now much more commonly. When I see the pics here of Sara, Angel and Cleo, I think to myself that these women are WAY tougher than I am :) However I am also learning to appreciate the use of bodyart as a way of expressing oneself more than I ever have before.
  7. Congratulations Shymale for your astute predictions. And to Meg, the supreme Bruins fan. And to think that for Montreal it was only that loss in the second overtime in game 7 vs the Bruins that let me down. And finally, a big thank you top Lee for setting this up for us. I owe you a beer. :)
  8. Congratulations Sara on 1000 posts. I have had some good smiles from reading them and learned a lot as well. Keep it up.:)
  9. Well it looks as if Shymale is in control and that I have consolidated my position of honor. As they say, you can't win em all. Go Canucks
  10. Depending on a date I am likely to attend in either location. My "guess" would be that Halifax may draw a greater number of participants, both men and women.
  11. What a fascinating question posed here. Prior discussion between an SP and the client is probably a must, at least to a degree, and perhaps very much so in the type of scenario outlined here by Samantha. The question then becomes that of to what degree can or should that discussion take place. I have two personal experiences that I can refer to. In my time on CERB I have come to love what is known as the GFE, however it is defined. By my definition it has been absolutely perfect. As well, I have availed myself of the opportunity to explore areas of sexuality and have had two first time experiences. One was a long held fantasy and the other a quite new interest in exploring the topic of BDSM. My initial impetus came from a desire to recreate something that happened in my past that was very special to me that happened with a very special person. This experience involved restraint and teasing but in exactly the reverse scenario from what Samantha outlined. I was the recipient rather than her. In my mind, I knew what I had experienced and had found so incredibly erotic, yet to explain it to an SP who might help me was very difficult. Perhaps another of the Catch-22's that I keep running into, but my original experience was something that just "happened", out of the blue, very uncharacteristically. Scripting it now almost in some way defeated the purpose of recreating that experience. The other side of the coin is an awareness that an SP is not a mind reader, as much as I wish it were so at times. So perhaps with some trepidation on the part of the SP the encounter went ahead. It was incredible, and something that I would not ever take back, but neither is it something that I will repeat. I believe that I learned that one cannot recreate an experience. The original experience involved far more than the sexual act. It involved the sharing of minds and an incredible erotic scene between two people who acted on impulse at a specific time and place and under specific circumstances. If a hobbyist wants to recreate something as specific as that, I would think that it is impossible to do. Perhaps this is where Samantha's client went "wrong," and I understand from personal experience how that could happen. One learns as one goes along. As seems clear from Samantha's story, and I know from my experience, SP's pride themselves on meeting the needs of their clients, so when clients cannot or will not express their desires clearly it is very difficult SP's to meet their needs. My second newfound experience (not BDSM) was not one that I had ever participated in previously, so in that case it was left wide open in terms of how things might go. I had no prior expectation of exactly what to expect, and it was beyond amazing. To sum up, and speaking for myself, to try to script an encounter moment by moment would take away a great deal from potentially erotic experiences. I am afraid that I am very unlikely to ever want to try to recreate a specific scene because sometimes, things that happened in the past were just perfect, and perfection is something unable to be duplicated, or maybe even is something that should not even be attempted. Give me the GFE, the meeting of the minds, the social interaction and the impromptu things that happen between two people who enjoy each others company. Less pressure on everyone involved and the learning and sharing together is so very erotic in itself.
  12. Those items that come with the phrase, "Some assembly required". I am now on the umpteenth hour assembling the bike rack for my Jeep.
  13. I am beginning to wonder if summer will really get here, at least in terms of weather. I am confident that things will look up soon. This being PEI, family tends to arrive to enjoy our beaches and pretty laid back way of life and that will be great. For me, I am getting back into biking the trails here on the Island. Very relaxing and a great way to enjoy some individual time. I shall be camping when I can (fair weather camper here in my little nylon dome tent) and I throughly enjoy the National Parks here in the Maritimes for that. I have scheduled a late August trip to Montreal, Ottawa and then will see family in Ontario before getting back home a week or so into September. So no huge plans, but I love to be outside and intend to make best use of every minute that I can.
  14. An interesting feel good thread Sophia. Great topic. For me as a retired educator,I have one particular incident that I recall with great nostalgia. Several years after I retired I had a knock on my door at home and a former student came in. He recalled that when he was 13 and in school how he just hated reading and books and anything associated with them. I was his math teacher and he then related how on one occassion I had taken him under my wing, walked him to the library and spent over an hour looking at titles, how he had balked until we came upon the Lord of the Rings. He took Book 1, and he said that he has not stopped reading since, and has gone on to a great career in computer programming. This from a student who was on the verge of dropping out. "You changed my life. Thank you." One never knows when a simple act can be repaid so many times over. I do not even recall the incident happening, and that is another reason that it is so special.
  15. Sometimes My Interest Lies Elsewhere. Next: ESCORT
  16. In an early post as a member of Cerb I recall writing about how nice it would be to have sex workers recognized and respected in society as valuable contributing members in the same sense as are educators, blue collar workers, civil service employees and so on. Wouldn't it be nice to have safe working conditions, pension plans, health benefits, maternity leaves, and all of the benefits that many employees have either in unionized or self employed situations. How naive I was (am). The issue is so complex. I do know beyond a shadow of a doubt that the industry as I have experienced it is high quality, involves women who are doing what they do by personal choice, (there certainly are long involved stories here that I am totally unaware of) and includes respect from both sides. The concept that I am participating in something that is illegal or even on the fringes of illegality is abhorent to me. For me it has been an important aspect of my life and in many ways despite some confusion, has been a large part of a healing process for me. Ms Laliberté indicated that the laws and solutions must come from the women involved in the industry. That is at least partially correct, but if you think about it, there are more men involved as clients than there are women as service providers. The men are not in the high risk area in the way that the women are, but they are in the criminalization risk area, and for that reason is there not a role for them in providing input? I hope that the men of Cerb are as concerned about the safety and well being of the SP's as the SP's should be themselves??? Do the sex worker organizations seek input from men and are there men who are on the boards or members? It has been pointed out that there are clearly at least two major groups of sex workers. The independents as we know here on Cerb are one group with their own ways of conducting business and then the street workers who are probably in an entirely different situation? Can one law or series of laws cover both of these groups? As mentioned, are there new laws required when we already have existing laws under the criminal code to cover abuse, assault, threats, underage sex and so on? Just some thoughts on a terribly complex issue after having read the article and as my opinions continue to evolve.
  17. What a hockey day in Canada. Game 1 in Vancouver vs the hated Bruins, and the NHL back in Winnipeg. I hope that the city and province can support the team financially and make it a success. Good for you Winnipeg.
  18. Pleasant Liasons Always Yield Success Next: DIRTY
  19. Sexual Teasing Enables Male Sexuality Next: GABBY
  20. Well......if it were the right person with trust in each other, I could imagine what an erotic thing that might be to be on the recipient end of. Hmmmm, perhaps another unresolved fantasy to explore.
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