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I have to recommend the duo of Cathy Hfxdom and Angel Starr. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=51885

Coming home after dark this evening and having a skunk sitting on my doorstep. But the good news is that I outwaited him! Patience is a virtue. Phew.

Wounded attachments. What an interesting concept. Initially I am tending towards the belief that Ms. Brown has gone 180 degrees in the wrong direction with the idea that these wounded attachments will foreclose on the possibility of having an emancipated future. I can only argue or discuss this from a personal perspective, and in no way wish to presuppose that others share these reasons for being where they presently find themselves. In a society, by the nature of being a society, individuals not only stake their place as individuals with individual and personal belief systems, but they also have a need to be a part of the greater whole. This need stems from society itself, in the way that we bring up our children and with societies accepted norms. I would go so far as to believe that this is an innate need or instinct - the desire to be a part of something greater. We also give up our individuality to the 'greater good' of society, and often without even recognizing that fact. However, the accepted norms of a society are not always in line with underlying personal beliefs and it will perhaps be the exceptional person that will cast societal norms aside in order to assume their mantle of individuality. Many of those pointed out by Nathalie who are teased, bullied, discriminated against, or harassed want and need to become a part of the society as a whole. A case in point may be the person who has been brought up to accept the "normal" way of living and moving forward. Get an education which then leads to a "good" job. The seeking of a spouse or partner, and then providing a stable home, having a family, and retiring gracefully. But what of the person for whom these objectives have been met successfully and all along with their tacit approval who then finds themselves in a situation where all of that becomes virtually unimportant. Here is where the wound occurs and that wound leads to a questioning of the norms of society, and the ability to withdraw from the many preconceived notions of right and wrong, or of what is moral or immoral. This wound in fact may lead TO emancipation rather than the reverse as argued. It may lead to a person assuming their position as an individual and saying, "No, enough. I am human. I am an individual and I will assume that role". Some are more 'human' than others? No. Some people are more 'deserving of rights'. No. Many have not been wounded enough, or they have been indoctrinated enough, that they cannot recognize or assume that there is another role beside that which society has taught them and imposed upon them. As I write my mind continually shifts to "Who is John Galt"? Maybe Ayn Rand had it right? I have not thought of her books in years. It only takes a moment, for my story to be stolen. Perhaps 'stolen' should read 'revealed'. Now I know why I was drawn to the science field! Way easier to be certain! I am not sure at all that I am even addressing the original question posed!

Thank you for the philosophical challenge. I am going to spend some time on this prior to responding, hopefully intelligently. My "wounded attachments" are in a seemingly constant state of flux.

Hi Isabella. Not sure at all if this is what he is looking for. Probably not based on what you said. There is a program called Dragon Speech that is used in education for the visually impaired.....voice recognition, voice to text and so on. Here is the website. http://www.nuance.com/dragon/index.htm

Well right now, its GOT to be the weather!

Now THAT would suck!

Just wondering out loud on this one. It seems to me that there is a business corollary along the lines of design products in order to meet the needs that are out there? It sounds as if the GFE experience is a need that was not being met a few years back? Again, my old stereotypes kick in here, but I had visions of short 30 minute arrangements, fast, down to business, cold and efficient, a revolving door, and no personal interaction. The GFE reality of today is ever so much more than that, thank the Gods, and clearly is a need that is being fulfilled admirably by some great women. So perhaps it was simply one very intelligent woman who determined the need, created the experience, with many copying and improving on it. I hope that she filed a copyright! :)

I continue to be amazed in the way that the thread topics continually overlap with each other. This topic in one form or another continues to come up, and I for one am so glad that it does. I am still, in relative terms, new to this community and to what it is all about. Without exception, and perhaps I have been "lucky" in my experiences, but my encounters have all ranged from being really nice to incredible. When I say that, I am referring to the personal interactions and "connections." I simply want to say that the SP's are VERY GOOD at what they do. Right or wrong, every instance has left me with a feeling that they enjoyed our time together as much as I did. It would be very easy I think to fall in love with an SP, or at least develop a strong attraction, and that is being said from the perspective of someone who has had the love of his life and would not want to have another to replace her. Again, SP's are VERY GOOD at what they do. In your particular circumstance, you should feel blessed that you have met the love of your life and that she has found the same in you. Being an SP is a career choice, a job, and to do it well need not interfere with her "real life." If she wants to be successful, then it is her role to be "the" person for whomever it is that she happens to be with. As with any job, and I expect that it is the same for any person who wants the self satisfaction of being successful in a job, one gives everything to it at the moment. For you to make this work with her, then I expect that you will have to trust her, trust your own instincts. If there is love between you, then the professional side of her is that alone, and the personal side belongs to you. The fact that she enjoys what she does, and the fact that she takes pride in what she does must be a source of pride to you, otherwise I wonder where it will lead. A woman who is intelligent, has her own career, has her own life, goals and desires should be supported by her partner and if you are ready and able to do that for her, then you are set. If not, then jealousy I expect can be a very nasty relationship killer. Trust her, love her, support her, and perhaps that shall be returned to you many times over.

It's a dull day when you don't learn something new. :)

I recently had the good fortune to have met with Sara during my brief but event filled day in Ottawa. Prior to meeting, all that I had to go on were her posts and her ads, and I have to say that they define Sara extremely well. We spent a good deal of time together and I found that she was very easy to get along with and easy to get to know. She laughs and has fun and that is contagious. I expect that she will have fun wherever she is and with whatever she is doing.:smile: For me, that is a really big thing because I tend to be very shy and she met and interacted with me as if we had been long time friends. It is true. Opposites DO attract! Her interests outside of the business are varied and interesting, and I was very interested in the fact that she plays the flute and perhaps will be a part of a group that will be making a CD. I would like to have seen her play the flute-- well, perhaps I benefited from her skill, in a certain other context.:smile: She was relaxed and comfortable to hold, and making out with her was a treat. She knew what I liked instinctively and we were never rushed at all. She enjoys teasing too! I have wondered about taking her unspoken challenge but that might require the supreme balancing act on my part. A woman in orgasm is always a treat for me to play a part in and she has two little quirks associated with them that you will have to discover for yourself. :smile: So, thank you Sara for a memorable, fun, and erotic evening. It was my pleasure to have been able to meet you. Gentlemen, if you have the opportunity to spend some time with Sara, I am confident that you will leave a happy man.

Totally Responsive In Playful Situations Next: GROUP

Happy Birthday in advance Cleo, whenever it might be. Ah, me thinks that this may not be the hit of the party :) From 1952 Vera Lynn - Auf Weidersehen Sweetheart http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SUJ-C1Vp2Lw&feature=related But, this was also # 1 in December of that year.:) Jimmy Boyd - I Saw Mommy Kissing Santa Claus Hopefully you are a Christmas baby.:) I can play Santa for you.

Good Morning Erin. Just sending you a vibe wishing you continued success. On a sunny day, take a smoke free walk through a park surrounded by those Ottawa tulips and appreciate health, the fresh air and the beauty around you.

Perfection Obviously Involves Sensual Expertise. Next: PHOTO

Let's see. Just a few. But otherwise, all is good :) 1. Being in Ottawa for the start of tulip festival week but the tulips were just looking like they wanted to bloom in the near future. 2. Being away from home for the first day of lobster season on May 1st. 3. Those years when April 15th, the first day of trout season, is still like midwinter with frozen ponds and streams 4. Having no one to share my heartshaped whirlpool with. :( 5. Boston beating the Canadiens in overtime in game 7. 6. Being in last place in the Cerb hockey pool.

Deepthroating - Really OhMyGod OhMyGod Lovely. Next: PLAYS

If the door opened to me and it was in fact someone that I knew, my initial reaction would be one of surprise for sure. I expect that I would ask if I could come in to talk and of course ask at some point if she felt it would be a good idea or not to continue the date. Either of us could easily excuse ourselves from the situation and hopefully with good humour on all sides. It is interesting that I did see an SP who from the moment she opened the door had an air of familiarity for me. She did not appear to react at all, and we did have a great time. I did ask in an email later on if she knew me and the response was a no, but I am still wondering to myself a bit. Hmmmm.

I cannot really believe what I have just read here. I am certain that the vast majority of men and women on this board find the comment distasteful, disturbing and dangerous. I believe that most of us treat people as people first regardless of their sex, and that our personal interactions should demonstrate the respect that we have for each other, as everyone deserves. My experience here has demonstrated that the women are individuals with feelings, families, friends, just the same as anyone else. They have been caring, sincere, and honest. Their career choice requires that they use precaution in their meetings and this unfortunately is a reminder to them of that. Equally unfortunate is the fact that when a man expresses thoughts such as these it can reflect to some degree on the community of men as a whole, even at a subconcious level. For me it is disturbing and embarrassing to have felt a need to respond to a comment such as this. MY SP's are people first. Do onto others as you would have them do unto you.

This is going to be very interesting before it is done.:) Love those upsets!

What a great event. I am so glad that my travel schedule coincided and allowed me to be there and to meet some of the people who I have come to know through Cerb. A perfect venue, great organization and simply a great evening. Special thanks to Nicolette and Angela for their hard work and hopefully you two can get to relax a bit now after doing all of that for us. I can see an extended trip to Ottawa in the near future for me. :)

Is Sara normally at a loss for words? :)

I have to think along the same lines as Isabella with this, and wonder what issue there might be for someone to withold their Cerb name from communications. Unless there are circumstances that I am unaware of, the identity of the person behind the name is anonymous, so a personal identification should not be an issue. For me because of personal circumstances I have no issue with not only disclosing my Cerb handle but I often give my real name and contact information to a SP. I have been told that I am an overly trusting person, but I know that I have no issues with that with the women that I have met. Looking through the comments from WIT he has broached an aspect of this that I had not even previously considered, being the rep of the hobbyist as a potentially strong writer of reccos. That is something that I would like to ponder a bit more. As well, a Cerb handle being provided to the SP does give some degree of prior awareness about the hobbyist, if that hobbyist has been a contributor to forums. Those contributions, if they exist, would in all liklihood give the SP some prior knowledge if she chooses to search them out. THAT would be another interesting forum topic. DO SP's do "research" of that nature when contacted by a new potential date? Good topic Isabella. Love it when you make me think!

Interestingly enough, what my answer would have been when I began may have changed to some degree. For me, virtually all of the women here are younger than I, and my thoughts had always been that my preference would have been women from at the very least 30+. Perhaps it is the "robbing the cradle," image that I have. I have found though that maturity is NOT solely a function of a chronological age. Maturity is the way that one conducts themself, the way that they are knowledgeable about a variety of things and just having the wisdom of life experiences behind you. That is the maturity that I like. Based on that definition of maturity I have met some women under that 30 number who have been very mature and great to meet. As with most things, there is no black and white answer for me, and I still smile every time I see the word mature used by women over 30. If THEY are defining themselves as mature at 30, then what then am I, being a LOT older than that? And I feel like a kid! Variety is great, and everyone will have their own preferences and biases based on their backgrounds and experiences.

This is evolving in quiate an unanticipated way! With the common selections of a number of players, and with Philly and Washington looking like they may be in trouble, Meg ,may be in a pretty good position with 4 from Boston and Tampa Bay. As for me, I have my two "lesser" known Canucks who are going to have to become scoring stars. Ah, the pressure. :)