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Well, I have stayed out of this discussion and primarily because of feeling the same frustrations so often expressed here. However, I refuse to NOT vote. I am travelling from coast to coast, leaving on Sunday so will miss election day and the advance polls. I went to the main electoral office and cast my Green party vote, probably as much a protest vote as anything. Regardless, everyone, VOTE. And yeah, Harper is a very scary man. (Sorry)

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Just my two cents worth, and it is difficult to comment intelligently without knowing some other possible factors of the kind that Samantha mentioned above. However, when I read your post first a while ago, my initial thoughts went very much toward what Samantha was getting at. Having encounters with SP's is far more than a sexual encounter, as many men here have so eloquently written about in so many posts. There is the personal factor, the personal connection, or maybe even one can go as far as the "friend" connection that plays through your head. Perhaps the concept of paying for intimacy is one thing but the concept of paying for a friendship is something that is far more difficult to get ones head around? I really like what Samantha has said as being a possibility, that it may be a more lasting personal connection that you seek, along with all of the things that go along with that. I can easily see that some men because of that and depending upon their past or current experiences, might have a difficulty as you describe. Best of luck with your dilema and as much as many people like to keep things to themselves to work out, sharing helps whether it be here or with a friend or family doctor. Take care of yourself.

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Ah Meg, it is early days. :) I was going to ask you to join my cheerleader team, but since we are competitors...... Thanks for doing this Lee!

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Congratulations to one of my new friends whose posts I have enjoyed reading and learning from.

Well said.

Thanks RG. I have been hearing that and not ready to start over either. Take Care.

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I am kind of laughing to myself as I read this. I probably have the dumbest CERB name on here! So if you get a PM from me, I always use my real name. I like that a LOT better! Wonder if the Mod allows a change on name here somehow? Surely I could think of something better.

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Meg I believe that you have Steve flustered! So if either of you wish to contribute the next set of letters, I shall be waiting to jump in. :)

Interesting site, but from me just a single very personal comment. My life is complicated enough right now, or, better yet, in the "glass half full," optimistic way of looking at things, my life is very simplified right now. I have discovered CERB, discovered a community of sincere people, discovered a safe place, discovered an area where one knows ahead of time expectations from all parties without surprises, discovered a place where friends are being made, and most of all discovered a place filled with amazing and caring and respectful people, both men and women alike. For me, as long as I choose to enjoy it, this will be my area to explore, to seek,to continue to learn and to have new experiences. To his his or her own, but here I stay.

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The decision of whether to give a full and real name if asked is entirely up to the individual. If it is requested, and for your own personal reasons you choose not to do so, then so be it and accept it. I know that I am fortunate in that I do not have any reason whereby I need to protect my identity from anyone in regards to this, SP's, friends or family. I would prefer that my friends and family not know, but if they find out then I am totally comfortable that they would understand. That in itself is a rather sad statement isn't it, that this activity because of social "norms," is best left unstated. We have a long way to go don't we, and I mean both ladies and men with that. Regardless I wish to reiterate something written earlier. Whatever is required by a SP that will alleviate their concern for their own personal safety is valid. If their requirement does not meet your comfort level, then there are alternatives I am sure, and one should respect their wishes and efforts that they make to ensure their own personal safety. IT is THEIR space, THEIR identity and THEIR body and from my perspective THEY have a great deal more to lose than I should they not take basic common sense precautions. It has been said, and I can see it in post after post, in forum after forum, that the vast majority of men here are discreet, respectful, and people that any of us would be proud to call a friend. Let's not lose that in the discussion. Again, ladies, be careful and do what you need to do to be secure.

How can one understand so well what constitutes an amazing encounter and yet find it so difficult to define? Perhaps it is because what makes it amazing is NOT based solely on one thing or one specific aspect. A personal connection and comfort level is priority and any intimacy that follows is ever so much enhanced by that. I have loved hearing about the SP's ideas and thoughts and goals and ambitions and plans, and yes it is flattering when they are interested in knowing more about me. It may sound strange to say this considering what brought me here originally, but I have had encounters where I could have left after having had such good conversation, and been pleased to have spent my time with that person in that way. And in those situations it was a seduction that followed, so with that the entire experience goes to a whole new level. Prior to an encounter I am always nervous, with a sense of anticipation and not knowing what will evolve adds to a sensual and erotic experience. When I learn to be less nervous then I can see the encounters rising to an even higher degree of personal enjoyment, hopefully for both of us. Her enjoyment and pleasure gives me perhaps even more enjoyment than when she does that for me. I always leave with questions that I wish I would have (or could have) asked and a desire to know more about the lady as a person and what makes her what she is. I think it is just my enjoyment of learning about people. So, no short answer Emily. To me, it all about what is in my head, and hers. I have been very lucky with the quality women that I have met.

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I shall be tuned in, and it is quite possible that tonight just may have an impact.

Away Les Canadiens! I expect that the Bruins are nervous. :)

Have appreciated the responses here today. A reminder of the primary purpose of the thread is the information below. Signing up to be a donor is not nearly as important as notifying your family of those wishes. I was not sure if some of the respondents picked that up. Primarily I wish to address the issue of organ donation cards and authorizations. You may have signed the card or indicated your wishes on a drivers licence or in a health care directive, but it is important to note that those wishes have NO legal authority. The decision of whether a person will be an organ donor rests solely with the family. The family may choose to withhold permission, even with a donor card in existence, or vice-versa, may give permission if the topic had never come up for discussion. I encourage you to speak with your own families about this so that should they have to make a decision on your behalf or you have to do so on their behalf, that the decision is informed and easily made, even under what will be traumatic circumstances.