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I heard that it was National pi day. First I thought they meant pie day. But no, pi, as in 3.1415 You know, you remember back to high school I am sure. Circumfrence divided by diameter = that constant of 3.14. A handy little tool too. Circumfrence of a circle=pi X diameter. Area of a circle = pi X radius squared. Volume of a cylinder = pi X radius squared X height Did you ever wonder about what sort of a life a man would have if his spare time was spent in measuring the crircumfrence of circles and then the diameters and then thinking to divide the two together to get what turns out to be pi? And sometimes, I think I have no life!!! Hey lets see. If I think back to some of my wonderful encounters with people here, and then just let that thought work its magic, grab that cloth tape measure,. Yes I can measure the circumfrence, and do a little calculation to get my diameter. Oh, can that be right? Not a very big number. Have a good pi day all.

Well said Lee.

As a relatively new member to CERB, I have been impressed with the contributions of its members to the forums in a multitude of different areas, from frivolous to very serious. For me because of a personal situation that I have found myself in with the passing of my wife, it is causing great personal self-reflection, and that is a good thing. It has opened me up to an entire new way of thinking that I had never considered previously, nor anticipated being a part of. The people that I have met face to face (and I agree that THAT is the best way to communicate) have been amazing, and reading the opinions and thoughts of the members here has been fascinating. Sometimes I am too serious and looking through the general discussions I have had some great laughs escape my lips. (See the thread on embarrassing moments!) So forums contributors thank you, and keep it up. I shall participate as I can, and before too long, contribute some new threads of my own. I love the balance in here.

What can I say? I adore oral, and the scent is just one of the many senses that are stimulated.

What an interesting forum post and perhaps a personal experience will help. I also at one time considered what you are considering, as I would be willing to bet many married men do. It came from just curiosity, an interest in something different and new, but I knew myself well enough that I would feel a deep sense of guilt, if not during an encounter, then certainly afterwards. For me, it was an excellent and wise decision, because I was one of the lucky guys who had an amazing wife for 37 incredible years, and I am so happy that I can look back and feel so content with the life that she and I had as best friends and lovers. Yes, she has passed away and I am delving into the world of CERB. For me, in my situation, it is incredible to meet women who are so nice, so sincere and for a few hours, very intimate friends. Even now I still think about guilt and betrayal, but that is for another forum and an issue for me to handle. So be sure of what you are doing, and do not make an impulsive or regrettable decision. For me, my decision was the right one.

I am very pleased to write about a recent visit that I had with Cathy in Halifax. She is a wonderful woman. I was very impressed with her location, and it felt ever so much more comfortable going to her relatively private location as opposed to visits that I have had in some of the upscale hotels. Her location is lovely and ever so much more personal than a hotel room, at least for me. Cathy did ask, but she had little guidance from me other than "surprise me," with her choice of apparel. She told me that she enjoyed getting dressed up, and that she did. When she opened the door I knew immediately that we were going to click together. Tasteful and sexy, all in one. Great choice Cathy. I was invited in, and she very quickly made me feel comfortable with her conversation and personable way. I am quite confident that we could have spent the whole time in conversation and I still would have left with a smile on my face. I adore intelligent women! Cathy is an extremely good looking woman, in great shape with an athletes body and shows obvious pride in her appearance. She clearly prepared for my visit in terms of her dress and appearance, the ambiance that she created, her genuine interest in me and with her willingness to share a bit about herself. At the time, and since, I have thought how much she truly was involved and seemed to enjoy all aspects of our time together. As a relative newbie and I am thinking with my obvious shyness showing, we eventually moved to a massage area where she began by undressing me. What an erotic touch that was. We chatted a bit during the massage but it was not long before I was quiet and simply abandoned myself to her hands and fingers and their gentle touches and intimate probing. Somewhere during that she managed to remove a few articles of clothing so I did not get the opportunity to return her favour by undressing her. Next time, and there will be one, my shyness will not be there, so her buttons or clasps or zippers or ties are mine to open! We eventually moved to a more intimate area and all I shall say is that some of my horizons were expanded. It was a wonderful experience. I had scheduled an hour and a half, and we probably stayed a very short time past that, just talking, but at no time ever did I feel rushed. As well, being from out of province, and travelling with restrictions for time availability on my part, I know that she did rearrange her personal schedule to allow us to meet, and for that I owe her a big thank you. To conclude, I have nothing but good feelings and good thoughts about our time together and even as I write this I am wondering about taking a drive to the city! Until next time. I am looking forward to it already.

To this point I have been using the terms meeting or appointment. Both sound rather cold to some degree, but words such a tryst or rendezvous to me almost imply participation in something that is "not quite right." Semantics and interpretation can sometimes be taxing, so to each his or her own.

I am learning my way through CERB and protocol of appointments and the "do's and don'ts", and again am so impressed with these discussion threads and the thoughtful responses from everyone involved. My experience to this point has been wonderful in every aspect, including time restraints, or lack thereof. I have never had a sense of having had to watch the clock or of having her watch the clock but that is also due in part to my own respect for the woman that I am meeting with. As much as I wish the time was unlimited to allow for conversation and connection, I am very aware that the person I am with is ultimately working and has her own schedule to adhere to with both personal and professional obligations to meet. An underlying theme that I am seeing here in many posts and in my few personal interactions so far, is the theme of respect - from everone involved. Respect always serves as a good guideline in all personal interactions.

A rainy day....perhaps we shall have some of them on the East coast soon rather than the snowstorm days that have made travel so difficult. Regardless of snow or rain, what I do is dependant to a great degree on my mood. Mellow and relaxed = a good book, some writing, erotic or otherwise, and maybe reading some of the CERB forum responses which I find so interesting. Wound up and ready to go mood = planning both short term and long, maybe even some house cleaning.

As a relatively new member to CERB and to the entire independent service provider experience, it is with great interest that I read these posts above, and it looks as if I shall also maintain the same thought flow. In looking back at the three experiences that I have had, I always think first and foremost about the woman as the person herself.....her interests, her ability to converse, her genuineness, and her enjoyment of being there with me. Sometimes I think that if I left with nothing more than that I would leave happy! It IS however that "connection," that makes any further sexual involvement so erotic and pleasurable. And here I thought it was just me that felt this way about this question. Apparently not.

Thank you too Emily for making me feel so comfortable and relaxed. I shall keep an eye on your calendar and schedule.

Hello, Hope to hear that you will have a visit to Charlottetown soon? However, I do go to Halifax regularly, so if there s a contact mail, let me know please. TY M