50 Shades Raven

My last week in Saint John, August 17th through 24th. It will be at least a year till my return. Breathless encounters that leave your imagination spinning. Have you wanted to give yourself over completely, taking your fantasies to the edge? Now you can. A wild and wonderful experience that you won’t forget. Donations are as follows: 1 hour tease and please $325 incall, $350 outcall 2 hour surrender yourself $600 incall, $650 outcall 3 hours blissful escape $900 incall, $950 outcall I will only travel to reputable hotels and not to a home that I do not know well, no exceptions. Please introduce yourself by text only to 506-705-2669 with your request, details will be discussed and laid out beforehand so that I can arrange the appointment. Remember that my phone is on silent when I am indisposed, and may not answer immediately, please be patient. Calls to my number will NOT be answered any circumstance unless I have asked you to call. Please note that my donations are non-negotiable and are subject to a cancellation fee. I make the time for you please respect that and you will be rewarded. A very small deposit assures your time and will be refunded should I not be able to fulfill my appointed time with you, however, if you do not show or cancel in less than 12 hours, then I reserve the right to retain said deposit for the inconvenience. Available hours are 8pm to 2am Monday through Thursday and 9pm to 4am Friday and Saturdays. Saint John area only.

The endless no shows and last minute cancels are terrible. If you are considering an appointment with any lady, take these points into consideration: -think about a time for an appointment you KNOW you can follow through on - be sure to know where you are going (nothing worse than a no show of “I couldn’t find you”) - try to act as if you are supposed to be there when entering a hotel! (There’s NOTHING more obvious than someone wandering around looking lost) - show up looking the part. If meeting in a public place be dressed according what others wear there, do a ‘walk-through’ a few days prior to check the place out. (Showing up in jeans/t-shirt to a first class restaurant is a definite no no) As providers we know that things happen, but when touring especially, all those that want to see you seem to have a lot of car accidents/pregnant wife in labour/just got called to work or just don’t bother showing up I get slammed with rude comments for asking for small deposits to ensure your time, but this is the ONLY country I actually have to do that in! The OP said a few good points, those that just don’t show up/last minute cancel make it very difficult for the gentleman that do actually want to see you.

Although the phrase could be innocent, 99 times out of 100 it means exactly what you stated. A reputable sp will be friendly, courteous and not “over eager”. Party friendly was code word for drugs, always best to err on the side of caution.

Now THAT’S what I call an impressive towel rack 😉

I would be more than happy to spend some time with you. As long as you are feeling good and want the company, I fully agree with Katie, you may have women fighting over you 🥰

In that case, Shyness13, I'd love to make your acquaintance 🙂

I do ask for a small deposit from someone that I have never seen before. Some people have zero information and are unwilling to give information, my safety comes first in this. This deposit assures that you are indeed someone that WANTS to book with me. My policy is: if you cancel less than 12 hours before the appointed time, or are a no/show, the deposit is forfeited. If you reschedule then the deposit is used towards another scheduled time. If I cancel then the full deposit is completely refunded to you. I do a confirmation the day before and 2 hours before the appointed time. As for texting: do so in the way the sp want you to. I ask you to introduce yourself, give your board handle, etc. How many times do we see, "hey babe, how much for xxx?", "available?", "$", with absolutely nothing else in the text! An example of a text that WILL get answered: "Hi Raven, this is (insert board handle here), I'm looking for an appointment of 2 hours on (insert day), do you have any availability?" This would definitely get a response from me. With so many serial bookers with no intention of showing up I instilled the 'deposit policy' a long time ago. Just imagine you going to work and not being paid just because no one decides to show up? It's the same for us, we make the time to prepare ourselves for you and we cannot just make that time up again with someone else. I do not see people in a 'revolving door' scenario and I'm selective on who I spend my time with. After having several tours in which were completely booked out and then to have zero showings/cancellations/reschedules, it is a complete waste of my time when I could have seen others that wanted to see me. I tour in Europe, Caribbean and Asia only now because of things like this.

I'm not sure to whom you were addressing this, but I am in Saint John until the end of August, then not back for several months.

It is up to the client to check their phones/devices for whatever messaging system a provider is utilizing. As for me, I got sick and tired of the bs serial ‘book a time and have no intention of showing up’ scenario. We all know those guys. I have directly in my ads now that I ask for a small deposit as a way to dismiss intentional no shows/no calls. I don’t double book, I set my time for you which means I can’t book someone else for that time. The deposit I ask for covers the cancellation fee should you need to cancel for any reason, or can be used as deposit for a reschedule. If I cancel, however, the deposit is fully refunded to the client, as the client shouldn’t be punished if I can’t make it. Read providers ads and/or websites very carefully as usually the policies are there for you to see. I do discuss this with every client. Basically, don’t waste my time. A small deposit is a small price to pay for peace of mind.

Going to someone’s home, I have to be assured they live alone ALL the time and that we’ve seen each other quite a number of times. The risk of going to a strange home is not worth my safety. I’m sure the guys feel the same way about coming to the space a provider has, but following instructions and walking in with a sense of where you are going will make the visit more pleasurable. Safety is a concern on both sides.

You know you want it ...... You know I can give it to you! Seize the opportunity to be punished for all those nasty things you do.... Please me, and I may be fair. Displease me and you may find yourself in a world of pleasureful pain. An invitation to a very few, be one of those few to experience the pleasures of my company. Limited appointments for extreme pleasure. PM for inclusion with the following: Lyla name/handle day you are looking for amount of time you seek limitations/boundaries (if any) contact preference (if you want me to text, email or call) I thoroughly recommend 2 hours or more for an ultimate experience at my incall location or out to your suite. Experience the '50 shades of Raven' and let your senses come to life! Donations are as follows: 1 hour tease and please $325 incall, $350 outcall 2 hour surrender yourself $600 incall, $650 outcall 3 hours blissful escape $900 incall, $950 outcall I will only travel to reputable hotels and not to a home that I do not know well, no exceptions. Please introduce yourself by PM or text only to 506-705-2669 with your request, details will be discussed and laid out beforehand so that I can arrange the appointment. Remember that my phone is on silent when I am indisposed, and may not answer immediately, please be patient. Calls to my number will NOT be answered any circumstance unless I have asked you to call. Please note that my donations are non-negotiable and are subject to a cancellation fee. I make the time for you please respect that and you will be rewarded. A very small deposit assures your time and will be refunded should I not be able to fulfill my appointed time with you, however, if you do not show or cancel in less than 12 hours, then I reserve the right to retain said deposit for the inconvenience. Available hours are 8pm to 2am Monday through Thursday and 9pm to 4am Friday and Saturdays. Saint John area only.

I would be very happy to accommodate your request

Available for 30 minute or hour massage with fabulous ending 😉

omg that is way out of line! As bad as grab and go with cash. A burner phone is a great idea, that way work/significant other isn't involved.

It has been a long day and you are feeling up for an adventure. So am I! Your curiosity has you piqued as you surrender your body to me. Sensual massage along with warm oils, candles and seductive music ...... what more could you ask for? Perhaps a game involving blindfolds, ropes and ......... Got your attention? An experience like no other where you go to the edge and back, time and again, expanding your boundaries like you never thought you could. Perhaps sissification is for you, or being my slave and doing my bidding, a little bdsm? No? Then sensory deprivation where you will be fulfilled with the desires that you never thought possible. Donations are as follows: 1 hour tease and please $325 incall, $350 outcall 2 hour surrender yourself $600 incall, $650 outcall 3 hours blissful escape $900 incall, $950 outcall I will only travel to reputable hotels and not to a home that I do not know well, no exceptions. Please introduce yourself by text only to 506-705-2669 with your request, details will be discussed and laid out beforehand so that I can arrange the appointment. Remember that my phone is on silent when I am indisposed, and may not answer immediately, please be patient. Calls to my number will NOT be answered any circumstance unless I have asked you to call. Please note that my donations are non-negotiable and are subject to a cancellation fee. I make the time for you please respect that and you will be rewarded. A very small deposit assures your time and will be refunded should I not be able to fulfill my appointed time with you, however, if you do not show or cancel in less than 12 hours, then I reserve the right to retain said deposit for the inconvenience. Available hours are 8pm to 2am Monday through Thursday and 9pm to 4am Friday and Saturdays. Saint John area only.

Ok, so I've been away for a while, but, what happened to our profiles? All of a sudden I have no notes, no followers .......seems a little weird 🙂 It's like I've just started on here again after being on here for quite a few years. Very strange

the endless amount of requests for pictures to see if I'm 'legit'. I guess being verified on Lyla isn't good enough for some. No name, where he found me till I asked. It's pretty clear on my profile that I like bookings through my website. This way I know that you have at least looked at it. I'm not in Canada all the time and there are certain cities I will never go to again but if a lady asks you to contact her through her website, please, do that. (Or in the case of other ladies, please contact them in their choice of communication, not just one you randomly feel like using) It shows a sign of respect. Respect is something of a 2 way street, give out respect and you will receive it in return.

I totally agree with Meg on this. I have asked for a deposit by e-transfer (a small amount for longer/overnight bookings) but only when someone has no references or has no-showed or cancelled last minute with me before. It's a way if assuring that you are actually booking to show up. Our time is set for you, and we cannot receive a booking when these no-shows/last minute cancels happen. But that being said, I would never ask for the full amount up front along with the password. The small deposit is taken up front but it is a very small amount. The password you can give me when you arrive. Anyone that asks for it all up front is a possible fake.

lots of no-shows are other providers making fake bookings. I've caught a few. The problem with that is that it makes the screening process way more demanding in order to make sure the person booking is real. I upped my screening to include having to go through my contact page and provide a valid number I can call to actually speak to the person. If you can't adhere to that then I just don't trust enough to let you in my home. Discretion works two ways here but if you can't trust me enough with the information I require, then unfortunately you will never see me. Discretion is something I pride myself on. I respect your privacy please respect mine.

In Saint John for the weekend. Time and pleasure can go hand in hand. Your fantasy is my pleasure. Exquisite candlelight, soft music, and warm oils can heighten your pleasure. Let me take you on a journey that you won't easily forget ;) A rare treat of my time and yours. Try to make me breathless ......... for an appointment, please include the following in your inquiry: name or handle contact number date and preferential time you desire how long you desire my company There is a lot of information on my website, please do review it before contacting me, this way most of your questions will be answered. I am available from Friday July 1st to Monday July 3rd Hours are between 11am to 11pm (unless you would like an overnight) Please note that rude/obscene comments/inquiries will not be answered If you make a booking, please show up, if you are nervous that is fine, I assure you I will put you at ease and make you feel comfortable. Pleasure is what my time is all about. Completely non-rushed

130. the awesome people that I have met and the insight that everyone puts into the forums

welcome back :-) I try to make my ads as 'entertainment', I don't use any sexually-related terms whatsoever, and try to have it where the guys can 'read through the lines' so to speak. It is difficult to be creative when piecing together an ad, but take a look at what others are posting to get a feel for what is acceptable. Same goes with websites if you have one linked to your ad. If it has sexual act content on it, it wont get posted.

when I first posted this thread it had been a frustrating 2 weeks, now that has turned into a very frustrating 3 months. The amount of no shows, cancellations at the last minute (or worse, canceling AFTER the appointed time is here) is on an overwhelming uprise. Do guys consider this something that is ok to do? I just had the same guy cancel twice on me in the same week, once with zero notice and the second with less than 10 minutes notice. He cited 'last minute doctors appointments'. Since when do doctors see you 'last minute', at night, unless you have something deadly or you are on your deathbed? As much as I love to provide this entertainment, I think the guys get entertainment out of just making the appointments with zero intention of showing up. I am so thankful that I have an actual job, because if I had to rely on providing for any reason, I would be bankrupt. We girls take a lot of care to please you, and make sacrifices to accommodate your schedules. Last night I missed my friends birthday party because of some douche bag that decided to cancel without a thought of where this would leave me. I never used to enforce my cancellation policy to the degree that I do now. It is an inconvenience when I have to turn my schedule around to do this for someone who just doesn't care. Screening just got turned up a notch also. Be considerate when you MUST cancel, give the person as much notice as possible, and at least make the excuse something real. I have never been late for an appointment, but I had to cancel once when I was involved in a car accident and I showed video of what was happening to the client. He paid my hotel bill for the inconvenience of me having to stay an extra two days for the investigation of why someone hit my car.

my phone does that also, I'm not asleep, I'm at work at my regular job between the days that I advertise, lol. Some people just don't get it that we are not available just when they are. I write my ads quite clearly, rates AND availability but they don't see anything but the phone number. It wouldn't be so bad when it's a one time call, especially when that person apologize and is polite. But when you get the same guy asking the same stupid questions EVERY time you're not available then I just classify them now as "too stupid to grace my presence" lol If someone can't follow a simple directive then I don't want you here as you won't stay within boundaries.

a 3:15am Monday morning stupid questions text session when I'm advertised available Wednesday to Saturday 1pm to 10pm! Which part of Wed-Sat 1pm-10pm does it show that I'm available Monday morning at 3:30am? Not only once, but this is the 3rd time the same guy has done this, instant block on my phone now!