50 Shades Raven

acting frustrated at potential clients that are a pain in the ass!

How do you handle it when you have multiple ads on multiple sites, but someone sees your ad (not on here) and calls you on it several days after the ad was placed (and now since removed) asking for the rate that was advertised? Would you: 1. allow them that rate? 2. tell them that rate was only for that day and the ad is no longer valid as the ad has been removed? 3. offer them a different rate from what you normally have? 4. tell them no? Would be interested in hearing from others as to how they would handle this. It seems that a half price reduction already wasn't good enough.

best advice I could possibly give here, look in the area you reside, find out who you are attracted to, find out their rates/services, and take it from there. No one here is going to step up and say, 'hey, I'm sub par and cheap', as it has been said before, inexpensive in your eyes may be expensive to another's. Take the time to look at ladies, and find out what is a comfortable fit with what you seek and that fits your pocketbook.

When it comes to pics, I have been asked, 'why don't you have pro photoshots?' Up until now, I did not feel the need for them, and at the cost of $1000+ it wasn't justifiable. The pics I have are selfies, and they are of me, just as I am. When I open the door, that is the image you will see. No expectations of anything less. I discussed with my photographer about photoshopping, as I don't want that. I don't believe that it conveys a true and accurate picture of who I am. If there happens to be a zit, yes, that will be 'filtered' out, but nonetheless, they will be an accurate depiction of who I am. My photoshoot will have different scenarios of me, in different positions, different stages of dress/undress, and hair and makeup done in different ways, but will still be a depiction of what you see when I open the door, the true me. I don't want to give someone a false illusion of who they are visiting. If you photoshop your pictures to the point of where you don't even look like yourself, it is a great disappointment to those that wish to be with you, the fantasy image that they have of you is no longer.

this is listed on the top of the Escortfish ad Female Escorts 902-702-3101 19 year old female Blonde hair / Blue eyes 5' 1" / 85lbs 34B but ...... this is how she describes herself in the same ad, VICTORIA, Sunday NIGHT incall/outcall text 902-702-3101 Halifax, Halifax OUTCALL 902-702-3101 Hi guys, I'm Victoria, cute university student with long legs and a sexy slim body. -5'7" -115lbs -Blond hair, blue... She goes by two names, Brittany and Victoria. I know we can all gain/lose weight, but can we change heights? and why would you use two different names on the same ad listings? doubt its real!! seems fishy to me

This is some pretty scary stuff. Living in this area, I will be way more diligent in who I choose to see, and vamp up my screening process a little more. For the gentlemen of Lyla, this won't be a problem for those who have been on here since before this date, but for those that are new with very little in their profile, I'm afraid its going to be a little more difficult for them. I advertise here, but on other sites as well, looks like I'm going to be busy making sure that I am careful with who I choose to spend time with.

I would consider going to the valley, but I would ask for deposits first. Being that some girls have been there before with no success, and having excuses such as 'someone might see my car', or 'someone might see me go in/leave the place', it seems that reliable and reputable providers might steer clear of there. If you are afraid that someone might see you/your car, then park where its not seen and walk a fair distance if you have to. Also, walk like you have a purpose going somewhere. There is nothing more noticeable than a guy trying to sneak around, it is so obvious it's not funny. Walk with confidence and look like you belong. I really dislike when I'm asked to go somewhere then have a bunch of no-shows. Like Katherine said, I don't want to sit around wasting money. It costs us to travel, to have a place to entertain you, so it seems fair that if you ask us to come there and you book with us, at least show up!

dick pics have to be the worst, especially when it's the only thing in a message! I don't care for those type of messages, or rude ones for that matter, it does nothing for me. Love the comment of 'charging by the inch', that is awesome ;-) I know if you are a male you are going to have a dick, but it does not impress me in the least when that is the only item in the 'message'. I have never asked for a dick pic, don't think I ever will.

attitude, definitely. A gentleman who comes across confident, alluring, sensual, all without having to say a word, totally sexy! Well dressed and groomed, manners, also very sexy

I cut the cable cord a very long time ago, been on netflix for a few years now and absolutely love it. I can watch what I want, when I want, where I want instead of being tied to the umbilical cord of cable. For $8 a month and just the cost of internet, it's definitely the way to go for me.

Take the plunge into my world of pleasureful pain. I am doing a pro photoshoot this week, and to celebrate, I am reducing my rates for those special gentlemen of Lyla until my pictures go up ;-) Mild to wild, I can give you pleasure like you have never known. If you are seeking the domme experience, tantric, fantasy or fetish, come let me use my wistful ways with you. To book with me, please tell me: Lyla name which service you seek day and time you are seeking Private, discreet incall location with fresh linens and showers available. Outcall available upon request. Let me bring out the inner sub in you, and surprise yourself.

the positive attitude of members is what makes this a great site. Negativity gets nipped in the bud, but outside of that I think that there is a lot of great info on here that has nothing to do with 'services'. Members help each other and give support to one another. Hopefully it always stays this way :-)

I have two pets, a dog and a cat, love them to death

it's difficult to say if I would have this as a 'standard' appointment time, and I certainly wouldn't entertain it as a first-time appointment , way too short for a first time visit, but something I would entertain to a regular ;-)

Welcome from Dartmouth! You will enjoy it here, lots of fun info and great ladies ;-)

probably best to look at pictures of providers on their pages or websites. This way you will get an accurate view of how they look and if they are appealing to you.

in wine, I like German Reislings in liquor, I truly enjoy very good single malt scotch, Auchentoshan 12 being one of my faves. in cocktails, a nice Manhatten or Cosmo does it for me :-) beers, I enjoy Guinness and Grolsch

I enjoy being the giver and receiver of light spanking. When it is to the point of painful, that is where I draw the line. Spanking should be fun and playful, not hurtful. It is somewhat of a trust issue with 2 consenting adults, and not something to get into lightly with a first time client. It is something to build up to. I like b d s m, spanking and kink, but it is not the be-all-end-all of what I offer or like to receive. To each their own, just happens to be something I like ;-):whip:

I advertise on several sites, and I have had countless requests for b b f s. It never ceases to astound me at how many ask for this! It is something that I will never ever consider providing! I don't care how much money you have, how good you are, or how clean you claim to be. My health (and yours, hopefully) is important to me, and not worth losing over a stupidity act. As for fishing with any new sp as to if they offer this? Blacklisting happens very easily. Anyone that asks me persistently for this, definitely gets on my blacklist. Asking if I offer it isn't the problem, I politely state 'I do not offer that service, sorry'. If that satisfies your curiosity and you state you were just checking, no problem. When you moan/beg/whine/plead to try to get to me do it, that is when I blacklist. Regular testing is somewhat of a routine for me, it should be for anyone in this hobby. Don't ever take chances with your health, all it takes is once with someone, and now you have a potential problem. The sp may have been clean, but perhaps the last person she saw was not.

welcome to a great site, you will find very friendly people here, lots to read and learn ;-)

I agree with Cristy here. Lingerie from different manufacturers have a size equivalent that makes zero sense. For example, I am a perfect size 36D at La Senza, a perfect size 36C at La Perla, Christian Dior I am a perfect size 6. I wear a size 5-8 in clothing, because the manufacturers do not use the same sizing charts, go figure. For someone who wears a size 6 in clothing, why on earth do I have to purchase corsets in a size 2XL (equivalent to a size 24 in north American standards)? A gift card from the store of your choice is a wonderful idea, the lady can then choose an appropriate size for herself. But on the other hand, I wouldn't mind at all if someone were to ask me what size I wore should they be thinking of purchasing me something like this. I would simply inquire as to where they planned on purchasing, this way I can give an accurate size according to store :-) Additional Comments: If I were offering something particular, was booked, you appeared and now I could not offer that particular 'item of choice costing extra', I would be letting you know so that your donation for time could be readjusted by you. The fact that this lady has done this to two people that know each other, therefore a reliable source, it looks like a form of 'bait and switch'. Taking for a service that is not available without readjusting the fee. Wrong, in my eyes! I offer different things at different times. If I find that I cannot provide something that has been requested by you at the time of you meeting with me, then I am going to tell you that with as much advance notice as possible, so that you can readjust your donation before your visit. This is where communication is key in this world. I have no problem in letting a gentleman know I cannot provide a certain 'item' should that be the case. It is his choice then to re-schedule, cancel, or have a readjustment in donation. A lady that does this consistently, may not have 'offered' that particular 'item' at all, but rather just a ploy to get a larger donation, figuring your there now anyway, so you will go ahead. There is nothing wrong (I see anyway) in asking for a reduction in donation if a particular item is not available for you which you are booked for. From my perspective, it looks as though you, and your 'buddy' were taken advantage of. Not a good way for a lady to earn a good reputation on this board.

from the point of view of an sp, it is true, we do not judge you or use a scorecard, lol The 'main experience' is not all there is to an encounter, there is much more to it. Remember the point when your marriage was fresh and exciting? That is what an encounter with an sp should feel like. No worrying about bill payments, household items, the car problems,kids etc. Time with an sp should be invigorating, sensual and exciting. There are no ties with an sp, no having to worry if you are 'performing' to her satisfaction. Any sp should be able to make you feel welcome and give to you the best experience you could possibly have. Take a look around in your area, talk/text/email to the lady of your choice and get a good idea for what you may feel is the right person of your choosing. Not any one sp is going to satisfy everyone, as you know, ymmv, but that being said, I am sure there is someone out there that you will connect with that gives you everything you need, want and desire.

best advice, be honest. not everyone is to everyone's taste, so the best way is to say I don't think this works for me. Give her a token of appreciation at least for a last minute cancellation by all means, but at least be honest.

I fully agree with Emily here, we are free to set our donations for time with us at whatever we feel we are worth. If someone books time with me, and they want to have a rousing game of video games, have me bake a cake with them, or read poetry with them, I am more than happy to provide that. We don't just provide 'adult' entertainment, we are companions, and that in itself is worth whatever the gentleman thinks it is worth. But I do admit, the thought of having a hula hoop contest in the nude could be lots of fun, hhhmmmm

texts like this: 'pics plz' my answer? see my website/page 'were u @ hun' at home 'u free now?' yes, but when you get here I may not be 'can you do xyz 4 abc?' see my website for rates 'its my birthday, do I get a discount?' show me government issued ID and I might ;-) and my most favorite text of all time - (after bantering back and forth with most/all of the above and still no booking cause I'm out of your price range/or your too cheap) 'ur jst a dumbass whore, I wont use you!' (by now I have your phone number and a name you use, so I can keep it in my 'never book' file, heheheheh) It doesn't take much to look at a lady's website/ad to figure out if you can 1) afford her, 2) if you like what you see enough to read through what she needs to entertain a booking. I ask three simple questions, when are you looking for, which service are you interested in, how long would you like to have my companionship. How hard are those to answer? If you can't answer those, then I can't be bothered to entertain stupid questions that are easily found as answers on my website and calendar. And people wonder why we get upset? Just a few turn offs, there are a lot more