50 Shades Raven

receiving a massage from a gentleman would be wonderful :) The thought of someone's hands exploring my body would feel absolutely amazing.

full agreement on this! Etiquette should be adhered to when responding by email also. One liners just lead to email tag which is a complete waste of time :-( Introduce yourself, what are you looking for, when are you looking for, how long would you like to spend with me. I just got an email today with a name, no location, no dates in mind, no length of time, so I have no idea where in the 'world' (literally) I will be at the time this person is looking for. :) It just makes common sense to tell us those 4 little details, whether it be by phone, email, text or pm.

I got into this cause it's just plain fun! Getting to meet lots of new and exciting people all the time is a real benefit of this. Doing something with my hands is a real bonus too, as I'm very good with my hands, as well as other parts of me ;-) The money is just a perk, and although I have a 'day job' that I would never give up (I LOVE my job!!), it is great to be able to get paid for something you do well. Some get into this for the money, and some because they feel they have to, but for me, it was just for the fun of it!

BP 'can' be a good place, but certainly do your research. I see a lot of advice that seems to conflict other advice here. Such as, 'check to see if a lady has other ads on other sites', 'be on the lookout if a lady has ads on other sites', 'makes sure there are recommendations' (quite difficult due to not being able to ask for reco's or lack of gentlemen wanting to post them) a little contradictory. I advertise on several sites, but I really like what cerb/lyla offers. And just like it was said before, just because someone doesn't have a boatload full of recommendations, does not mean that she is not what she says she is. It is up to you to use your instinct. I have see many a client from cerb/lyla repeatedly, yet most do not post a reco. Why? I have no idea, but most say they do not like to 'tell their experiences'. If the pictures look like $10,000 a day models with very low rates or poorly written content, no website to review, chances are they are fake. If 'her' name changes as often as the wind blows, or her age is different in several ads, you have a problem. If the pics are seen in several cities for the same period of time, you definitely have a problem (unless that girl has a teleporter, lol). Bait and switch has, and will be, a problem in this industry. One of the things that can reassure you, is by contacting the particular girl (using her preferred method), get some feedback on your inquiry. Inquiries are always accommodated, as long as you approach her in the manner that she has requested. Please review her website or ads for details on that. But the old saying holds true, if it looks too good to be true, it usually is.

I advertised on it a couple of times, ads lasted 2-3 minutes before being pulled by cl. Guess competition doesn't like having others in their 'territory', lol I just don't advertise on it anymore, too much drama and crap, lol

Sorry to say, but I have decided to cancel my visit to Ottawa this year. I've been in the city a few times, but never 'working' and never in the winter. Plans have changed, and I am appearing elsewhere, perhaps next time :)

Hello gentlemen I am making a 'one time only' trip to the Northern region for December 21-29th. I will be in Yellowknife December 21st through 24th, and then on to Whitehorse for December 26th through 29th. I offer a playtime of pleasure, sensuality and individual attention. Whether you are looking for an evening out, massage, an eventful adventure, or a playful evening in, let Raven take care of you. Available 10am through 2am, all dates, book your time now to avoid disappointment. Standing only 5'2" and 128lbs, I am petite. I have amazing curves in all the right places, enticing blue/green eyes that long to gaze into yours, intellectual conversation and a sense of adventure. I prefer to be contacted through my web page, or you may contact me through PM here. Please note, I do need the following information to book with you: name or handle; what companionship you are seeking; date and time you desire; a contact number (I do want to speak with you to finalize). *messages containing vulgarities will not be responded to* I will do my best to arrange the time that you seek. If you are seeking billing by credit/debit card, these are payable in advance, and may be done over the phone with me anytime. Bookings are awarded on availability, and only with a small deposit. I look forward to meeting you and giving you the time of your life with a sweet southern girl.

whatever you choose to go with is your choice. I gave up on texting as my phone never stopped. Even though I said to text, I would get phone calls, at usually at the most inopportune time. Nothing wrong with wanting someone to adhere to your wishes :) Texting can get endless, and just turns into sexting. This is the reason I won't go on cam in the chat, people want it for free and this is not what this site is about. Stick with what you think works best for you :)

I 'love' the new way that when we go to post our ads, when we 'preview', the system will tell us which words cannot be used. Having CERB comply with the new laws is a blessing, and now they have made it much easier for us to comply within CERB. Thank you for that. I, for one, do not want to go outside of what the law allows, and although it may make it a little more difficult to read our personal sites, CERB has paved the way for gentlemen to see our ads in a most lawful way. When reading our sites, just remember to really read what you are looking at. If anyone sees something on my site that they feel is not within the law, please tell me! These laws are confusing, and it will take a bit of adjusting to get things right, so please inform me if anything needs to be changed. Thank you CERB for all the work that you do, and for helping us to get things right :)

Hello gentlemen I am making a 'one time only' trip to Ottawa for December 22-28th. I offer a playtime of pleasure, sensuality and individual attention. Whether you are looking for an evening out, massage, an eventful adventure, or a playful evening in, let Raven take care of you. Available on a limited basis, book your time now to avoid disappointment. Standing only 5'2" and 128lbs, I am petite. I have amazing curves in all the right places, enticing blue/green eyes that long to gaze into yours, intellectual conversation and a sense of adventure. I prefer to be contacted through my web page, or you may contact me through PM here. Please note, I do need the following information to book with you: name or handle; what companionship you are seeking; date and time you desire; a contact number (I do want to speak with you to finalize). *messages containing vulgarities will not be responded to* I will do my best to arrange the time that you seek. If you are seeking billing by credit/debit card, these are payable in advance, and may be done over the phone with me anytime. Bookings are awarded on availability, and only with a small deposit. I look forward to meeting you and giving you the time of your life with a sweet southern girl.

First of all, best wishes on your healing well. Secondly, scars and 'disfigurements', as you have put it, are the body's roadmap of your life. There is nothing that would turn me off of a gentleman, except ungentlemanly behavior. I am pretty sure that discussing this with someone, they will feel the same way I do, 'does it make you any less a gentleman?' then no, there would be no rejection on my part. Major surgeries are a lot to deal with, rejection from someone because of it would be inappropriate. You are still you, you just have a life experience that someone else may not have. I may end up coming to Winnipeg instead of Ottawa if the gentlemen there are all like you :) Best wishes for a speedy recovery back to health.

Hello gentlemen I am making a 'one time only' trip to Ottawa for December 22-28th. I offer a playtime of pleasure, sensuality and individual attention. Whether you are looking for a sensual massage, an erotic adventure, or a playful evening in, let Raven take care of you. Available on a limited basis, book your time now to avoid disappointment. Standing only 5'2" and 128lbs, I am petite. I have sensual curves in all the right places, enticing blue/green eyes that long to gaze into yours, intellectual conversation and a sense of adventure. I prefer to be contacted through my web page, or you may contact me through PM here. Please note, I do need the following information to book with you: name or handle; what services you are seeking; date and time you desire; a contact number (I do want to speak with you to finalize). *messages containing vulgarities will not be responded to* I will do my best to arrange the time that you seek. If you are seeking services by credit/debit card, these are payable in advance, and may be done over the phone with me anytime. Bookings are awarded on availability, and only with a small deposit. I look forward to meeting you and giving you the time of your life with a sweet southern girl.

Hello Vixen, welcome to cerb, enjoy everything this lovely site has to offer.

welcome brooklyn, enjoy everything that cerb has to offer.

welcome to CERB Hailey, it's a great community and lots of information available, have fun

Paying for a session for an hour should be just that, or more! When I am with a client, I do not clock watch. The time they spend with me is special and to be disinterested after 15-20 minutes or so, says a lot. When you go to an sp you have never been with before, have a conversation beforehand, read their site, look at their ads, get a feel for what you are getting into. When you see things like '420 friendly', very weird looking subject lines on the ad, the 'too good to be true' info on the ad, think about the mindset of the person behind the writing. I've never done drugs, and I don't think I ever will. I do not allow those who wish to partake in drugs during my time with them to see me either. I do not mind smokers but I ask you not to smoke in my home or while you are with me at a location. If I were going to a provider and they were disinterested in being with me after 15-20 minutes, I would just get dressed and leave. If anyone asked me for a reco, I would tell them to PM me for a truthful insight. There are far too many sp's that advertise on craigslist, bp and a host of other sites that I just don't bother advertising on, due to the questionable nature of why they are an sp. If you go to an sp and there is evidence of drug use, you have the right to turn around and leave. Locations should be clean and tidy, as well as the bathroom having clean linens. Sketchy motels are known for having girls that just turn one guy over for another a few minutes later. Sorry, but I want clean sheets and linens when I have someone over! If I have to step over garbage, or see a mattress on the floor of a dirty location, I hightail it out of there! It is your choice to be with the person or not. Use your gut instinct. If you don't want drug users, or you even suspect anything is wrong, don't even enter the session.

In my opinion, I see who I want to see, when I want to see them. End of story. As it has been said before on this thread, my body, my rules. My requirements are this: - be of at least age of majority in the area of where I am at any given time - be courteous and have read my 'policies' (rudeness gets you nowhere) - don't ask for things that I explicitly do not offer - don't ask for reductions What I give back: - a splendid way for you to spend time with me - an experience that you won't soon forget - provide you with the best luxuries and sensations that I can - answer your sincere inquiries in a timely and courteous manner I don't believe that I have ever asked a potential client what their racial/ethnic background is, it just never occurred to me to do so. I take a look at in which manner a gentleman has approached me, their attitude in conversation (whether that be PM, contact page, or email), and if they have read my website for further information. I carry on conversations with the potential client in such a way that I can get an accurate picture of 'are we going to be a good pairing'. Questions or emails that just have 'rates and are you available at xxx time' leads me to believe that said person has not read anything, and is just looking for a quick 'lay'. Providers give experiences, good ones. If I feel from the first few initial responses that we are not a good pairing, I will convey that to the client. But I do it carefully so as not to offend. Prejudice and racism is always going to exist in any business, I just choose not to participate in it. I am pretty sure that I will not meet the requirements of what clients are looking for sometimes, but I sure don't get offended by it. I am certainly not a spinner, nor am I 19, and this is what some clients want. As long as the 4 'requirements' are met, your background has nothing to do with how good a time we will have together. It will be your attitude and maturity that will lead to a great session. :)

Phone interruptions during an encounter is an absolute no-no in my opinion. I place my phone, face-side down, on non-vibrate/non-ring, in a drawer or under something, so that I will NOT see/here it. Nothing is more important than the attention that I give to a client while he is in attendance. If the clients phone goes off while he is there, I give them the option of answering, their choice, but most turn them off while they are with me. An sp/provider that answers their phone while they are with you, I do consider that poor etiquette on their part.

I have done a lot of reading on this bill C-36, and find it completely contradictory and confusing in wording. I have websites that will have to be totally revamped, and that is not the problem. I believe Fortunateone put this all too well, we as providers, will be impossible to find if this goes through. Companionship, in this instance, will have to go back to the ways of almost secrecy and mystery. Yes we can have pictures on our sites, but the chosen wording will be basically 'if you like what you see, come and find out'. Which is unfortunate. We as sp's quite often have no idea of who we are dealing with when engaging in a 'first meeting' with a new client. We don't know what you look like, what you are looking for, or if we as the provider will even have a sexual attraction to you. Clients are going to have to become diligent in being patient with providers as to which services will be available to them. As far as I am concerned, there are a lot of services that I offer, and only a few that I do not, but for providers that offer only a limited 'selection' of services, there will be the aire of mystery for the clients. They may not get what they want when contacting a provider, until the client is actually with the provider and finds out what is available. It seems to me that freedom of the press is taking a turn for the worst in this case. I am not free to say what I want in advertising.

I do not believe its racism, I do believe its preference, for whatever reason. I can certainly understand the ethnicity backgrounds and not wanting to run into someone 'accidentally' from ones own ethnic background in a small community of that ethnicity. It makes perfect sense to me. Providers that do not wish to see gentlemen from any particular ethnic group, no matter which group that may be, do most certainly have the right to choose. After all, gentlemen that seek our services as providers, are certainly free to not choose any one of us due to our ethnic background, or hair color, or physical appearance. If a provider is being rude about about it, then that is a discussion between the provider and gentleman, or actually, just don't communicate with that particular provider. Rudeness is not tolerated well in this business, in any form, from either provider nor client.

wow, sorry to hear that this happened to you Too bad girls don't use up to date pics, or pull bullshit like this, it makes it a scary situation for the guys. Hopefully you will continue to participate in hobbying, if the girl doesn't look like she portrays in her pictures, don't continue, just leave.

Every provider has different policies, and with my policies, if I have a deposit or pre-pay and I cannot show for some reason, a full refund goes to the client. If an appointment is pre-paid and the client doesn't show, and there is no notice whatsoever, he therefore forfeits the payment. Circumstances do come up either way. Clients spouse/family member suddenly drops in at the worst possible moment, has car trouble, can't get out of a meeting in time to make it, there are lots of reasons. Providers have outside influences also, a client that went overtime and I can't find a gracious way to ask him to leave (in this case I've gone to the ladies room and texted I am going to be late would you like to reschedule or cancel, hence the importance of a contact number), car trouble, a host of problems. We providers tend to look at all the problems that may arise, and find a way around them. I would never just not show up for someone without a damn good excuse as to why. We providers do receive a lot of no shows, its part of this business, and we have to accept it. If the lady in question did take a prepayment, or deposit, from you, then you are entitled (in my opinion) to compensation for the no show. if it was just a pre-booking, then neither of you are obligated to the other for anything, except perhaps her reputation. If it was just a few hours of her not showing up, give her the benefit of the doubt. Contact her to find out if she is ok, and if you can reschedule, then you may find out what happened.

Hello gentlemen, and welcome to my ad. I offer a playtime of pleasure, sensuality and individual attention. Whether you are looking for a domination setting, a submissive setting, or a playful evening in, let Raven take care of you. Standing only 5'2" and 128lbs, I am petite. I have sensual curves in all the right places, enticing blue/green eyes that long to gaze into yours, intellectual conversation and a sense of adventure. Please take a look at my website where you will find my services and rates, pictures, and my schedule. I prefer to be contacted through my web page, or you may contact me through PM here. Please note, I do need the following information to book with you: name or handle; what services you are seeking; date and time you desire; a contact number (I do want to speak with you to finalize). *messages with vulgarities will not be responded to* I will do my best to arrange the time that you seek. If you are seeking services by credit/debit card, these are payable at least one day in advance, and may be done over the phone with me. I look forward to meeting you and giving you the time of your life with a sweet southern girl.

I think your website is just fabulous, well written well layed out and easy to navigate and read. Fantastic work.

I offer sensual massage, along with a host of other services. Take a look in the listings under 'Massage Providers' in the Nova Scotia section for ladies of your choice, there are several very good ones. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=336 I was recently in Halifax for 10 months, and will be back in December. Best place to look for someone would be in the section of the services you are seeking.