50 Shades Raven

Exactly as Brad and Midnight say, live your life by your rules :) Only you will know what truly makes you happy. Talk with whomever attracts you, ask questions, and then take steps to determine if they are the one you want to spend time with. I do not believe that there is a lady on this site who would not welcome questions from a gentleman caller, I answer questions all the time. Welcome to the start of your postings ;) Happy hunting Raven

Some of the Caribbean islands are absolutely wonderful. My favorite is Antigua, then St. Kitts, Martinique and Turks & Caicos. Beautiful scenery, wonderful people, a true blessing when you want to just relax and be completely immersed in yourself, or with an amazing date ;)

FunValerie hit the nail on the head here with this quote. We are selling exactly that. A gentleman will look for who he is attracted to, chemistry clicks, services he wants, and makes his decision from there. those that 'undercut`tend to do it for quantity rather than quality sometimes, which is a shame. Albeit, there are circumstances that we don`t know about in why some do this. I have advertised `special rate`for a certain day, and had someone contact me three weeks later asking for the service for THAT particular rate, just because someone else is offering it. I may have placed 5 or 6 ads since that particular rate, and the gentleman has said, `well then, let me know when your going to offer it again at that price`. First of all, its not up to me to let you know when I am offering special rates, its up to you to look for what you are seeking. Hence the reason for advertising. It`s potential clients like this that make the undercut girls have a lot of business sometimes. Those gentleman are only looking at getting their rocks off at the lowest price. Not someone that I want to see. I would rather have a gentleman that wants to see me for me, and the services that I offer. A few have stated the same thing here in this thread, that rates are not a local thing, it is up to the particular SP what he or she is going to rate specific services at, and why. Base your rates on your services, how you feel you present yourself and if you have something that you offer that no one else does, or few do offer. Services are going to be different all over the place, so are rates, gentlemen are looking for what is attractive to them, so I wouldn`t worry about the 'ùndercutters`, when someone says to me, `'oh, so and so does this for $xx', I just tell that person to go to them then, as I am not reducing my rate just because someone else does. Most of us have non-negotiable rates, so why bother even asking for a reduction, I consider it rude for anyone to ask for a reduced rate. Have your rates as to what you feel your services and you are worth.

a paper trail leading to trouble would only be valid if it were on the statements what you actually used the credit card for, such as Miss xyz' house of sex (completely ficticious out-of-thin-air name used just for example). I happen to own a legitimate company that accepts credit cards for the work that I do outside of this, so any calls regarding statements are directed to the 'company' itself so as to avoid such situations. Therefore if an SO happens to call about why this is on their credit card, I can legitimately state that services were provided on such and such a date, but certainly not for what actually happened ;) Had a couple of calls before, so I know what can happen, but it's always been covered. But at the same time, someone did bring up the fact of using a pre-loaded credit card for things like this, THAT is certainly a great piece of advice, as its untraceable, as in no paper statements, only electronic ones to your email :)

what a beautiful video, thank you Isabella for bringing it here so we can all enjoy it. As someone who lost my parents at a very young age, I will never know the feeling of having my father or mother at my wedding. It certainly brought tears to my eyes, and brought flooding back the memories (of which I have so few) of my parents as I remember them. Thank you for that, I have a huge smile on my face and tears at the same time :) I will have my parents wedding picture proudly displayed at my wedding, but it doesn't replace them being there. This is a video that shows love and concern for a daughter from a father, it is a beautiful sentiment that I am happy to have shared. The fact that he wanted to do such a thing for his daughter shows the love that we never see from the outside. It is a wonderful thing to do for someone.

As a newbie to Cerb, but I've been an sp for a few years now, I find this community to be absolutely awesome. As a marketing tool, it is completely user friendly, easy to navigate and easy to find information. Being able to promote a website within a website is new to me, so I find that this is a big bonus for me. There is way more exposure on this site, I took a look at other sites (I'm sure you can figure out which ones) and was completely distraught at the drama and backlashing that I could see on those sites, so I chose not to go with them. Cerb has been amazing, everyone is so friendly and welcoming. I don't want to 'kiss and tell', but the gentlemen that I have met through Cerb have been just incredible. I am sure that I can have a very good relationship with the gentlemen that I meet through this site and welcome the opportunity to meet more. Other sp's welcomed me to the site also, which I thought was amazing, I am sure that I can receive some great advice from them. Keep up the good work here, it's an awesome place to be a part of and I am so happy I found it.

although I'm out of your area, I do accept all major credit cards, so I am sure there may be someone in your area that may do the same also, happy hunting :) Raven

What is the best gift that you as a provider has ever received from a gentleman caller? What is the best gift that you, the gentleman caller, has given to a provider? I have had some interesting and bizarre gifts, so I wondered if anyone else had some unusual/best/worst or most bizarre gifts/ideas they would like to share? Good gifts I have received: flowers, wine I like, Godiva Chocolates Great gifts received: my favorite perfume (shalimar), gift certificate to my favorite lingerie shop, spa gift certificates Bizarre gifts I received: huge package of coupons (don't ask!!), offer of a pet lizard (?), handwritten coupon for a 'free' session with the client (wtf) Any thoughts you wold like to share?

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Email appointments can be great, and it is something that I do accept, but for the 'now' appointment, I may not be in an area where I do not have email access. I do have email listed on my profile, but I do have listed that I prefer texting (as I see that immediately), and I can understand the gentleman's need for discretion and privacy. Unfortunately though, I may miss an email due to not being able to check it. A text message or phone call I will see right away. My only advise on the matter of email is this: if you are seeking a 'now' appointment, I would feel its better to text or call to the lady (if that is what is preferred by her especially) that way she will see it immediately. There could be an hour or two go by before she is able to check her email only to find out that while she is going through the emails she has missed the opportunity to get back to you in time. I have missed potential clients due to the fact that I have had to go through so many emails that I have missed the window of opportunity of seeing the client that wants 'now'. And the fact that even when I have responded immediately I have not had a reply from the gentleman until hours later when I am not able to accomodate their needs.

Having a gentleman's location (province at least) would be a plus. It is difficult to openly communicate also with those that have their profiles set to private, as we can't possibly answer back to inquiries. I've noticed that the providers in this site have a lot of information in their profiles, but the gentlemen have (on a lot of them) just the fact they are male and a hobbyist. I have been asked repeatedly for pictures, my age, what I provide, how much, and ALL of that is listed on my website, and some of it on my profile. Especially when I get long distance phone calls at 4am when I have to get up for work at 6am, and my availability may say 12 midnight. I have tried to limit my profile to just pertinent information, and having the bulk of it on my website, but I am finding that some do not want to take the time to look at the site. I've had one particular person contact me repeatedly asking for hours that are clearly not available, and for services that I clearly state I do not provide. it does get frustrating a little repeatedly giving the exact same information over text or phone that is on my profile/website. Take it up a notch guys, let us know a little about you at least, that way if we are not in your locale, then it saves a lot of disappointment, on both sides :)

I want to play with you! Text or call from unblocked number and let the fantasy begin! Great service, great rates, out calls first to the line! Tell me your fantasy and let's make a date! Schedule and rates on profile page.

YMMV means just that, what you experience with a lady may well be just the opposite of what another gentleman may write. Every experience is unique, it should not be cookie-cutter. Every gentleman is unique and is treated as such. Just because a gentleman has an absolutely amazing experience with me doesn't mean that I am everyone's taste. I agree with doing your research, contact the lady in the manner she wishes and ask questions if your not sure. I was once asked if I was 'hot', my answer to that is, it depends on what you think is hot! No two ladies are the same, we offer different experiences, we do our best to give you what you seek, but do ask questions about a particular lady's services if you are unsure.

Anyone else experiencing over 100 texts in one day for someone to book? It surprises me that with all the info on my profile, some are asking me my age, what services I provide, what my rates are. Seems pretty straightforward to me, look at my profile, choose your service and then ask me when I'm available (my complete schedule is on my profile too!) Perhaps I may need to tweek my profile a bit, but lots have said to me its easy to read and understand. I would love some feedback and any advice to make it more 'user friendly', any guidance will be greatly appreciated. I really like this site and the sense of community I feel being on it.

MMF is definitely the way to go! Having two guys at once is amazing, especially if the guys are on each other as well, nothing beats having a guy on you when he has a guy in him!

Thank you for the invite, I posted a couple of pictures, hope you like them