50 Shades Raven

I would be reporting to mod! If I had someone take anything from my home and then 'blackmail' to feel sorry for them, I wouldn't hesitate to tell the mod. You are not the only one that she is going to do this to, and as for her asking you not to tell her name because she is 'on here and well liked' THAT is also blackmail! Everyone will be under suspicion that does out calls in your area now, as no one is going to know who did that, so we are all going to be looked at the same way. There is a reason for the 'Warnings: To Report Bait and Switch, Scam & Dangerous Encounters' section in each province area of forums, it is there to let others know of exactly these sort of things.

wow, taking anything that is not your own is a no-no in this business. There are more bs stories going around about 'I'm being pressured to get more' than I care to think about! Any time a girl takes anything of yours, and if she's on this board, report it to mod. I may go into the bathroom to freshen up as I arrive at a gentlemans home/suite, but never have I ever taken anything that is theirs! If she took those, the likelihood of her taking other things becomes more prevalent. It could escalate to wallets or other significant items you own. When a gentleman comes to my home, I make sure his belongings stay within eyesight of him. If he's taking a shower, I have an area where he can place his belongings in the bathroom just for that purpose. Some girls have and will take things, they are rip-off artists. They will take whatever they can sell on the street to get money. Those are the kind of girls you want to avoid. I am sorry this happened to you, it is so sad that some girls have to resort to that. You should feel safe in your own home. Hopefully you won't feel that way about all girls, we are not all alike.

Welcome Victoria, you will love this site :-) There is a lot of informative information here, and a lot of witty fun. Best tip I could possibly offer is to never sell yourself short. Just because you may be 'new' to this,don't let that set your rates. Read other girls ads, check out websites and get a feel for what you are worth. Inquiries are great, but set standards as to how you want gentlemen to communicate with you. Whether that be calling, text, PM or email, you have the right to communicate in a fashion that works for you. Don't ever feel 'pushed' into receiving someone just because they asked to see you. Giving out location is the last thing that is given to any potential gentleman. I give them a general area that I am in, but not the actual address. I use a confirmation communication about 30 minutes before any said encounter, that way if there is any change, you are not out any of your time. No shows with/without communicating to you will happen. It happens to all of us. Don't let it get you down, no appointment is actually set until the gentleman shows up. Do not tolerate lateness, it doesn't give a gentleman the right to extend his time with you. You are ready, he was not, if they are 15 minutes late without letting you know they are running late on a one hour appointment, then they are cutting into their own time with you. You can set what you feel is a reasonable length of time to be 'late', but be consistent. Your time is just as valuable as a gentlemans, most of us girls have cancellation policies, just as other professionals have. If someone chooses to see me then doesn't show up, no call to let me know that, then they are still responsible for the time that I set aside for them. Don't let anyone 'bargain' with you, it is not tolerated on this site and to ask for a reduction is against the rules on here, the gentlemen already know that. :-) There is no such thing as a 'first time' special. If I had a nickel for every time I heard that it was someones 'first time doing this' I would be rich beyond belief lol. Consider what your time is worth, and remember that you are worth every penny. Set your rates as to what you feel that time is worth and stick to it. If you ever need to chat, feel free to PM me when I am on, there is no such thing as a stupid question, we have all been there. Welcome and have fun :-)

the asking for face pics is always going to be an issue. I don't have them for various reasons. As Danielle has said previously here 'Right lol .... wouldn't it be something if we could see the guys faces before we book with you as well' We have no idea what any of you look like when you are at our door for the first time, so you can imagine the shock on our faces almost as I'm pretty sure all of us have seen some sights we don't want to see again lol. At least the gentlemen have pictures of us to refer to as we answer the door, and know what to expect, but we have no clue as to what we will find behind that door when we answer it.

First time encounters are always a little nervous. Even after a few years of doing this, I still get butterfies when seeing anyone :-) The anticipation is exciting as the time gets nearer to the appointment. When I don't get these feelings is when I will stop doing this, because then it turns into a job instead of being an encounter between two insatiable adults.

I agree with Sophia here in NOT promoting lades that are clearly not a part of this group. If someone wants a recommendation of someone who is strictly on BP and not on Lyla, then it is up to that person to find out for themselves. I, for one, would gladly pay a monthly fee to be part of a group where we can have these open discussions. Why should this site support those that don't want to be a part of this? I've been contacted in the past about other girls having a listing here, and they 'can't be bothered'. But they will pay to have their ads on BP. I have ads on BP and several other sites, but I get more feedback and a better quality of gentlemen from here. There are too many rip-off artists on BP, at least here on Lyla, we are protected from this sort of thing. Things have changed from the threads that I have been reading from before I joined this. It seems that the governments 'wandering eye' has taken a lot of people out of the game. This is entertainment, and as such we should be free to choose to offer this. This is a great site, I've looked at others and still am here. Keep up the good work Lyla, I love it here.

A real turn-off for me is those that don't actually read an ad to find out any information whatsoever. I'm available Wednesday to Saturday, for a reason. I'm available from 7pm-2am, unless someone books overnight in advance on those days. Why is it that guys seems to just ignore those pieces of information and just call when they feel like it? One guy was pissed off at me last night when I said I wasn't available, it was Tuesday and I work out of town. His reaction to my not being available when he wanted it? You look over used anyway :-( If I look 'overused' in my pictures then why in hell are you messaging me wanting so desperately to book with me? Read the information, book in the manner requested, and don't ask for times when the person clearly is not available. Needless to say, people like this just get blocked on my phone. Your loss buddy, not mine. I don't need clients like this. I'm thankful for the clients from Lyla, they at least read the information and are courteous. :-)

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I have to thank Old Dog for this, as ALL of it is so true when it comes to manners and etiquette. We, as providers, get so many guys that do (or try to do) most of this, so please read and enjoy. Manners and just general etiquette go such a long way in this market.

Being independent is definitely the way to go. Having the freedom to schedule your own hours, answer your own calls and gain a general feeling about the person booking is fabulous. I don't have to conform to what an agency wants and I definitely don't have to split what I earn. It's all mine :-) Being part of an agency means being what the agency wants you to be, you are not yourself. Having the ability to do what I want to do and when I want to do is the great attraction of being independent. A friend who worked for an agency said it was great. No having to take calls, not having to deal with transactions, always having work. But the downside was she was always on. She couldn't control where she was being sent to, and she had no idea who she was meeting. Also having to split what she was earning with the agency was just not worth it. After we talked, she decided to do her own ads, get her own number, and laid out her business plan for her rates and hours. For some, an agency can be great. But most of them want you to be within a certain age range and if you don't fit the 19-24 year old range you're out of luck. They also might want you to look a certain way. Having independence is work, but you are in control of every situation. From what you wear, to when you work to what your entertainment rates are. For me, having the freedoms far outweight the convenience of just being told where to show up.

I really dislike those messages, whether they are by text or email. Almost as bad as when you answer them immediately and they say they found someone else! wtf? I would much rather spend my time outside on a lovely walk than be sitting around waiting for someone that does not show up! I wish we could get it through to their heads that sending 'one word' emails/texts is a complete waste of our time. I don't want to sit around answering email after email after email with one question at a time either. If they are really booking, then have the decency to give an introduction, perhaps the day (at least) that they are looking for and how much time they would like to spend with you. Endless texts/emails get nowhere and are a complete waste of time

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I am in total agreement here. As someone that advertises on bp and in Lyla, I am appauled at the ads that appear in bp. The spelling mistakes, Ad LiNEs that look like this, or having 20 ads posted in the same section day after day by the same person, seem to be a distraction. It seems as though they don't take the time to actually piece together an ad that is enticing in any way, its just 'money walking in the door' to those that advertise this way. I have found that advertising on bp, I get the trolls that just text messages like 'rates?'. How on earth am I supposed to know who you are, when you are possibly looking for a date, and how much time you wish to spend with me? My ads have rates, pics, and a little bit about me along with my website which has a ton of information. How much more do you need than that? bp has it's bad side, but it also has a good side. Many reputable providers do advertise there, you just have to weed out the fakers (thanks to tineye, Cowboy Kenny and other apps), rip-off artists (thanks to Lyla and people outing them), and go on your gut instinct. Boards like this one, Lyla, have a better reputation, as you can see what we write, have conversations with us in pm, and can develop a rapport with us just through reading what we post. Every situation has it's ups and downs, just like every advertising spot has them. The old saying goes, if it looks to good to be true, it usually is. Look for the key words in the ads that tell you this is someone looking to 'party for a quick buck'. Do you want quality time or someone who takes everything that walks through her door? I could be on the arm of a client anywhere and in any situation, and no-one would be the wiser. I am a professional at what I do and am respectful of the client that is 'hiring' me. If shouting and weird items are in the ads, what do you think that person is going to be like in public with you?

want to be a good client? Read the information in the ads/website etc. I am not a provider that runs 8-10 clients through here in a day, I take on 3-4 a week, it depends on if I feel like doing this. I am very low volume as I like clients to feel as though they are the only person that sees me. I take the time to make a special effort to make you feel welcome and invited to my home. It is clean and fresh, and has a great ambient feel to it. You are never rushed when you are here, and you will find difficulty in finding a clock in my place. It doesn't really matter where you found me. It can be an ad on another site, it could be here on Lyla, you may have ran across my website. I will always be courteous when answering inquiries (unless they are totally rude which just gets an automatic ban with no reply at all from me). If you have curiosity about me and wish to communicate, please do so, respectfully. Upon receiving enough information from my website and with talking to me to satisfy you enough to make a booking, be sure that what you are asking for in the initial booking is what you are expecting in the session, nothing more. In other words, don't book a 30 minute MA session expecting to stay an hour with additional activities for the same rate! I just had communications, over several days, in which I thought I was perfectly clear in having this person understand what he was getting into. I directed him to my website and he booked directly from that, so I had him quote my cancellation policy to me. This was done. He shows up, at the appointed time, for a 3 hour session. Unfortunately, the fee he brought was not what was discussed (and is perfectly clear in my website) and he decided that he only 'needed a half hour'. So he brought enough to cover something from a completely different ad I am running, which is 10% of the cost of what he booked (and doesn't even begin to cover my cancellation fee)! Meanwhile, I didn't take on other clients that could have been here. So, if you want to be a good client, communicate well with the providers. We answer all polite requests, and supply you will all the information you need to make an informed decision on whether we are right for you, and if you can afford our time. Please don't waste our time, we don't waste yours.

receiving messages such as: "way too much for me" (in response to an ad that has the rates directly in it!) absolutely boggles my mind! If you are looking at an ad that has rates in it, and you cannot afford it, DON'T message the girl! Requests for reductions is rude and is done by those that feel entitled. I get tired of requests such as this. Save your money until you have the amount requested, THEN contact the person of your choice, it has a much better correspondence return. When a 'special' rate is advertised, and you say its too much, then you cant afford me! You are not a client I want to see.

fyi Nuru, if it is a real Nuru massage, uses Nuru Gel, not oil. Nuru Gel is to be warmed beforehand and has a viscosity like thick motor oil only clear. If your massage is using oil, its a slide, not a Nuru massage, big difference.

I read this a few times to get the gist of what the OP is asking. I wouldn't be disclosing anything to anyone (whether on this site or otherwise). If a client chooses to visit a tgirl, ma or provider, that is their decision. Choice is something we have on this site. Reading posts, ads, reviews and such give a person an insight as to those choices. If the OP is asking if we as providers 'talk' to one another, then the answer can be yes. We might be asked by a provider for a reference. But I can't see any provider stating 'oh that person saw abcxyz type of person' it's more along the lines of 'he has pets so take care if allergic', 'wonderful experience would definitely see again', 'we didn't seem to have a real connection but things went well', and so on and so forth. The type of person that one chooses to see in this capacity, is purely choice. I would never ask a client if they have been with transgender/lesbian/gay/straight/poly, quite frankly, it's none of my business. Same goes to a client asking me, none of their business. It is a confusing question, I read two meanings into it, so I'm unsure of what the OP really is looking for in an answer, or opinion.

kissing and cuddling is a fabulous part of any date :-) I highly recommend it ;-)

Turn-offs are: -those that considered themselves to be above others -the endless texters with questions with no intention of booking -those that disrespect my hours of operation -those that arrive at my door at an inappropriate time (just because you have been here before does NOT give you the right to think that you can just waltz in at any time!) I don't care what excuse you have, I have a life outside of this and find it an invasion of privacy when you do this. -hagglers -derogatory remarks when you don't get your way -consistently asking me for things I do not provide stating 'oh but you'll like it if you just try it'! -not being prepared (the 'wallet is in the car' excuse to get all the fee is old!. You know where you are going and what you are going to be doing there, have everything you need with you) -having gum in your mouth while kissing me, this will get you a free ride to my door with no refund (too many stories of guys having illicit items in their gum) -heavy smokers that think because they have brushed their teeth that morning everything is fine, it isn't. Mouthwash, new toothbrushes, toothpaste, all supplied by me for occasions such as this. I once almost threw up as someone's breath was so bad. -not having showered, or refusing a shower when asked to take one. It isn't a suggestion, it is a request! I'm fresh, you should be also -not having shaved, this can be extremely irritating to delicate parts, please be aware of this. If you take your wrist against your 2-3 day growth and it feels bristly, imagine how we feel with it rubbing against us. -untrimmed fingernails, ouch! -asking not to use protection because you are married/partnered, not even going there! -stating you are allergic to protection, there is a reason I carry non-latex items ;-) -telling me how to run my business, this is my business and I run it the way see fit. I do not tell you how to run yours. -criticizing other providers when you are with me! I don't want to know who you have 'had', nor do I want them knowing you have been with me. Providers respect each others privacy, please do the same.If what you were provided with was unsatisfactory, just don't see them again, simple. -showing up drunk/high or bringing with you drugs of any sort. Not in my place. -offering exchange of illicit substances as payment, not happening. -looking for freebies cause its your birthday, again, not happening. If you are a regular and I know its your birthday, there might be something a little special added to the engagement. -begging to see me but you only have $xyz funds. If you can't afford to see me, wait until you have saved then ask. -wanting some obscure outfit that I don't own to be worn. If you want something specific, let me know, and I will tell you what size to purchase. -consistently asking for nude pics, or of private parts to be sent. No way. if you can't decide based on what you read and see already, I'm not going to be any different when you get here. -one word texts/emails. Take the time to at least introduce yourself. Let me know a particular day/time, this way there is established communication. -don't ask me for outcall unless you are prepared to tell me what I need to know. Hotels ASK me for information about you when I call up asking for 'room number abc', or for 'Mr. Smith' (ficticious name), I want to verify you are actually there. -at no time will I attend an engagement in your private home unless I have seen you a few times before.

totally agree with this, totally!

OMG! I have wanted to do this so many times! Unsolicited pics are so unwarranted (and unwanted). We do not ask you to send pics of your anatomy, so why do guys think this is ok? Considering that most of us are looking at these on our phones, it makes it seems as though the person sending it has a 2" dick! lol I will never understand the meaning behind sending them, I just wish it would it stop.