50 Shades Raven

I prefer nipple clamps to clothespins myself. Clothespins tend to be extremely tight whereas clamps can be adjusted. when on a dinner date, do you prefer to cook for the lady, or take her somewhere intimate and exciting for a meal

Kink and fetish, or just a little fun? Tantric massage, fetish specialties and more. You know you want it ...... You know I can give it to you! Seize the opportunity to be punished for all those nasty things you do. Please me, and I may be fair. Displease me and you may find yourself in a world of pleasureful pain :-) An invitation to a very few, be one of those few to experience the pleasures of my company. Soft sensual touches combined with enticing props, darkness and a hint of light, let your pleasures be awakened. Limited appointments for extreme pleasure. PM for inclusion with the following: Lyla name/handle day you are looking for amount of time you seek limitations/boundaries (if any) contact preference (if you want me to text, email or call) I thoroughly recommend 2 hours for an ultimate experience at my incall location or out to your suite. Experience the '50 shades of Raven' and let your senses come to life! Check my website for pics, info and booking. Some daytime appointments available.

Happy birthday gorgeous, may good things come your way ;-) Stay sexy

today is white with pink polka dots, just fun underwear ;-)

Ravishing, which is how I like to feel when a man is here with me :-)

it is a huge turnoff to me when people use my phone as though it's some sort of toy for their exclusive 'how fast can I get off while texting' scenario. I have had to remove my number from all ads, once more, due to this ridiculous practice. I don't know what's worse, sexting, or the amount of phone calls I would get while at work! It seems to me that guys do not read the ads enough, or pay enough attention enough to them, to see that texts and phone calls are only accepted at certain times. it is excrutiatingly annoying to be woken up at 3:45am by some stupid one-line text asking something clearly outlined in the ad. One liners are not acceptable. At least read the ads, it's very annoying to awakened from a sound sleep in the wee hours of the morning just to read something completely stupid. Especially if I answer then nothing for many hours in reply, or worse, 'can you come right now'! Sure, I'll get up from a sound sleep and get ready just for you at an hour I wouldn't give to anyone else.

I post on bp and I use the same pics I have here on Lyla. I also list my website and a reference to Lyla on the ad. This way potential clients have a way to find out more about me and it eliminates the endless requests to send pictures. There are some on bp that post fake pics, do your homework and check through reverse image or tineye, if the pics match Lyla and bp listings, pretty sure it's the same person in ad. Our pics do get stolen and used by others at times unfortunately, but if the person in the ad isn't the person at the door, you have every right to walk away.

I see a huge breach of discretion here, and lack of privacy on the part of the guy. If he's 'shopping' around, we as sp's don't need to know that, we all they they do this, but I see it as a red flag that he send the message with another girls name. If he's sending that to you, be it in error or not, what is he sending the other girl? Some guys do try to 'negotiate' this way, as some sp's might fall for it, I don't and you shouldn't either. I would be conveniently 'not available' for someone that did that.

my name change was only done to reflect more in line as to my website (which has the same name). I did it as it was easier for people to find me that way, rather than having two different ones. No other reason. Mia, your name is really nice, I like it very much, but if you are changing it I am sure you will find something very appropriate for you :-)

asking questions to find out if you are compatible is fine, but when they ask 'what's on the menu', 'what do you offer', puts me right off. Especially if they start the conversation with that. It doesn't take much to introduce yourself. As Victoria Phoenix states, it is how the conversation is initiated that is attractive. I do find it rude when I receive messages such as 1.)'how much', 2.)'what do I get for $xx', 3.)'available?'. 1. I don't know what you want or how long you would like entertainment. 2. my rates are available on my website (clearly visible in my ads everywhere), so why ask. 3. since you haven't specified which day, week, month or time, how in hell do I know? When someone asks for a menu, I ask them what are they specifically looking for, this way I can let them know if it is something I offer. I would much rather do that than try to text an entire plethora of activities. Some providers do state their activities in their websites, some of us do not. If you are looking for specifics, ask, chances are the answer could be yes, but if it isn't something offered, the answer will be a polite no. Having the courtesy ask in an introduction is welcomed, the one liners are not welcomed, specifically by me.

Depending on whether you are the client or a provider (since I can't tell from your profile), what Meghan says applies. We are not allowed to PM anyone with availability as providers, but as a potential client, you are allowed to PM a provider to ask for availability. Read the ads of the provider to see which form of communication they prefer, some will ask to PM, others will ask to call, other to email/text. Reading the ads in full are a bit of a requirement here, it is how we communicate with each other. Ads we place here have general information in them, including our websites (if we have one) so that you can see all about us. hopefully this clears things up for you :-)

Overnights can be a lot of fun, but they also fall under the misconception that it is an 'all-nighter session'. This is not necessarily the case. Overnights are amazing, even with someone as a first-time encounter. As Emma put it, emailing (or some form of communication) beforehand will get the mood going and an ease into a rapport. I have two forms of overnight. One is for a shorter duration, it is from 11:30pm until 5:30am. This is great for those that wish to have the experience of an overnight without the exorbitant cost. Nightcap, followed by a wonderful encounter and drifting off to sleep, waking up wrapped up in each other, then shower, a sweet kiss to go off to work. The other is from 7pm to 7am. A fabulous experience of dinner and a cocktail, followed by a wondrous encounter, cuddle up together waking to the start of another adventurous encounter. Shower, coffee and a sweet embrace and kiss goodbye. Even first-timers love these arrangements, I know I do. But there are rules to these evenings. Sleeping together is part of the arrangement, not staying up all night in a 'how many times can I get off' session. Ground rules are set up within the scope of the communication, and are hard and fast rules (pardon the pun). I consider first timers when I am contacted about overnights, and it's in the course of the communications that I determine if I am going to grant an overnight.

Happy birthday lovely. spend it doing something (or someone) wonderful :-)

replying to emails, tidying up from last nights adventures ;-), eating breakfast

Ever wanted a truly exquisite experience that left you completely breathless? wanting more? wishing that time stood still? Available 7pm until ......... Located in an amazingly upscale, luxury discreet condo, I offer these, and more, to you Sweet light scents, enticing sounds, tastefully decorated, delicately lit with sumptuous candles, let's make your experiences something to remember, shall we? Luxuriously furnished, soft linens, fresh shower amenities, all for you. I can make you feel as though anything is possible. We will start with some libations that will get the senses stirring, great conversation as we move to the soft sounds of gently flowing music that makes your heart beat faster and slower at the same time. Perhaps a dinner arrangement out followed by an interlude here, and sweet memories to be made. Always unrushed, always welcoming, your memories of being with me will be everlasting. Something not easily forgotten. It will leave you breathless. To book time with me, please include the following: your name a way to contact you a reference from a reputable lady the day you are seeking time, and a general time frame the length of time that you wish to indulge in my entertainment Feel free to fill out this information on my website, PM it to me here on Lyla, or send your request by email. Please note that same day bookings are rare, pre-booking is almost always guaranteed to please. My website has all of the information that you wish to know, but feel free to ask questions. I look forward to our encounters together.

hope you are having a wonderful day

@50ShadesRaven

for those of you that are wondering, this belongs to me :-). If you have seen me through my business, please do not refer to my company name for any reason, the two are completely different, but let me know that you have seen me. Feel free to call between the hours of 5pm and 9pm or text at any time between 8am and 9pm No blocked/restricted/unknown calls are accepted. when you call or text, TELL me your handle on Lyla, that way I know that you are legit. Because this ad is on bp, I get a lot of ridiculous calls that have zero intention of showing up, if you want services, then call, but please don't waste my time or yours. The rates on the 'bp' ad are a 'starting' point, please don't expect 'everything' for that rate. Be realistic. My website listed below are the rates, please feel free to view the website :-)

Love this list :-) Should be a 'sticky note' at the top of New Members info, lol Very precise and to the point, love it. If more potential clients would put themselves in our shoes, a lot of fears/disappointments/guessing would be overcome. It doesn't take much to make an appointment, very much like an appointment anywhere else. We will ask for some information, please be prepared to provide it. But I do love 4-8, these SHOULD be a no-brainer.

why don't you ask your 'new love' if she has a clean test? I'm pretty sure she would be insulted, as was I, when I read this post. Katherine and Danielle are correct here, I feel insulted that you chose to 'sleep with sp's but am afraid of becoming HIV before I'm 25'. The sp's I know are clean and well cared more medically. We sp's take great care to be clean, for all of those involved in our lives. Can you say that about your 'new love'? Did she screen every single person she has been with in here life? I know I did. I am hoping that everything works out for you in this new relationship, it is wonderful when someone finds their true love, but be aware that since you are hiding the fact that you slept with sp's, maybe she has something to hide also, something to think about.

Love this reply to that question! :-) So as you can see gentlemen, it costs us to keep up with taking care of you. None of this is free to us. As Mia Adore said, what is the real cost of one hour spent with someone who will take care of you wonderfully and make you feel special?

that's like asking why one car manufacturer charges $35,000 for a vehicle and another charges $350,000 for a vehicle. The answer is (drum roll please, lol) because each is different in their own unique way. There are many factors to consider when looking at someone's rates. Location, desirability, looks, experiences, and much much more. What our rates are is up to us to have, and generally speaking, most of us are in the same range. If you are looking for a luxury experience, then you are going to be looking at luxury rates. Just like as in a $35,000 vehicle isn't going to have the same features as the $350,000 one, you get what you pay for.

This isn't just happening with those we have never met before, it also happens from those on this site as well, and certainly not just on us having a hotel room that we have booked for that day. I don't know of ANY sp that would book a hotel room 'just' to see an unknown, that is asking for a let down. I have a very upscale and discrete location. and this is happening with so-called 'reputable' gentlemen as well as those that are just 'serial bookers'. I can understand when someone is having the jitters when coming to see someone, that is normal. We also get the butterflies of anticipation when in an encounter. But to book, not show, AND not let the lady know they have to cancel, is just plain rude. Worse, is those that book several ladies for the exact same time and choose one just before arriving, not letting the others know they have no intention of coming! For those sp's that are doing this full time, it is a serious let down, as this is their income. For others, like me, I do this part time, so the impact doesn't affect me like it does those that are relying on this for a living. Just because someone does this for a living does not mean they are giving inferior service, or having ten guys in one day. We are all selective on who we let into our lives, but do you have any idea on how many people know exactly where I operate out of, and have never been here? Way too many to speak of! We give everything to this business from our pictures, information and locations. 95% of the time, the guys don't want to go through our screening process as they don't feel they have to. This is our safety we are dealing with and if you don't have any intention of coming, then don't call us wasting our time When a ncns happens, then the opportunity for someone genuinely wanting that time then gets denied that pleasure. That isn't fair to those that genuinely WANT to see us. .

If you are requesting a certain scenario, then it's absolutely appropriate to come dressed that. I meant the guys that ask me to dress in nice lingerie and dress to take me out and just show up in dirty jeans, runners and a t-shirt with way too many holes in it, lol Where on earth are you planning on taking me, and how do you think it is going to look if I am dressed like I'm on a date and you look like you just rolled out of bed? Imagine the faces in a fine restaurant? Discretion works both ways, and yes, people do look.

for those a little afraid of the 'handcuff' experience, I suggest silk scarves. These can be just as tight, but without the person having the fear of 'what if they get stuck, or lose the key'. For first timers with me that want that experience, I use the silk scarves. just as easy to tie you to my table/bed/chair ;-)