50 Shades Raven

when you have 166 hits on just one pic in the ad, and each of them is under a different name and country, makes you wonder, doesn't it? check things out, but I find most of those ads with the weird lettering (mostly misspelled) are usually pimped out or scams. Due diligence in checking will make things easier, same goes for the extremely low rates, it usually ends up being a lot more when you add in all the 'extras' they consider. legit girls have one rate, not a host of 'extras' to add to the base rate. my pics are in several different sites, but each of them has EXACTLY the same info on them, all legit girls do that

if you have to 'muster up enough gumption' just to make the call, DONT! Guys who do this have zero intention of follow-thru, because if you have to muster up courage just to call, then you have zero ability to come to my door. and for those guys that call upon 3-4 girls, THEN decide which one to see, (without notifying the others of cancellation) that's being an asshole! (sorry to say)

there is far too much of this going on, totally disrespectful of people to just book and not bother to show up, or cancel at the last minute with bs excuses. work calls, that can be excused, wife/so had other plans they didn't know about, no problem, but I've had one guy have so many 'car accidents' last minute he shouldn't be allowed to drive. Today I saw his car, and him in it, NOTHING wrong with it! Same car he has always driven! at the time when he had booked an appointment with me! Way too many bullshitters out there making false bookings for fun. It's a complete waste of my time. Do they think we are complete idiots? wtf? Don't waste our time, we don't waste yours

people that do crap like this should be drawn out into public! As Ice4fun states, hiding behind the anonymity of cl just bolsters their ego. If it were a real man writing that, they would be shouting their names from the rooftops. Someone that is so well recommended on a site like this shouldn't have to go through this shit! Probably some pissed off sp or client that didn't get what they wanted (without regard to what Miss Blackwell provides). Disregard anything that anonymous posters put, it's usually bullshit.

perhaps try looking in the 'fetish' section for Nova Scotia. there are a few of us there that advertise just what you are looking for

setting up for two restraining orders. Has it really come to this? That this is what I have to do to keep two people away from me? Whatever happened to hearing the word NO? Is it not in some people's vocabulary? ffs, why can't people just behave themselves, like human beings?

I agree with you that if you are booked with any of us and you show up on time, we should be ready for you, after all, you are there on time.

don't come looking like you just rolled out of bed and slept in what you are wearing. A suit (not to everyone's taste) can be great, but just as appealing is a nice shirt, great pair of well fitting jeans (not the kind that drown or squash you) and actual shoes (not runners). Either can be fabulous for a casual date. I agree with Meaghan here, definitely no spandex, the stuff should be outlawed, lol. You would be surprised in what some guys show up in.

There are probably a lot of answers to this problem on here already, but I thought I would bring this up in a new thread. Some people do not know the lengths that providers go through to make themselves available for you. 1. we have a profile and/or a website that requires maintenance to keep up to date, taking up some of our time. 2. we have ads that we place elsewhere so that we have a variety of avenues in which you can communicate with us, which also require maintenance. 3. we spend many hours of a week just answering texts, phone calls and emails to your inquiries. 4. we keep ourselves fit, meaning we are spending time working out, whether that be at home, or going to a gym. 5. beauty is not instant, so we take the time to have manicured nails, hairstyles, spending time shopping for just the right products and articles of clothing. 6. maintenance of our locations, whether they be where we live or a place we rent just for these occasions. (cleaning services are not free, or we do it ourselves, meaning more hours in a week dedicated to what we provide) 7. we purchase professional photography so that we have nice pictures to display for your pleasure. 8. we ask for a little bit of notice to prepare for your date, as we all have a life outside of this. 9. communication and understanding on our part for discretion is very important to both gentlemen and the provider. 10. we have almost zero information about you coming to us, but we are expected to reveal all about ourselves. So why in the hell is it so difficult to let us know when you can't make it to a booking? We provide you with our addresses, our time and our efforts to be able to entertain you at your request. I have noticed over the last several months that more and more bookings are no more than a ploy to gain access to our whereabouts and have nothing to do with actually wanting to see us. Why is that? Do guys take pleasure in making us run around so that we can accommodate you when you have no intention of showing up? Is it a thrill that you get from the fact that we are getting ready for you and you are just sitting back at home kicking back on the sofa watching tv? I don't know about other providers, but I spend an average of 12 hours a week just answering twitter and emails. I go to the gym everyday for an hour at least. I spend to keep my appearance up. I provide a nice place to entertain you (at a cost). I take the time to confirm and/or reschedule so that it can fit into your schedule (with no regard to my own schedule). So why can't you follow through if you have made a commitment to see me? I find it very inconsiderate and disrespectful when someone makes a booking and then just doesn't bother to show up or let me know they can't make it. All it takes is a little effort on the guys part to do this. Just look at the efforts that the girls are putting out there. When a booking is made and confirmed, we do not book another person for that time. It is made for you. Not for a bunch of guys and going to whatever one shows up first. I do know that perhaps traffic can be bad, accidents, s/o suddenly appears, but you can always go to a bathroom/hallway/garage and let us know you can't make it. Guys make a big stink when providers don't show up, sometimes it is for the same reasons above, bad traffic, stuck somewhere, meetings that go over time at work, but we take the time to let you know we are running late, why can't you show us the same courtesy? For some providers, this is their livelihood, it is how they survive. For others it is a fun side business, but nonetheless, would it kill you to let us know? There is nothing more frustrating to me than to go to a restaurant somewhere and find that I can't get in, it's why I make a reservation! If you are going to make a reservation with us, please have the courtesy to let us know asap if you are not able to make it. We spend hours to prepare for you, take a minute to tell us. I have had some wonderful encounters from the gentlemen on Lyla, and from other sites, but also some frustrating ones that pull this crap. Be courteous to us, we are to you. My rant after a very frustrating 2 weeks.

near darkness, definitely sets the mood shower together or bath

turn off is when I take the time to answer an email promptly (within a few minutes) and I NEVER see anything back from the sender, so frustrating. What do you think we are doing, just sitting around waiting for email requests to come in? or was 2-3 minutes of a wait too much for you?

yes I have a dirty mind :icon_twisted: I once looked at one of those little packages that come with meals, you know the ones, for wiping your hands after you eat. I saw 'wet-nap' and asked, 'is this in case you don't have time for a wet dream?' got a lot of people stopped to listen that day

watching the freezing rain cover everything with a blanket of crystal clear ice. it's actually beautiful to watch

take out from my favorite chinese place, as I feel most places will be closed later today due to the storm. Gave the guy a great tip as he dropped the food off I could see he was really cold, poor guy, but sweet that he delivered :-)

kissing is great, the only time it isn't is when you come see me with smokers breath, yuck. Asking is always best if you are unsure, but indeed, kissing is a great part of a date. I just don't like it when someone tried to stick their tongue all the way down my throat forcefully, it should be passionate and caring, the kind that you should be getting from your significant other ;-)

special k strawberries or raspberries

none! just took them off ;-) but they were white with little pink bows

reading emails, getting a good book ready, about to take a luxurious bubble bath with a glass of wine, and then off to dreamland

waffles, can do so much with them, adding fruit or such. Europe or Caribbean

2015 was a very good year for me. Bought a fabulous place to live, and found 2 family members I never knew I had! Hopefully 2016 will be great for everyone. And, as Katherine said, I too believe in karma. Whatever you put out there in the universe comes back to you ten fold. If you give bad, you get bad. I try to surround myself with positivity.

I just did the same thing, came back as $274 and change. Apparently it calculates as two one-way fares, depending on the length of stay, I chose a week. But, still a great deal, jut wish they had more cities.

I want to find a way to stop all the timewasters that make up our day! There has to be a way to stop them lol

welcome to the wonderful world of Lyla Aletheia. it is a great place to find some amazing information, along with funny stuff to make us laugh. Hope you find lots of amazing adventures.

a true artist lost to the woes of cancer. I loved his music and his shows were phenomenal. He will be truly missed by the music world and by fans

wasn't purchased by me, but for me, 1986 Chateau Mouton Rothschild, wow. Amazingly gorgeous red wine, sipped through dinner.