pearl

I would tend to think of connection as something more concrete, perhaps more mental (like the engine under the hood), whereas chemistry is more superficial, more physical (like the song that's playing on the radio in the car). I think that the order in which they come (if at all), is totally variable depending on the person, the setting, the weather...whatever! Needless to say, if both ties are present, oh what fun!!

I second that notion! I thoroughly enjoy the coy chat with a potential new friend. A fun, noncommittal way to form an idea of character and chemistry for both parties...guaranteed to make a meeting more natural and personal and therefore much more pleasurable! Bring on the banter!!! ...please!!! ;)