Janebondage

😮 sweet fuck thats a major discrepancy. How do these girls have the nerve. Maybe try VIPOTG, I hear great things about them. Sadly they do not take female hobbyists. 😔

Extra for 2nd shot +50,C ǐ M+50 , +80 bb Pretty sure thats bb sex and not bbbj as she already up charges CIM. I find this particularly shocking and alarming but I am not local so maybe the safety standard varies between provinces. Please consider strongly before going to a provider who offers such. Maybe I am naive but from a hobbyist or provider I can not even imagine offering or going to someone who offers such a thing. 🤯

Meh I have have no personal experience but as both a provider and hobbyist I would strongly reconsider anyone who charges extra for a second cum shot. Two orgasms in an hour is very common for most gents in my experience. Your already paying for the time and experience. Find a provider that enjoys the work and is not just in it for the money grab. There are plenty of lovely well recommended ladies on this site. While we do what we do in exchange for money we also respect our clients and enjoy what we do. I do notice the oriental theme in your links. I would recommend messaging vipOTG (VIP Oriental Traveling Girls) and asking them when a provider is in your area? I have not seen them myself, not from lack of trying as woman hobbyists do not seem to be there thing; but my hobbyist friends have and I have only ever heard great things about them. Furthermore to touch on what @SarahAlexxx said about offering barebare as an added charge I really hope she does not mean bare bare sex? I can not even imagine offering bb as an added charge let alone bb sex at all. I would run fucking fast if thats a case. Such a woman has no respect for her own health let alone the hobbyists or the families they go home too😮. Sexual work has a responsibility to being clean and safe not only for the both of you but the communities at large. Any man seeing a provider who offers it or any man asking for bb sex I would not touch with a 10 foot pole. Or in my like of dominatrix work even beat with a 10 foot pole. Find a provider that respects her self, her client, her clients home life and the community.

Thank you @Redcap. What a way to wake up! Sweet fuck I love my life; and! I am getting Paid for this fun. ☺️ And that....was freakin fun! #CharmedLife 🖤🖤 Thank you for the wonderful feedback 🥰 This slut is sleeping like the dead tonight! 💋

I have one opening tomorrow afternoon and can do one spot Friday before 3pm. Friday is the last day for the ‘On My Knees Special’ $120 for 40mins of oral bliss. Let me introduce myself, I am Jane...I am a curvy bbw with a pretty face and a happy disposition. I am broad spectrum in interests, very Switchy in nature; I adore the GFE, I am very affectionate and tactile. I adore touching, being touched; cuddling with my head on your chest. Nothing makes me feel more feminine then this. 💋 Although I am a new service provider here, I am very active as a Dominatrix, mentor and educator in the bdsm/kink community. I am very kink and fetish friendly. I pride myself on providing an experience. I can be dominant, submissive, the pornstar, naughty babygirl, girl next door or a proper Femme Domme. Please let me know if you have any niche needs or areas you would like to explore. I am open minded and non-judgemental. ❤️ I just adore watching one’s desires come to life and being able to provide that kind of experience is very fulfilling for me!❤️ This week...and this week only I offering “On my Knees”, an introductory Get to Know me Package! For those that are interested in my vocabulary and other oral offerings this happy ending is a great way to use up your lunch hour or destress after work. 💋🍆💦. Lets see how many times we can make you happy in that time frame or use that leftover time on me. 😈 $120 for 40mins Other Donations: $220/hr $320/90mins $360/2hr $460/3hr $100/each additional hour. Outcalls are typically available with a few hours notice. Greatly reduced rates for overnights and outings. $100/hr for date outings, plus expenses. This is a no play date but may be used in combination with a full service package. I happily work with couples, males, females, transgender, cross dressing, gender fluid and everything in between. There are no added charges for kink/fetishservice with exception to couples. Please add $50 per additional person to the first hour of service. (MFM, FMF, FFF extra...). I want to be affordable for couples. I may be new to providing here but I do have reviews here: https://www.lyla.ch/index.php?app=core&module=system&controller=redirect&url=https://www.lyla.ch/topic/183782-janebondage-%E2%80%A2-white/?tab=comments%23comment-802794&key=bfaa43cb5b4e89c7e03334ec25a1e3ccb875a9f6c5e5bc4b67c975c23ee91ac1&resource= I hope to hear from you. Texting available but please DM for #,

OMG no, thank you!!! That was honestly so freakin HOT amd so much fun! 😘

I truly want to thank those of you who have messaged about my Play toy post. . You have been honest and blunt and laid your hearts out in text with stories of your lost D/s connections or the drive and need or for this style of play that is currently unfulfilled. I appreciate your trust with these heart filled moments and I can relate to the longing in my own narrative. For those of you that have messaged me your narrative despite not being ready or able to book....I am truly touched. Thank you for reaching out and sharing this part of yourself with me. Take your time, get to know me in messages and even phone calls. I get that this is a process for some and I am more than happy to communicate about your stories and answer your questions as they arise. I understand its a process for some people new to this style of play and am happy to be a sounding board and am able to offer what advice I can to aid your journey for when you are ready. Again, I am truly touched. Thank you ❤️ Jane

Smacks my head...right legalities, the most obvious reason slipped my mind. I forgot how much of a concern that was for me as a hobbyist. I do not tend to worry about it now as I only book reputable providers from here that have been around a bit. Also I got a little relaxed with this government. 🙄 Oldest bleepin profession in the world. It is just darn silly that hobbying is even a legal issue in todays day and age.

I am all about vide too. I was not on the other end of the line to know what gave you the bad vibe. I do always ask clients what they are seeking early on. I hope I am not rubbing them the wrong way by doing that out the gate. 😟 I am preetty broad spectrum GFE, fettish/bdsm, slutty submissive or dominateix me all have differant approaches and require different things from the clients and also for me. I need more recoup time after a submissive play toy session or wine and snacks for GFE. All kinda of things come into play. Asking just best allows me to figure out your needs for a better experience. 🤷‍♀️

She might have been traveling or on a break 🤷‍♀️. I really only ever book providers or clients from here so non of the LL girls ring a bell to me u less they are on here though so I do not know.

Well i am a pale redhead so you cant miss them. I tuen red in the face and get sweaty. Nothing pretty about my orgasms Mr 😔 So easy enough to tell when it happens

Brahhahha ha Yes @Redcap it is a thing. @Katherine of Halifax said chewing. My clit has been a chew toy too. Nibbling good in my books. Suction and pressure and flicking amazing. But a hard chew looses me too. Some girl out there is a fan though. Were all differant.

Lovely answer....and glad to see the mouth rinsing. I would also like to mention to others avoid brushing your teeth or flossing just before a date, So it a good 30-45 mins before oral. The gums heal quickly but do get small tears from from brushing and flossing.

Brahahha Nooe there is not....but I messaged a provider friend after a good the other day and she agreed with my glowing review. Sorry @613hobbyist that wasn’t you. 😈😉

Oh dear @Sumac, your right I really do need to go to PEI. Yes your clients but we still connect and our bodies still have reactions.

Okay honestly I enjoy oral all the time. That kind of attention to my clit. Wet, moist, soft, pressure, suction, nibbles...its all yay! Sure some skills will rock my world more than others. And while it is about the client, my experience is they appreciate it when I orgasm. So if I want it a little to the left or a little, more nibble or less pressure I just tell them. Any oral is not normally all bad, it just needs a little tweaking. I have yet to find a man that minded me telling him my likes in bed, hobbyist or lover. Especially not after the change produces a positive reaction. 💦 However ...if your worried about your skill here book your provider and tell her you want to go to school. Have her educate you on what she likes. Chances are your fine and over thinking it. I teach men how to make me squirt all the time and am happy to do so. Just be honest so she knows she can direct you. 😘

Wow, Sounds amazing, I would have loved to be a fly on that wall. 🙌 on maintaining yourself under the pressure of being with 3 ladies. Least of all as lovely as they are.

Oh this is a battle for me as a hobbyist and as a provider. I absolutely adore oral both giving amd receiving. In my early hobbyist days I had a really hard time finding woman that would take a female client. I was booking off BP and got a lot of rejection. (Lets not even start on the days of stats in the Chronicle herald classifies and land lines. 🙄) I had a lot of rejection from providers who were not comforptable with even the suggestion of female clients and that kinda rejection affected me even though i realize they had never met or seen me. That all changed 6-7 years ago for me when I came to lyla/cerb as a hobbyist. The ladies I saw her happily let me indulge myself on their lovely forms, even if they were less then willing for men. They were Lovely, wonderful caring woman who were open to me and a community of hobbyists that helped me pick who and gave me feedback on their experiences.(Big shout out @mikeboy who never steered me wrong and seems to share my taste in woman). With all the past provider rejection I had faced when I found a few I liked I kinda stuck with them. Also I know as a female hobbyist my experience with hobbying and daty may vary so I am wondering what the men and providers have to say on this. As a provider Use of protection and OT really all depends on the person and in their own personal attention to hygienic care and connection with me. I do have the potential to have very intense orgasms with oral and the right man can make me all glassey eyed and stupid after. Doesn't happen a lot to that degree a lot but it does and it can and that is not exact safe in this profession. I have to be careful who I allow such things with. I also need to make sure they are well serviced first in case I turn into a big pile of mush after a few intense orgasm and my orgasm exhaustion will affect their service. I am typically low volume with no back to backs so I can afford to expend my energy this way if I choose. If I trust and connect to the client and they want to service me I am not exactly a clock watcher. In such cases I will lay back and enjoy myself. However that doesn't make it a yes for everyone either. I can fully get how safety and time would make this a no for many providers.

Isn’t being broad spectrum fun! So many possibility for naughty play! We are a fun bunch. If your ever in Halifax I would be happy to chat about my process and/or have you sit in on a few sessions if you like. Maybe beat a bum or two with me. I do suggest getting a mentor who is a fetish provider before venturing out on your own. There are a lot of unseen things to take into account on both the Dom/Top and Submissive/Bottom end. Likewise there is a great little community of delightful deviants I adore in Ottawa. I will also be out that way a few times this summer for bdsm training intensives. I travel a fair bit for my education and play in these areas. So keep in touch. I always enjoy meeting another like mind. 😈

Awee thank you for the kind words @Mikeyboy. You hit the head on the nail with having someone experienced. I can not stress this enough! Power exchange has a lot more rolling balls that the inexperienced will not know about. Physical Safety being only a more obvious one. One of the key things about power dynamics as a Domme is managing my clients safety not only in physical needs but in emotional and physiological as well. Many clients are well versed in what they want and have experience to how they respond and react. Just as many clients have no idea and you have to gently guide them and figure it out without pushing past their boundaries. Boundaries they both know and state, as well as boundaries they yet to realize. Many submissive’s will not speak up about what they do not like as it happens as they want to please the Domme. Its on the Domme to read it through reaction, micro-expressions and just experience. Where mistakes get missed is the before prep and the after prep. Pain play leaves marks one can see with the eye. However, bdsm/power exchange give a rush of endorphins and happy neurotransmitters like Dopamine and Serotonin. It can produce a flooding in the brain that acts like a drug induced state. If your client is getting into a car and going back to take care of kids, or going to work I have to manage how far I take them into this happy experience. I cant send them back to a construction operating heavy machinery googly eyed and stupid. It has to be managed. Likewise these happy states can leave a client floaty for a day or two as well. But it will even out and come with a bit of a drop and that can present in anxiety, feeling tired or just insecure. Making sure the client understands this makes it manageable. Following up for two days by simple texts or a call also helps lessen things a lot. This is where many miss the mark. In role reversal such as I am offering as the subbie slut....one considers my safety, as do I. But another concern is the phycological ramifications for the client. For those new to experiencing this type of play there are other risks. There is a flood of endorphins as above but it is heavy in the Adrenaline type hormones. So managing that from the bottom is a thing in my case. If the client is new to this play for instance I would suggest early evening and not late night. The Adrenaline release will keep them wide wake well through the night amd there will also be a crash. Even if the client thinks they can handle more, its my job to know and manage it in digestible pieces for them without making them think they are being managed. Rushing someone too far to fast is not healthy. Lastly these things while rare, do trigger people at times. Past abuse issues, feeling guilt for enjoying the consensual mean play when they are taught to respect woman. There can be an emotional spill off that needs to be dealt with. That means allowing extra time if needed and no back to backs. That means following briefly up for a few days. I can not stress enough that these types of play all look hot in porn we watch. But consider whom you do it with wisely. It will make all the difference in the experience and should really be with an experienced fetish provider. On my end I know what my limits, boundaries and needs are. I know how to communicate them before play and work that communication into an experience without side tracking it. I know what after care I need and how to take care of myself in the days to follow. This type of play is well within my risk profile and what i am offering is at a much lower level then I partake in in my personal play and professional play. So the risks are very manageable for me personally. Bear in mind I have twenty years of lifestyle experience in bdsm and kink so it did not happen overnight. I think it makes me ideally suited for introducing these kinds of play and power dynamics here. But gain, I recognize it is not for everyone.

For those that Do not know me I am Jane. Both a hobbyist and now a Service Provider. Let me introduce myself, I am Jane...I am a curvy bbw with a pretty face and a happy disposition. I am broad spectrum in interests, very Switchy in nature; I adore the GFE, I am very affectionate and tactile. I adore touching, being touched; cuddling with my head on your chest. Nothing makes me feel more feminine then this. 💋 Although I am a new service provider here, I am very active as a Dominatrix, mentor and educator in the bdsm/kink community. I am very kink and fetish friendly. I pride myself on providing an experience. I can be dominant, submissive, the pornstar, naughty babygirl, girl next door or a proper Femme Domme. Please let me know if you have any niche needs or areas you would like to explore. I am open minded and non-judgemental. ❤️ I just adore watching one’s desires come to life and being able to provide that kind of experience is very fulfilling for me!❤️ This week...and this week only I offering “On my Knees”, an introductory Get to Know me Package! For those that are interested in my vocabulary and other oral offerings this happy ending is a great way to use up your lunch hour or destress after work. 💋🍆💦. Lets see how many times we can make you happy in that time frame or use that leftover time on me. 😈 $120 for 40mins Other Donations: $220/hr $320/90mins $360/2hr $460/3hr $100/each additional hour. Outcalls are typically available with a few hours notice. Greatly reduced rates for overnights and outings. $100/hr for date outings, plus expenses. This is a no play date but may be used in combination with a full service package. I happily work with couples, males, females, transgender, cross dressing, gender fluid and everything in between. There are no added charges for kink/fetish service with exception to couples. Please add $50 per additional person to the first hour of service. (MFM, FMF, FFF extra...). I want to be affordable for couples. Review Page: https://www.lyla.ch/index.php?app=core&module=system&controller=redirect&url=https://www.lyla.ch/topic/183782-janebondage-%E2%80%A2-white/?tab=comments%23comment-802794&key=bfaa43cb5b4e89c7e03334ec25a1e3ccb875a9f6c5e5bc4b67c975c23ee91ac1&resource= I hope to hear from you. Texting available but please DM for #,

🙈 Still recovering a little, so yeah I also enjoyed myself. But I think you know that. Thank you for the kind words. ❤️

Aweee thank you @Sumac. It may be easier to convince me of that in the summer ☺️

Thanks for the good points @Recap. I would highly suggest no smart man treat his Provider like a whore. As you mentioned there are safety concerns for both parties physically, but i would also an emotional and psychological. These styles of play are not for everyone and should not be ventured into lightly! I would strongly recommend only using experienced fetish providers for such things. It takes years of experience to learn what ones limitations are and how they will react in the moment and after. While I may be new to the more main stream providing new to bdsm and fetish providing I am not. I just happen to have started at the more extreme end and thats my comfort zone. 🤷‍♀️ Different folks and all. While it may not be for everyone the beauty of being a feminist here in today’s age is ...I get to choose how I am treated by whom. The beauty of being independent is i get to choose to work with a hobbyist or not. I am a consenting adult making an educated decision and getting paid to do what I love. While one lady may blush and adore being called a Princess, there are a few of us that have a lovely physical response to being degraded and called names. 😔 I am well versed in negotiating these scenes, vetting my cliental, implementing safety protocols and in my needs and aftercare for such play. I also know how to prepare my clients for their end and work within different levels of experience. I Also keep in mind, playing softer and using kinder words does not make any provider safer then rough play and mean words. I realize this post will offend some and I am certainly open to opinions and hearing concerns. That being said I have no shame in my kinks and see no reason why we should censor respectfully discussing them. Thanks for your excellent points

So as many of you know I am a past cerb/lyla hobbyist who recently started service providing. I also have been practicing bdsm and kink for twenty years and in a Pro Dominatrix in my other life. What many of you may not know is I am a switch. Meaning in my personal life I practice domination with some partners, I am also equally comfortable as a submissive with others. I like many things.....Variety is the spice of life after all. The reason I mention that is I thought it could be fun to blend providing with submission. Things like...Daddy punishes Babygirl with spankings and has his way with her. Or The degraded slut that is roughly manhandle is treated like a complete whore to be used. It is not something i have seen around the boards but I think it would be a lot of fun. I am wondering what kinda services folks would like to see in such a session? Feel free to DM me if you are too shy to answer here Thanks for the time and feedback 🙌