Maddy

Hot post. My answer is yes! Try it all, I'll let you know what is and what is not working *wink*, but from the moans, groans and arched back and the grabbing of your head to keep you there, should indicate that in itself. lol

All of the posts contain good information. It is sometimes a hit and a miss. Decide what type of service and what type of provider you want to experience, and although looking through recommendations you may find none for some providers. It is always lovely to get a recommendation and nice when a gentleman asks if he can post on his encounter, but some SP decline a recommendation for a number of reasons. Popping into chat and saying hello to some of the gals is always a nice way to start. If a member's profile catches your eye, don't hesitate to send a message and start that way. Just my two cents once again. Good luck in your search.

Just a survey to know what clients prefer the most during a massage? Oil or lotions, scented, unscented, flavoured or not and for finish do you prefer lube or saliva? Any providers are welcome to join in as to your favourite preferences as well. I'm sure most of us keep a stock of everything, but just curious as to what the majority would respond to. Hug from Maddy for participating in this survey.

It is so great to have feedback from gentlemen as to their specific turnoffs, vs having the women do all the talking or (complaining). When a man takes the time to give honest feedback it can only result in a more positive experience for client and provider and enhance the experience for both. Sometimes we forget it is about the pleasure and not about the money, and if money is the only objective it is in fact an insult to the gentleman who prides himself on pleasuring his partner, paid for or not! Good on you sirs!!

Sometimes an SP doesn't have a site especially if catering to a specific clientele, well established or discretion for an SP is an absolute! If I hand out my tel # it's because I do not have a problem talking directly to a potential client, explaining my services and rates. As the options and requests are so varied, many SP's prefer to 'tailor' their appointments to the specific needs of a client and together establish what a session will entail and what fits the budget of both SP and client. Just my 2 cents worth.

Yes to the question of meeting someone you know. A little awkard, best to talk it out. Remember he is in same boat as you, that being usually requires absolute discretion. I gave to option to cancel or proceed, he chose to proceed and has been a regular knowing his secrets are safe with me. All my clients know if I run into them anywhere I will not acknowledge them in anyway and the understand why and appreciate that they don't have to look over their shoulder all the time.

I hope this is just a misunderstanding. I would send a note telling her you are sorry it didn't work out and hope she is ok and trust you will be able to connect with her another time. However, due to the fact that this was prepaid and have an established relationship I would respectfully request a return of your money. A reputable provider would explain the circumstances and refund you post haste.

Although we never met, we obviously have things in common!! Wishing you all the best with your re-location. Ottawa's loss Niagara's gain.

Thanks for the post and to all that replied. Such interesting comments. May I add....seriously......, as a listed 'mature' the 'hey baby what are you looking for' just sends chills down my spine. What am I looking for? Really? And you are sending me a note why? Time is money yes, and I'll take all the time needed to ensure my clients are comfortable with me and trust me knowing that the good ones you want to keep enjoying but.... rude, crude immature and head games don't work no matter what age you are at.