I feel you. I live in an area where only LL shows options for my town. I've searched many websites and there's nothing for my area, other than LL. I've recently been seeing a post from a lady, that I know for a fact isn't her in the pictures because of reverse image search so I haven't bothered contacting. The other regular post for here, was confirmed by another Lyla member, that the poster wasn't the same person in the picture but was still a real person and a pleasant encounter. Even with that, I've been hesitant on setting up a date.