LisbethNova

Every once in a while I come across the odd post or tweet from either SPs or clients, or mainstream folk, using a variety of words like slut and ..... in a degrading way, or they think of it only in degrading terms. When I hear such words such as 'slut' and '.....' being used in a degrading manner from the pooner side of things, I can't help but notice that it's the same guys who are usually the same ones sifting through BP for the best deal and looking for the girls who advertise all the sluttyest things, then bitch and complain about it on the boards. Tsk tsk! In my opinion, I cannot believe that anyone on these sites can use such words in a negative way. Isn't the whole point of this industry to celebrate all our sluttyness and whoredom? And may I add that the purpose of this industry is to give all of us the freedom to express our sluttyness. Now, the word 'slut' to me is totally something to be proud of. I admit I am a slut, my friends are sluts and I choose to only be around sluts, because I truly believe that it is absolutely inspiring to have such freedom and confidence to be yourself without all the guilt and shame. My dearest friends are respectful, safe and fun sluts to be around. Being a slut is all shits and giggles in my world...so ladies, maybe we need to stop for a sec and appreciate all our slutty fantastic lives. To end this note, I will say the sluts and whores of the world are by far the most interesting people. How else are we going to enjoy our own sexual liberation without the help of sluts???

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Hello Toronto... Did you miss me? Your Elite Adult Entertainer with a FIRECRACKER Personality! Standing at just 5"1, I am a petite girl with an athletic build with piercing blue eyes and luscious round booty that has been known to make the hearts of fine gentlemen melt. I can best describe myself as incredibly personable, fun and have been known to have an endless amount of energy. I love great conversation over a nice glass of wine, dinner and most importantly dessert . Available this week: Wednesday evening, Thursday daytime & evening, Friday daytime, and all weekend long My incall is discreet and elegant in the heart of Yorkville. I am also available around the GTA for ......... Check out my website for further information! www.lisbethnova.com or email me [email protected]

Sorry all.. I started this thread and had no idea that it would go on this long... maybe I should not reply right now so that it will keep going

Sorry I have not been on this board very long to have read every thread and this was an issue that was brought up to me recently. I have only had positive experiences with various races... I think I judge more on how someone writes to me rather their race. Whether they be Indian, Asian, black or white I have a certain standard to how I am approached in an email.

I have heard from a few lovely gents that they have experienced racism from providers. Some who were asked straight up what race they were and when they answered, they were flat out rejected.. I found this quite shocking.. but I am wondering how many clients have experienced this? Also, a question for the providers is whether you have a preference for particular races... I guess it's a tough question, but I actually have read on some provider websites, -"no blacks and no indian". I am just curious how common this is???

Yes I agree with this.. I wouldn't recommend going for a coffee unless you really need to see if he is okay. I only did this the one time because this was the only situation I was not sure about and he was quite charming in his emails... glad I did the extra check though, but this was a unique situation.

These are my rules which may not apply to all SPs... but I have been trained by one of the best ladies in the biz and she has given me the guidelines that allow me to stay safe. 1. always ask for references from a reputable provider. I research the provider and email them, unless they are from not to reputable websites and look sketch. 2. If they are not able to give a reference, it is always helpful to ask for personal information like a linked in account or work website, if they email you from their company email address it is easy to google search them and find proof that they are actually at that company. 3. If they are still not comfortable giving out any information (which is going to happen much more now with this bill passing) You could suggest to meet for a coffee first. One situation I had was going to coffee with a gent who I wasn't feeling sure about and surely enough he was definitely not someone I was comfortable moving forward with (he was on drugs), So I ended up turning him away... not the easiest thing to do,,,,so this brings me to number 4. 4. Use your gut instinct... usually if you have a bad feeling about it, it's bad. I really analyze how a gent writes to me, both grammatically and in the words he chooses to use. "I want greek, 2 hours, outcall" is not a good enough email for me. These kinds of emails I have received on other not so reputable sites that I did not even sign up for, they just took my information.

I was going to say... I actually am completely nervous to answer any email with these abbreviations.... In fact this kind of email I may answer to, but I know it won't go anywhere since there is absolutely no information as to who this gent is at all.. danger!!

Thank you! I am on Caerf but I do not post there so much. But I am really enjoying CERB! and I have to agree with you about TERB.. wow do I ever get awful emails from horrible guys on that site and the forums are very difficult to participate as a provider because it seems like just a bunch of college jocks bromancing about the poon they are probably not really getting.

I used urbandictionary.com to figure out all these acronyms but I have to admit I really dislike using them and with this new bill passing in December, I really hope everyone stops using them.

Great! I hope you had a great time and enjoy the hobby!

I wanted to write a post to discuss what the differences both clients and providers find with these forums. As someone who mostly has used TERB and I am relatively new to CERB, I cannot help but see that users of this site are far more active than those of TERB, and the general discussions are far more engaging. TERB has also removed their chat room, but when I did use it, it was pretty much like TER where not many people were in there and not many people chatting at all. However, the chat room on this site is quite active and enjoyable. I have not really used Perb or Merb yet, but I wanted to see what everyone else thinks of all of these sites and what differences you notice as either a client or provider.

100% agree with this... it totally hurts my mojo

Welcome and congrats on liberating yourself from the clutches of monogamy! Here are a few things I look for when gents or couples arrange a meeting from me and hopefully they can give you an idea of what SPs look for. 1. I really appreciate gentlemen who write me in a respectful way, without demanding Greek or other more risky acts. Maybe it's a little overboard, but I really pay attention to how someone writes and having proper grammar and respectful language. 2. References from other providers or other proof of identification is a must. Providers should be 100% discreet with your information and it's for the protection and safety for everyone involved. 3. Guys who write too many emails can get really annoying and make the SP feel uneasy about meeting you. Once you have made the appointment, it isn't necessary to keep writing an SP over and over again. 4. It is never a good idea to barter a price with an SP, especially when it's an SP you have never met. Most likely a happy SP with a pleasant gent will always go the extra mile for her special clients... at lease I do anyways.

Thank you so much :) everyone's advice and comments are greatly appreciated. I am also a bit nervous about Bill c36. Especially as a new SP, it's quite difficult finding clients these days.

There is actually another pregnant SP advertising here in Toronto and I think she does quite well. As much as it was a little shocking to see at first, I have heard a lot of gents really have a thing for pregnant women. I think it's quite an interesting choice and totally respect any SP who does it.

I am still experiencing difficulties with the chat... is it just me?

I completely agree with this statement. I am having a difficult time getting any information out of clients and I understand their concern and fear, but it's only for my own safety. Some don't even want to give references from other providers because they don't want the providers to know that they are seeing someone else.. I think that's a tad ridiculous.

This is a question for both hobbiests and providers... Are there any basic rules you have when either looking or creating an advertisement or website? For example- I really look at the aesthetic of providers websites, like the quality of their photography and their style of writing. I was told by another provider to not write all those acronyms we see so often on these sites, because it looks tacky, but I am often asked about them. What are some of the things you look for in ads?

I really don't like it when a gent tried to get a discount from me before we even met. It's cheap and tasteless. I also don't like when they are not comfortable about what they are doing and look suspicious and as if they are doing something bad. It's hard to get in the mood when the person you are with is on edge and looking as if he just did a serious drug deal.