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I also meet Addison a few weeks ago - she is everything the op said and more. Absolutely fun, sincere and sexy. Enthusiastic and intelligent, I will definitely look forward to the next time I'm in Winnipeg!

I will admit I am a breast man as well, but eyes lips and well-manicured toes will all do it for me. Long hair can work as well. And the inside of the thighs, so soft. Ok, maybe all of a woman for me as well. :)

I was given this advice (talk to her first) and was glad to have listened to it. My wife and I have been 'joking' (flirting?) about bringing a second woman into the bedroom for almost 20 years, following up a near threesome we had when we first starting dating (yes, alcohol was involved). I thought about the surprise idea, and started to even put some feelers out, and it was pretty universally felt that I couldn't just surprise her, we had to talk about it first. And I am really glad I did. Not because she wasn't interested (which I think was my worry), but because she has a pretty big idea about who we would be bringing into our bedroom. Matching sizes (she is not a size two), matching ages (we're in our 40s, would want the same), etc. Long story short, talking to her not only meant avoiding what could have been very uncomfortable / awkward, now it is even cooler because she is part of picking out our potential partner. We are going out to restaurants, and saying things like "how about someone like her", "she is pretty, yeah I would be great with someone like her"; which is all a pretty big turn on in its own right. Just my (our) two cents.

We're (my wife and I) looking at the possibility of our first real threesome. We are in our 40s now, and had a brief experience with a woman when we were in our early 20s. I hadn't been able to get it out of my mind since then, but even still I was surprised to find out she felt the same way. Neither of us had really talked about it though, largely because we didn't even think about an escort joining us. We felt it would be complicated to meet someone, as well as potential worries about jealousy, etc. The real reason for this post is more of a question for the group: we want to set up some pretty specific borders for the big event, specifically that we want the first time to be all about her. She has always fantasized about being pleasured by a woman and a man at the same time. So, the question - if you were a provider approached in this regard, how much conversation (by phone or email) would you deem reasonable prior to a call? Thanks in advance. Dantesfolly

Thank you for your warm welcome! My wife and I had separate accounts, not realizing it was against policy - we are both using dantesfolly now. Sorry for any confusion - we are still looking forward to exploring this new world.

Hello, We are new as well. We are a married couple in our 40s who are just looking into some new opportunities for our recreational activities. :)

Just listening to a Chris Cornell mix ... some Soundgarden, some Audioslave and a bit of his own stuff. Dude could put out a CD of nursery rhymes and I would buy it.

Is there an eta for when the results may be ready? This seems like a fascinating study.

It's all marketing, and while there are no formal rules for it, the terms, like in any advertisement, should be relatively clear: The ad is going to absolutely emphasize the positives and minimize those things that may be viewed as negatives by some, while highlighting features they feel are unique/special. I think that the only expectation beyond this would be that the ad doesn't actively lie - dramatic Photoshop, different person, etc. If someone is expecting anyone to be without imperfections of any sort, simply because they did not specifically state them in their ad, they are being unrealistic. No one puts "I like to take long lunches and occasionally check the internet for sports scores" on their resume. Yet, I think that may describe more than one or two people that I know.

To me, I hope and think it is the respect that is offered to the women. In reading some blogs, etc., from women in the industry, forced and negative reviews can be quite difficult and demeaning. My experience here is limited, but this format and spirit of community seems to minimize the odds of overt pressures on the providers to go beyond their comfort levels simply for artificial ratings. I know nothing is that simple, and there will always be people who will attempt to manipulate a system in their favour, but the moderation and stated mission of cerb seem to keep the discourse and interactions respectful. Probably more than was asked for, but it is an important aspect of this to me. :)

I am also new here, and I agree this community sounds incredibly welcoming!