peacectryguy

Awesome post Ms. Riley. Thanks for sharing that. I've often thought about what "toughness" it takes for you all to do this and I truly respect and admire how strong the successful ladies are.

On The Waterfront

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Got really lucky out here last night. The PBS station out of Tacoma Wa had a double bill (and better yet, no pledge drive). The first one was Cool Hand Luke (sweatiest movie ever according to an old Cheers episode, lol). Loved Paul Newman in that. Followed up with Rocky II (not as good as the first but enjoyable on a quiet Saturday night.) Speaking of prison break movies, love Shawshank Redemption and would really love to see Papillon again sometime soon. (big time Steve McQueen fan here) Additional Comments: Another one I have on DVD is the remake of True Grit with Jeff Bridges. I actually like it better than the original. The Duke was great, of course but he was the only thing that made the original watchable, imo. Didn't like Kim Darby at all and Glen Campbell was god-awful as the Texas ranger(Matt Damon was much better)

Deliverance

I would find it really interesting to sit down with some RCMP officers or other cops privately to see what their honest opinion of all this is. It probably depends on where they are posted or work on a daily basis but I would bet a great many of them feel that this only creates more work for them when they could be dealing with far more serious issues out there Although this is much different, it reminds me a little of the pushing through of the gun registry in the 90's. The government pushed the thing down everyone's throat as a political ploy to show their constituents how tough they were and a few cops jumped on board (most notably, the police chief in Toronto at the time) and it turned into an epic waste of time and resources. Meanwhile the underground illegal guns flowed through this country. I remember at that time talking to several police officers who were dead set against the legislation. They realized how ill advised it was and how it would do nothing to stop gun violence. This prostitution bill will become much of the same colossal failure of government to not see the forest for the trees. They make a bold move to appease a bunch of conservative right wing kooks and act like they are doing it in the best interest of the people involved. Meanwhile, the victims will be pushed farther into the shadows and hidden from view by those that exploit them.

I agree completely with that. Not only aboriginal women but all of the women on the fringes of this business. I can never understand the politicians who hold themselves up to be the protector of certain vulnerable members of our society by creating policies that only drive those most vulnerable farther underground and putting them at greater risk. I guess it shouldn't surprise me, though. Most of these politicians are born with a silver spoon and don't really give a rats ass about the less fortunate, despite their proclamations from on high.

Myself, I don't see this stupid thing ever being the law of the land. It is just too ill-conceived and badly written to have any real legs. I see it as McKay and Harper trying to appease the right wing side for the election and nothing more. I just am not too worried at this point. Also, as has been mentioned, enforcing it is a nightmare for the cops. They don't have the resources to do what everybody seems to be worried about. They will instead, go after easy targets. They do this in the US all the time. When the street walkers become too visible and complaints start, they put on a show of "cracking down". Then tell the ladies to be more discreet and the ladies move somewhere less in the "soccer mom's" eyes. The cops then go back to ignoring it. They rarely if ever target the high end escort biz.

I agree that here in the "West", nudism becomes some stupid immature boys ogling naked bodies and getting a hard-on. This is mostly due to the puritan stupidity that permeates our society. We are all taught when we are way too young to understand anything that the naked human body is somehow "dirty" and "taboo". The worst example is the female breast. A glimpse of a nipple in public becomes the worst thing that can possibly happen in our society and all hell breaks loose. It's pretty pathetic that a 6 yr old boy seeing a woman breast feeding her baby is somehow worse than a video game or movie that has multiple decapitations and blood all over the screen. Don't even get me started on the demeaning lyrics in some music. As for me, I've never had the opportunity to partake in any of these nudist activities but I would very likely find it very liberating.

Well, the criminal record part doesn't worry me too much. But that's just me. I think the big thing here is what some have already mentioned. The enforcement of the law. The government will toss a little money at it and in the short term, police will step up the presence on the street side and at questionable agencies where under age girls could be involved. The "Johns" will get busted and the Tories and religious right wing will be singing the praises and twisting their arms patting themselves on the back. Over some time, however, the resources won't be there for L.E. and prostitution in this country will be like everywhere else in the world. Supposedly illegal to buy sex but most cops just looking the other way other than in circumstances where it is blatantly being exposed to the general public. All these "morality" laws are just made to appease the do-gooders who don't want to see it. Honestly, I truly believe if you were to sit down privately with most cops, they probably aren't too much in favor of this legislation. It just creates extra work on an already heavy workload. That's just the way I see this going. Sex has been "for sale" since the dawn of human history. I doubt this will have a great impact in the long term. I also doubt the cops will be targetting touring or discreet SP's and their clients as much as the guys picking girls up off the street corner. Having said that, any decision I make about continuing this hobby or not will be based on many other factors, not this one.

Pretty much all of the above but mostly faking. I don't want some generic, "oh baby, oh baby, oh god" fake orgasm crap. I would honestly prefer the lady say, "that isn't doing it for me hon, let's try this or that". And if nothing works, so be it. At least I know what not to do or what needs working on and don't go through life thinking I'm good when I'm not. Any lady I've been with, I have expressed my need for that honesty up front. The other thing is this. Enjoy what you are doing or get out of the biz, imo. When you hate your job, it comes out of you in waves for everyone to see and feel.

I love that answer! Yes, these are the things that are sexy. I would add attitude and personality are everything to me. A young person can have what is considered "perfect" looks, body, smile and everything going on physically but if they don't have the personality and attitude that matches, there is zero sex appeal. As for me, when I was younger, I never considered myself sexy even though some women told me I was. Now that I'm older however, I have a completely different attitude and outlook. I'm in great shape for a mid 50's guy, relative good looks but it's all attitude and attention to making the person I'm with happy and satisfied. I've learned how to be patient and take the time to find those little things that turn a woman on. I find that if I give her great pleasure, the experience is far more pleasurable for me. Age, body image and all the other media driven crap might sell advertising but it means nothing in face to face intimate encounters.

Peachy, I totally understand what you are saying. Honestly, if I email an escort( after a thorough read of her webpage and this is her preferred method of initial contact), I just wait for the reply. If it doesn't come, so be it. You really shouldn't email the lady back a bunch of times with the inane questions like, "did you get my message?" or "where are you?". It comes across as needy and pathetic but more importantly, it's just annoying. Even the cellphone, when one calls, if no answer, leave a polite message and wait. I get it in my business all the time. I do not and will not answer the damn thing while driving down the highway. Don't call back in 2 minutes and another 2 mins, etc. You may just get no service from me. People seem to be extremely impatient with all the new technology we have. They think because you have a smartphone, their texts and calls should be immediately addressed. Hell, my own boss does it to me and I give him shit every time.

I too, like that we are trying to help in some way outside our country. I do agree with you though that we also need to address similar problems right here in our own country. I think, for the most part, Canada does a pretty good job of this but unfortunately, it sometimes appears to not be enough. My biggest problem with trying to help others is that often they don't or won't help themselves. There will always be that small percentage that abuse the systems in place and /or cause many of these problems that put the children at high risk. I don't mean to be callous here but it just is what it is. I see far too many young women who get pregnant and won't alter their lifestyle (even temporarily) in the best interest of the fetus. It's the old adage of a few bad apples but there is some selfish behavior out there and there is only so much a government, charity group or medical professionals can do. As for trying to help in third world countries, again admirable and well intentioned and if the funds are there, at least try. The problem here is how often the funds don't reach their intended target. The donations of charity sometimes are diverted from the governments and leaders of those countries who need it because the leaders prefer to live like kings while their citizens die in poverty. I am not saying don't. I think it's great to make the effort. I am just playing "devil's advocate" here and saying the human race is very flawed and all our good deeds are balanced by all the evil-doers.

A wonderful lady who will be missed by all. She really enabled all women to feel good about themselves and happy with what they have . She made us all realize that the inner self is much more important than the outer shell. I will miss her words and wisdom. Rest in peace, Dr. Angelou.:(

I'm just going to echo what most of the guys have been saying. That is to explore what you are suited for and good at and be willing to relocate if necessary. That seems to be the hardest part for lots of guys. Moving away from family and friends is extremely difficult. I did it 3 years ago and it hasn't been an easy ride. I do have the benefit of a trade and am skilled at what I do. I also was fortunate enough to have relatives in this area who put me up until I got settled. But the biggest thing is employers are desperate for any skilled workers here in the northwest. If you are willing to invest the time and have any skill set, there is lots of work to be had and lots more to come. I would add to the post about Ft Mac and Sask that all across northern Ab and BC the job market is good. Not only construction trades but if willing or able to drive truck, work in the oil patch or even the spin-off from the oil patch and construction. Plenty of clerical and technical people needed as well and they pay top dollar if you can get in the right company. Maybe a little extra education or training needed but well worth it, imo. P.S. One thing that goes along with all the jobs and big wages is the cost of living is a little steep so it is a trade-off, to a degree.

Wow, I sure wouldn't want to fall into the catagory of "mega infinity turn-off" Miss Nicolette, lol. Oh, and it's all good. To you and all the ladies posting on here, stay on the soapbox as long as you like. We totally understand your frustration. Guys need to know that coming across in the initial contact like a 16 year old, "young, dumb and full of cum" teenager will never get a response from anyone they would really want to be with anyway. Anyone that does take them seriously is probably not someone reputable or safe.

LMFAO, I love it and I agree, pancakes, maple syrup(the real stuff) and bacon are good anytime and almost anywhere.

I understand that these things are annoying to say the least for all you ladies but I can't help but laugh at the utter stupidity of some guys. I don't know, I just have to find the humor. I hope you ladies can find humor in some of it too. At least, when you look back at it after the initial frustration and anger. The one that puzzles me is one that I talked to a provider about once. The guy phones, texts, whatever and books a session. Than starts the haggling. When she says "look buddy, the price is the price." He has the audacity(read stupidity here if you like, lol) to tell her he's a stud and hung like a horse and doesn't really need to "buy" sex. We could never figure out why he called her in the first place. I don't know how you ladies keep your sanity with some of these idiots at times. I really admire you all for hanging in there for the good ones. Please remember we aren't all bad.:icon_biggrin:

That stuff always boggles my mind. I definitely could see that being a huge no-no for you ladies. Honestly, why some guys are so lacking in self-esteem that they have to talk about, send pictures of or anything else of their dick is sad in a way. Seriously, do they not understand that you women have seen all sorts of them and are not impressed in the least. Additional Comments: Oh and as for the L word and getting possessive, can't understand how some people don't grasp the concept of boundaries. Absolutely crazy, imo for that to even get into the consciousness Not that I couldn't like one of you ladies a lot if we were intimate on several occasions but liking someone and being a friend is okay. Know where the line is and don't go near it. Tongue in cheek, I do say my little guy does "love" pussy, lol. Of course, he can't make life decisions or get jealous so it's all good.:dncdick:

well said, it is about the person and not the label in all human interactions.

One thing to add to my earlier comment. I will not ever fall into some scenario where my emotions control my brain. It's not in my makeup and never will be. Therefore, I have no worry of becoming too emotionally connected to a provider despite seeing her more than once. Do I like that lady and feel a connection? Certainly, that is one reason why I repeat with her but it is also nice to be able to avoid the hassles of looking, researching, etc and knowing the likes, dislikes. Comfort is important. I also wouldn't try to book with a lady that clearly expresses that she does not like booking married men, although I haven't really seen too many providers out there who are that particular in that aspect. And obviously, some here have expressed how much they enjoy this part of the business.

Very good point, Cristy. We can express our likes, desires, preferences, etc and not always be PC. I think most intelligent people understand that and accept it for what it is. Nobody should ever be offended by honesty as long as it isn't intentionally harmful. It seems most of the guys and gals on here understand this aspect pretty well.

I guess it never really dawned on me that some providers might feel a little more secure knowing a client is married and really isn't looking to get too serious. Like RG says, I bet there are lots of hobbyists who are single that also are secure and mature enough to understand the dynamic of what these encounters are. We, as clients, know that this isn't a love affair that is going to be fraught with the danger of obsession or fatal attraction. For some of us, that is what we need. That's not to say we don't form a friendship and trust that has obvious emotional undertones. But we know where the line is and stay clear. I guess that's more of a maturity aspect than being married or single. As for me, yes, I am married. I admit that. I love my wife and she is great but for the last 3 years and I fear for quite a few more, our marriage is a long distance one (approx 1400 km). We see each other for about 2-3 weeks a year. I'm not trying to justify anything here, just explaining why I do this. This dynamic allows me to fullfill my needs while maintaining a privacy and discretion that affairs or dating can't provide. I need not worry about someone getting emotionally attached to me and doing something stupid and/or crazy.

The question being do nice breasts make a woman sexy? The simple answer is Nice breasts are sexy but no, they are not what makes the woman sexy, per se. Now, I won't lie. I love, love, love breasts. Big titties, little titties, round titties, oblong titties, perky titties, saggy titties. I love em all. But true sex appeal for me goes much deeper. I've said it before, I know, but intelligence, class and that inner beauty and spark are where the sexiness come from. The outer shell, as it were, while being visually enticing and exciting is only the first part of the overall package. It catches the eye but not necessarily the brain or the libido for me. Just one man's opinion. As for your augmentation, Miss Cristy, they are spectacular but I would wager you would be just as sexy with your natural breasts. Your intelligence and obvious kind heart would make you sexy no matter what, imo. Jus sayin.