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That is an interesting take on sarcasm. I think sometimes it can be pretty harmless banter but it definitely is used a lot by insecure people on the internet. Sincerity seems to be a somewhat lost art, kinda like common sense and following the "golden rule". Sarcasm and putting down others to make us feel better about ourselves seems to be getting more common by the day. PS. Thank goodness for sites like this one that maintain a more positive, enlightened approach to message boards.

Personally, I will never understand how anyone could go see someone to be intimate and not be clean. It's mind-boggling. Honestly, I say keep all of his damn money and hope he gets the message that this is unacceptable. Probably won't take though. If a guy goes out to see a lady, being that nasty, he probably is too stupid to realize what's going on anyway.

Lmao. Shit stories are always so funny. I hate public washrooms. People are such slobs. The "non-flusher" and the "seat splasher" are my pet peeves. No reason for it, imo.

Well, for me, I would obviously understand if the lady was under the weather or if you are extremely tired and not feeling well, I would completely understand if you called me and explained that, too. As for bumps and bruises, definitely not something to worry about. I work in plumbing and heating and I get more cuts and bruises and crap all over then a little bit. (It's all okay, my tetanus shots are up to date, lol.) Hell, a couple weeks ago,I had a big scar on my forehead from smacking it on some ductwork so I figure a little thigh or butt bruise is no biggy. Those little "imperfections" just make it more real and enjoyable. :biggrin:

thx but fstop hit the nail on the head. All good now. Don't even know how I did that but was hitting buttons on here that I couldn't even see, lol.

there we go, thx:biggrin:

So my CERB page has shrunk on my computer screen to about 1/3 of the scree. Don't know how, why or what the hell I did but it's driving me nuts. Can't seem to correct it. I'm tech challenged here so is there anyone out there who has an idea what I could do. This is the only site that is doing this and I can't figure out why.I can barely see what I just typed so hope the spelling is okay.

I feel that if a good connection is made and felt, then repeating is a good thing. After 2-3 visits, the comfort level is awesome. We both know the other persons likes, we aren't guessing anymore and we know those special things that arouse our partner. We also do this without the serious emotional entanglements that can muddy the waters of other types of encounters. That is not to say that I, as a client and her, as a provider don't develop a friendship and trust. We do and it is a wonderful thing but we both accept the boundaries that this dynamic requires. There are no judgements, just safe, fun experiences that hopefully, leave us both breathless and wanting more.

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Well, as you can see, my location is just a tad off the beaten path here so this issue has not come up. However, if I were to be travelling and found I was nearby and wanted to book a date with one of you lovely ladies, I would include my CERB handle in my opening email, text, phone conversation or whatever just so you may have a slight glimpse of the type of person who was asking. I don't see how our handle here should be kept a secret when I've already told the lady my real name. It doesn't make much sense to mention CERB and hide that, imo.

This is probably something that has been posted before. I don't know and am too lazy to check old threads. But it occurs to me after the last couple days that we sometimes take for granted that an escorts life is all peaches and cream. They set up a nice incall location, post an ad, the calls come in and the clients show up. They pay, play and everybody is happy. The lady tidies up and ready for the next lucky fella. Kind of a lather, rinse, repeat scenario. Or the lady goes on tour, sets herself up in a nice discreet hotel location and pretty much the same thing. Well, yesterday, I came across a few things that made me realize that this isn't always the case. I read (on a different board) a story of a touring lady running into one mishap after another and because of it all, actually barely breaking even while on her first week on tour. Another story of a lady who received a man at her door who rudely told her she wasn't as hot as her pictures and too old (although her website is clearly defined with her age, body type and well laid out photos). The loser walked and business lost. I posted something on here that cheered someone up (no names needed) who had a rough go this weekend and was feeling a little down. I didn't even realize I was doing something nice at the time but glad I did. I guess my point here is that we all need to step back sometimes and put ourselves in other peoples shoes. We say things on message boards and do things in life possibly without any ill intent but our words and actions often effect even the strongest of people. We all get our feelings hurt and lose our self confidence and it might behoove all of us to say a kind word now and then for no other reason but to just help our fellow human beings out. Most on here are pretty aware of all of this and are pretty good at keeping things positive so this isn't directed at anyone. Just a general thought is all. Okay, my rambling is over, lol. Go back to having fun y'all.

I think that maybe at some sub-conscious level, black represents the dark side of our nature so it gets thought of more in terms of "sex appeal". Personally, I like some of the blues that are out there, blue being my favorite color. To echo most guys though, the woman behind the lingerie is the key, not just how she looks but how she presents herself. Her confidence and sex appeal will shine through any outfit she is wearing. One thing I will say, if you request the outfit, at least take the time to enjoy it. Like Cristy says, it takes some effort and time on her part to honor your request, make it worth her while and appreciate it. I know I will if I get the opportunity.:motion:

Lmao, I love that answer. And no, I don't think Alaska really counts, lol. To be serious though, I truly believe that all ladies, everywhere are beautiful in their own way. I think the true attraction comes from inside, not the outer shell. As I've said in other threads, intelligence, wit and sophistication are all huge turn-ons for me and those qualities can be found in women the world over.

Well, I'm fairly new here and still sort of navigating around but I pretty much echo what has already been mentioned. The aspect of a positive, respectfull discourse among people here is a huge plus for me. I've been on all kinds of different forums and it seems that some people just can't grasp the concept of this. The people I've seen posting here seem to truly embrace this though. The appreciation we receive with the "thanked" posts makes us feel good too. It's nice when other people like what you have to say and it isn't always debate just for the sake of debating. Additional Comments: Oh yeah, I forgot. I get to have conversations with and see pictures of beautiful, wonderful, open-minded ladies too. Now if I could just win the lottery so I can spend my days traveling the country to meet all these lovely women in person, my life would be complete. :icon_biggrin:

I think that right there is the whole key to this conversation. Really well said, Ms. Nicolette. There is no such thing as perfection and people have to realize that. I never go into this expecting some fantasy that is, frankly, unattainable. I do, however, understand (and appreciate) that you ladies have to put your best "side" out there because you are obviously trying to attract potential customers. We, as clients, just have to realize this and understand the dynamic of advertising. I think we do but sometimes forget when it comes to this particular industry. (little brain fogs big brain and our idiot asses go off half-cocked into lala land)

I think that would be a good idea. Then only registered users are are looking at profiles. If people aren't willing to sign on, why have the privilege of being able to browse? As for the blocking thing, I don't quite understand why we would register, create a profile, post on a message board and then not allow others to view said profile but yet expect to view their profile. It doesn't seem right and I agree with Cristy, there should be a way to do the same to those.

Very well stated Cristy. I agree completely. Never expect exactly what you see. There are too many factors that go into the photos. Especially if the shots seem to be professional ones. For face pics, top notch makeup people will often do a makeover that the woman can never recreate for herself. And photographers can often get just the perfect angles and shots that hide even the smallest imperfections. Honestly, the photos aren't the thing that gets me when looking for an encounter. It's the wording and the sincerity that comes through. I look for wit, intelligence and confidence. I don't need the generic " hot babe" "will rock your world" drivel that many ads seem to have in them. There is an art to the spoken or written word that I find attractive. If you can capture that art, you can capture our attention and even the guys who are more visual will subconsciously feel that. For example, I read Cristycurves webpage and was blown away before even looking at the gallery. Trust me, these things are a huge turn-on.

Ramble on RG, it's all good, lol. Seriously though, it is so true. To the guys who do this, some things to remember. YOU called her, YOU requested the service, YOU are the one looking for this. She did not initiate contact or try to hard sell (pun very much intended) you. Trying to haggle is rude, disrespectful and utterly pointless. Go back to where ever it is that you get that "better deal" or go home. When you have contacted a lady that offers a much better experience than you are obvious accustomed to, expect to compensate her accordingly. As a matter of fact, bring extra for the tip you should need to give for this wonderful experience. They might not want to come work in the oil patch if they don't like inflation. As for generalizing, it's usually not a good idea but, in this case, it seems to be a trend. ps. My guess is the ones who haggle are the ones who can afford it anyway. That seems to be my experience in all walks of life. I get it with my work as a plumber too.

I honestly don't understand how guys can text the "hey baby" thing. It's so disrespectful, imo. I could see an opening conversation starting with that being a total turnoff for you ladies. Most of the turn-offs I read in this thread are pretty obvious ones and a guy would have to be pretty stupid not to realize that.

I tried a 30 min one time and found it was over way too fast so no, 15 mins for me would never happen. I rarely, if ever , book 60 mins anymore. It is usually 90 or 120 or longer. I find myself wanting more than the wham, bam thank you maam. I'm talking about something more than just getting off. There has to be some connection. A mutual feeling that comes from both parties involved. I don't mean some love thing here. After all, we know what this is, but there is an emotional, sensual connection that comes with a good sexual encounter. It's human nature and to deny that makes this all meaningless so why spend the money. I see many providers' ads that talk of an experience that encompasses body, mind and soul so it seems there is more to this for you ladies out there too. Most times I've talked to a provider about encounters, they seem to be put off by guys coming in just for quick sex, getting off and leaving. Cumming and going, as it were. It's probably why some ladies prefer to see 40-50-60's guys, (besides them being financially secure). Making money is the goal for most of you, obviously, but enjoyment in what you are doing has to be important. Believe me, if you don't enjoy it, we can tell (despite what you may think of us horndawgs).

Well, for me personally, it has little or nothing to do with being covered or not. It's all about how well it is done. There are some times when it just isn't all that enjoyable. Most of the time, though it is a turn-on that gets me from hard to very hard. Funny thing is, it never takes me to the point of orgasm despite how well it is being done. I guess that's good for a provider that offers BBBJ but not CIM. BLS is also a huge turn-on if done well.

I guess I'm in the camp of intelligent and a well laid out webpage. Having said that though, my tastes vary quite dramatically from one day to the next. There isn't one specific look, body style or other physical attribute. It's kind of strange really. Something intangible piques my interest and there it is. One other thing is when I go to a ladies webpage, the gallery is usually the last thing I go to. A great sense of humor is a must for me, too. I don't always pick right but most times am pretty happy with my choice.

I think that right there is the key, honesty. It's unfortunate that some people can't handle that. Personally, I want honesty from the lady I'm with. Whether it's about hygiene or even the experience itself. I often ask this of my partner, pro or not. And I talk about it afterward. It's better knowing the truth than going about things thinking all is well when it isn't.

This is a great thread. I have laughed to the point of a painful gut. If there was an internet thread hall of fame, this baby would be a first ballot inductee. (sports metaphor, sorry). I love it and am amazed at the stories I hear from providers of men who haven't got the common sense to grasp what is mostly, a very simple concept. One of the craziest things I've heard and I've heard it from a few ladies is the young guy who actually calls the provider and when his lame attempt at "negotiating" doesn't work, he has the idiotic nerve to say, "I'm a stallion and don't really have to pay for it, ya know." You called her, didn't you? Truly sad, when you think about it. Maybe it's the failing education system, I don't know.

that's funny Raven Rain because just last week when going to visit a lovely young lady provider that I have become fairly regular with, I didn't time things well. As I was coming down the street near the hotel, I looked at the clock and realized I was more than 15 mins early so off to Tim's for a mocha I went and sat in my truck to kill 10 mins or so, lol. I like to be there either right on time or maybe 5 mins early at most