peacectryguy

It seems as though a lot of men watch way too much porn and don't understand that that is not what most women like or want. I think it takes some maturity to really understand the nuances of a good sexual experience. Honestly, if I'm not giving my partner a good sexual experience, I find that my own experience is unsatisfactory as well. Extended foreplay including soft caressing, kissing various parts of the body,(there are more places than just the breasts and genitals that turn women on, too), nibbling( understand the softer touch here), and complimenting and showing the "lady" appreciation are all turn-ons that can be mutually beneficial, imo. I also find that when it gets to the point of penetration, very rarely does it really last as long as most men think it does. Sometimes second time around or even third time, there is more stamina, it seems which is why I often book longer sessions. Of course, there have been lots of times that the longer session has turned into one good love-making session and a lot of cuddling and conversation.Nothing wrong with that either.

Very interesting thread and I completely agree that when we are "shopping" (for lack of a better term) for a S.P., we should all take the time to actually read the ad, website and any other relevant information so we know what is expected. Now, having said that, there are times when certain details may have been overlooked in the ad and questions are necessary. S.P.'s, like all women have certain things that they may not be comfortable with and I can completely understand that. I never have a problem with a simple "no, I'm sorry, but that is something I don't do." As for the hygiene thing, I can never understand how any man can be a total slob and expect that a lady would not be put off by it. I find myself chuckling when I see that providers actually have to tell guys this. And being polite and respectful should never be an issue anywhere, anytime but unfortunately, there seems to be certain people out in our world who can't (or won't) grasp that simple concept.