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I tried a 30 min one time and found it was over way too fast so no, 15 mins for me would never happen. I rarely, if ever , book 60 mins anymore. It is usually 90 or 120 or longer. I find myself wanting more than the wham, bam thank you maam. I'm talking about something more than just getting off. There has to be some connection. A mutual feeling that comes from both parties involved. I don't mean some love thing here. After all, we know what this is, but there is an emotional, sensual connection that comes with a good sexual encounter. It's human nature and to deny that makes this all meaningless so why spend the money. I see many providers' ads that talk of an experience that encompasses body, mind and soul so it seems there is more to this for you ladies out there too. Most times I've talked to a provider about encounters, they seem to be put off by guys coming in just for quick sex, getting off and leaving. Cumming and going, as it were. It's probably why some ladies prefer to see 40-50-60's guys, (besides them being financially secure). Making money is the goal for most of you, obviously, but enjoyment in what you are doing has to be important. Believe me, if you don't enjoy it, we can tell (despite what you may think of us horndawgs).

Well, for me personally, it has little or nothing to do with being covered or not. It's all about how well it is done. There are some times when it just isn't all that enjoyable. Most of the time, though it is a turn-on that gets me from hard to very hard. Funny thing is, it never takes me to the point of orgasm despite how well it is being done. I guess that's good for a provider that offers BBBJ but not CIM. BLS is also a huge turn-on if done well.

I guess I'm in the camp of intelligent and a well laid out webpage. Having said that though, my tastes vary quite dramatically from one day to the next. There isn't one specific look, body style or other physical attribute. It's kind of strange really. Something intangible piques my interest and there it is. One other thing is when I go to a ladies webpage, the gallery is usually the last thing I go to. A great sense of humor is a must for me, too. I don't always pick right but most times am pretty happy with my choice.

I think that right there is the key, honesty. It's unfortunate that some people can't handle that. Personally, I want honesty from the lady I'm with. Whether it's about hygiene or even the experience itself. I often ask this of my partner, pro or not. And I talk about it afterward. It's better knowing the truth than going about things thinking all is well when it isn't.

This is a great thread. I have laughed to the point of a painful gut. If there was an internet thread hall of fame, this baby would be a first ballot inductee. (sports metaphor, sorry). I love it and am amazed at the stories I hear from providers of men who haven't got the common sense to grasp what is mostly, a very simple concept. One of the craziest things I've heard and I've heard it from a few ladies is the young guy who actually calls the provider and when his lame attempt at "negotiating" doesn't work, he has the idiotic nerve to say, "I'm a stallion and don't really have to pay for it, ya know." You called her, didn't you? Truly sad, when you think about it. Maybe it's the failing education system, I don't know.

that's funny Raven Rain because just last week when going to visit a lovely young lady provider that I have become fairly regular with, I didn't time things well. As I was coming down the street near the hotel, I looked at the clock and realized I was more than 15 mins early so off to Tim's for a mocha I went and sat in my truck to kill 10 mins or so, lol. I like to be there either right on time or maybe 5 mins early at most

It seems as though a lot of men watch way too much porn and don't understand that that is not what most women like or want. I think it takes some maturity to really understand the nuances of a good sexual experience. Honestly, if I'm not giving my partner a good sexual experience, I find that my own experience is unsatisfactory as well. Extended foreplay including soft caressing, kissing various parts of the body,(there are more places than just the breasts and genitals that turn women on, too), nibbling( understand the softer touch here), and complimenting and showing the "lady" appreciation are all turn-ons that can be mutually beneficial, imo. I also find that when it gets to the point of penetration, very rarely does it really last as long as most men think it does. Sometimes second time around or even third time, there is more stamina, it seems which is why I often book longer sessions. Of course, there have been lots of times that the longer session has turned into one good love-making session and a lot of cuddling and conversation.Nothing wrong with that either.

Very interesting thread and I completely agree that when we are "shopping" (for lack of a better term) for a S.P., we should all take the time to actually read the ad, website and any other relevant information so we know what is expected. Now, having said that, there are times when certain details may have been overlooked in the ad and questions are necessary. S.P.'s, like all women have certain things that they may not be comfortable with and I can completely understand that. I never have a problem with a simple "no, I'm sorry, but that is something I don't do." As for the hygiene thing, I can never understand how any man can be a total slob and expect that a lady would not be put off by it. I find myself chuckling when I see that providers actually have to tell guys this. And being polite and respectful should never be an issue anywhere, anytime but unfortunately, there seems to be certain people out in our world who can't (or won't) grasp that simple concept.