peacectryguy

I can only speak about myself but I would likely read this, Summer. Probably as much because of being part of communities like this and getting to understand better how you ladies view this life and all the things you have to deal with along the way. I think if the story is written well and gives people an honest open look at the "other" side of this industry, it could attract a fairly large audience. I will say this, though. I would have to buy the actual book. (Cover, pages that may or may not give me a paper cut, ink on said paper, the real deal. ). I have never been able to read novels on-line or on Kindle or whatever. Honestly, I sometimes struggle with overly long posts, lol, jk. At any rate, I wish you well in this endeavor and admire your courage in doing this.

I do use BP from time to time because frankly, it's the only real game in town around these parts, for the most part. Now, many touring ladies from review boards who tour in the area also advertise on BP when they come here. The one problem with BP is that it is advertising only so if a lady only advertises there, we, as clients, have to try and do more homework to get an idea of who she is. On review or reco boards, we have the luxury of being able to have online conversations with ladies and that makes our decision so much easier. It also helps immensely when we are first meeting as the nervousness isn't quite as bad. Having said all that, I have met several women that advertise exclusively on BP and they have been fantastic, lovely ladies who love what they do and we enjoy each others company. I do, however, take my time, use picture search tools, etc. and watch for suspicious wording in the ads. I have been very good at this, for the most part but there have been a few sub-par experiences over time. This is the risk one takes. I have never been scammed or had any brush-ups with the law and I will continue to enjoy myself by using my instincts.

Well, I always introduce myself with my first name, my age, where I am located, where I saw the ladies ad and, if it relates in any way, my screen name here or somewhere else. It's just a simple courtesy and there is absolutely no danger involved. I don't understand the fear or concern of this, never did. Hell, I'd tell you all here my first name and never worry for a minute. PS. Sorry that I haven't been around posting for a while. I should contribute more to the community. Anyway, hope everyone is enjoying spring and having lots of fun. :icon_wink: Tis that time of year. A little early yet but an old poem goes.... Hurray, hurray, the first of May. Outdoor screwing begins today. :tongue:

I gotta say that I lmao at some of the stuff posted here. As for the explicit stuff in texts from clients, it is pretty sad that they are so clueless about the communication part of the law but I have noticed that a few ladies out there haven't changed much either. Not the more prominent and reputable ladies, mind you. I have this somewhat perverse hobby of perusing the CL and BP ads just to see the worst of the worst. A guy never knows where the next great funny idea might come from. :icon_rolleyes:

Well, I really haven't followed this. Just bits and pieces and really have found out more reading your posts on here. Having said that, These guys are idiots for talking about rape fantasies and crap like that on something as public as Facebook. Should they be expelled? Probably, I suppose. Honestly, I don't think it will matter that much. Where in this country will they be able to have a successful private practice anyway? They could get their degree and hang their shingle up in a nearby penitentiary maybe. The inmates will have a ball with them. Okay, I shouldn't make light of this but really, a bunch of indignation and anger doesn't help either. These guys have royally screwed up and they will have to live with it for the rest of their lives. They will likely be punished and so be it. They deserve what they get because of sheer stupidity. I don't condone their actions or statements but I guess I have become desensitized to all the stupid crap people do these days so I just can't be angry. I don't know, let the powers that be deal with it. I don't think there are any chances of dentists doing much these days. Most offices are pretty open and there is always an assistant in the room. It would be pretty difficult to follow through on these things. My dentists office is completely open to the hallway, no doors anywhere. Most modern clinics are going to that design model, I think. Sorry, I edited this a little.

Happy Birthday. hope its a great one

Victoria, you are a wonderful lady and I send you wishes for a happy, healthy and wonderful 2015. And to everybody else, I wish the same. May all of our 2015's be filled with good tidings.

Well, I wish I could say that I was going to spend some time with one of these beautiful ladies but alas, my little town is a little slow right now. Besides, my sinuses are all blocked up from work the last couple days. So it's looking like home alone and watch the world junior tournament.:biggrin:

You should tell him that he can get a skin mag and a box of baby wipes and still have enough left over for lunch and a couple beers. :handjob: Additional Comments: The worst one I ever heard was from a lady I was visiting one time. She said the guy started with the whole negotiating thing and when she said no way, he informed her that he gets all the ladies he wants without paying because he is youthful, good looking and well-endowed. She asked him why he was calling an escort and he got really mad and started insulting her. I guess you all can guess what the rhetoric was. I've actually heard similar stories from other ladies in the biz too. Kinda sad when you think about it.

Personally, I'm not a big fan of dreads but hey, whatever you want to wear or do is entirely up to you. I don't judge or critique. However, some people can pull it off and others can't, just like lulus, if you know what I mean. Honestly, for me at least, the only person that should have dreadlocks is the late, great Bob Marley. But honorable mention can be made for the alien dude in "Predator". lol

For years, I stayed "natural" and only fairly recently did I venture into totally shaved "down there". Now I can't see ever going back. However, the rest of my body doesn't get touched by a razor, wax, whatever. Mind you, I'm not a real hairy guy anyway. As for the lady I am with, I'm honestly really flexible but the one thing I would say that bothers me slightly is stubble. As far as full bush goes, hey, I came of age in the 70's. It's all good if it's clean. I actually find blond and redhead full fine bush to be a big turn on.

Well, finally watched "Dawn of the Planet of the Apes". Not going to buy the blu-ray until the price drops after xmas but a very good movie, imo. Recently purchased "Sin City- A Dame to Kill For" on blu-ray. Frank Miller and Robert Rodriguez did a great job. And Eva Green is spectacular.

Lmao, the things people do. I was thinking of the "Red Green Show" when I saw the post.

I agree that it is still early and I am sure there will be some enforcement in the form of stings, etc. However, after seeing the press release from Calgary police, it is pretty obvious that although they will abide by the new law, they won't go out of their way to target average citizens. I think MacKay underestimates the people who really enforce laws in this country. He thought he could get on his pulpit and create this travesty and everybody would just fall into line but he doesn't understand that the cops, prosecutors and judges in this country can see the bigger picture here. I am cautiously optimistic that law enforcement officials will continue to do what they always have. Target the exploited and protect the ladies whenever something happens. Now I am off to work for half a day and then get ready for some fun time with two very special ladies tonight. If they bust me after, I doubt I will even care. :tongue:

That would definitely not be cool. I honesty don't understand that anyway. Why oh why do guys feel the need to have some explicit sexual chat when contacting via text, email or whatever? It's absolutely pointless, imo. You are going to meet a lady in person. The "cyber" thing is useless and frankly, not even much of a turn on. Myself, I always prefer contact to be via email if possible amd the text is just to confirm and the final details on arrival. Even then, talk would be preferrable but it seems that many people don't like talking on the phone anymore. Discretion, discretion, discretion.

Personally, I love em all. Enhanced, natural, big, small, it doesn't matter. The only thing I will say is that if they are enhanced, hopefully they are done well and the Dr. is on his "A" game. I hate to hear when a lady has health issues or something because the Doc was thinking about the putt he missed on the golf course. The other thing is hopefully there is no nerve damage and the nipples are still sensitive and responsive. You must still get pleasure from a light touch or nibble. :biggrin:

I agree and thank you Berlin. I think that middle part that I hilited is very apt in this situation. It is very similar to what this new anti-prostitution movement is often compared to and that is Prohibition which was spearheaded by what was then called "the suffragettes" because of men coming home drunk and being violent. While what they were advocating against was very important, their solution to the problem was flawed and eventually caused more problems then it solved because they didn't understand the situation completely. And as for the radical feminists who go way over the top, I agree that they are indeed a very small portion of feminists in general. Like virtually every term about a certain group of people, whoever they may be, we shouldn't paint them all with the same brush. Myself, I respect those feminists who merely want to be treated respectfully and equally. I work alongside some women in construction that while maybe being smaller or less physically gifted in some ways make up for it in spades with a great attitude and work ethic that frankly puts some of my male co-workers to shame. I admire that greatly.

Meaghan, I couldn't agree with you more. There is indeed a long way to go and many things still haven't been addressed but we have made strides in the right direction, I believe. Now, as for these people who profess to be "feminists" in this current political climate. I honestly don't consider them feminists at all. I consider them rich, bored do-gooder housewives who are trying to put an end to prostitution. They pick the most vulnerable and yes, exploited, and use that as a symbol for their altruism. They have no idea of the real world outside their "ivory towers" and really don't understand the impact on others. They just don't want to see or hear about it. The Bedford decision brought the entire industry out into the light of day and they cannot stand that. They probably have husbands that "step out" or their marriage has failed because of something similar and they have an axe to grind. They adopt the mantel of feminism to try and give them credibility but in reality they are setting the real feminist movement back to the stone age. In all fairness to some of them, they don't even realize they are doing this, I believe. They truly believe they are trying to help but they forget the adage of "the road to hell is paved with good intentions".

First things first before I post this. To Cara, very well said and kudos for being the strong, independent, intelligent woman you are. Now from the other side, here goes. Dear Mr. Harper, My name is Ernie(yes, I am using my real first name here), also known as peacectryguy on several forums that advertise and discuss topics related to escorts in Canada. I am 55 years young, separated and work as a plumber/ heating tech in one of the busiest areas of the country. I pay my taxes and am a contributor to the overall good of the economy and well being of this great nation. I am also what is referred to as a hobbyist. I am a customer/ client of ladies who offer companionship for a fee. These ladies are confident and smart and beautiful and in the real dating world, I would likely never meet or see ladies of this stature as I would probably consider them out of my league and never even approach them. You however, and your cronies, would refer to me as a degenerate pervert or some other derogatory term and an exploiter of women. This is far from the reality of my world. I visit and spend time with lovely ladies ranging in age from early 20's to late 40's.I make every effort to treat the ladies with respect and dignity. These ladies are neither coerced by me or anyone else, nor are they victims of violence or drug abuse. They are just people like all of us. Now for the catch. You have enacted a law that would make me a criminal and deprive me of my ability to work in certain places and limit my abilities to continue to contribute to our nation's well-being. By doing this, you also deprive the ladies that I have grown to know the ability to distinguish the difference between a gentleman such as myself and the very people you say you are protecting them from. They are therefore, put into much graver danger then they were before this came into effect. This also limits the free exchange of information and the means for all of us to stay safe in a world where there will always be a select few who prefer to exploit and harm their fellow man or woman. You would drive the entire industry into the underground darkness to hide it from your puritan view rather than bring it all into the light and see it for what it truly is. By doing this you not only make "criminals out of thousands of honest men" (I quoted that because a minister said that when prohibition was enacted), but you allow the real criminals in all of this to never be exposed, therefore putting many ladies well-being and lives in danger. In conclusion, I just want to say thank you for showing your true colors and letting us all know that you are really not worthy of a seat of power in a democracy. With your power, there is supposed to be an unbiased perspective for the good of all Canadians, not just those you deem worthy. I think I'll copy and paste that and send it to our honorable P.M. What do you all think?

I say let somebody read all the babes and huns and whatever they want in my texts. It means absolutely nothing and never will. Women call me hon all the time in public places. Cashiers, bank tellers, my customers (some old enough to be my grandma and that is really old), ladies I hold the door open for at the post office who I don't know. The list goes on and on. If anyone is worried about their wife or girlfriend seeing it, then just delete it immediately or don't read the silly thing in front of them in the first place. Here's a novel idea, turn your hobby phone right off when you aren't alone and in private. Solves the discretion problem in a heartbeat.

Lmao, I almost fell off the couch when I read that. Seriously, that is just so wrong. I think if I really had to go that bad, I would just leave my donation and a tip, apologize profusely and leave. As for my needs, just a nice body wash and towels is enough. I carry a small, travel size toothbrush and mouthwash and brush and rinse right before, even at a truck stop or whatever. And I am always well groomed and clean before I leave home anyway.

I don't know there MightyPen. I thought the metaphor was pretty much right on. I like it. I wish I had your gift of prose. :icon_cool:

Well, I have been blessed with a very good metabolism and have worked in construction for longer than I care to remember. I get cardio, weight training, squats, the whole nine yards on a daily basis. Honestly, I'm not trying to brag or make this sound arrogant in any way. It just is what it is for me. Unfortunately, this may change slightly in the next few months as I am considering a career change to something less strenuous. The arthritis is starting to kick my behind and the knees are pretty much shot to hell. Then I might have to find creative ways to keep the physique. Although, I doubt my weight will change a whole lot with my metabolism and the fact that I eat very healthy foods, for the most part.

I know that I am just adding to what has already been said about this beautiful woman but I can't help but be amazed and grateful for the time I've been able to spend with this lovely lady. When you look at her pictures, it is easy to feel somewhat intimidated but as soon as you talk to Victoria, you realize that this lady is just a down to earth, wonderful person to be around. When we use phrases like beauty being "skin deep", it does not apply to VJ. She is indeed the personification of beauty inside and out. I love our time together and hope to have many more chances to spend time enjoying the company of this lovely lady. Thank you again, Victoria. Have safe and happy travels and a very Merry Christmas.

My comment about the macho thing was a just a little playful fun. I seriously could care less what anybody thinks of me. I outgrew peer pressure many years ago. And RG, I'm with you on the "total" experience.