peacectryguy

Well Nicki, I read the entire thing and I think you did a wonderful job. I love the way you use terms such as "travel around the world twice" and "speaking Russian and French but not Greek". Any potential client should be able to clearly understand everything in there without needing the same old boring menu. I don't know what is supposedly allowed or not but I would have to think that the wording you used is okay. LE might be able to infer (is infer the right term here?)that it is sex but I don't see that as proof of actually breaking this inane law. I think we should have some actual lawyer make that judgement though. After all, I'm just a dumb old plumber. I know shit runs downhill and payday is every other week.:biggrin: Anyway, I think your site is great and really well-written.You are definitely a lady of class. Now if I only could find the time and resources to make a trip to our nations capital, I would be one happy camper.:icon_wink:

This is the thing that I think needs to be stressed. I don't trust the media to give an unbiased report with all the facts. I'm not denying that there is some concern, just saying that keeping ones wits about them is important. A lot of "misinformation" gets spewed out every day in our world and we have to think for ourselves and not just trust everything we read. As for being safe, I always use protection and expect the same from my partner. To me, that's just common sense. And yes, get tested if you have any doubt whatsoever. Learn how to spot even the most minor symptom and deal with it accordingly. Honestly, it's not brain surgery here and we all know our own bodies.

Good morning Victoria. There's an example of what I was saying in my earlier post about the eyes. That lovely picture of Victoria peering out over the veil grabbed me and shook my soul and she is a wonderful lady, I must say. :biggrin:

I'm with Ice4fun, this issue gets beaten to death, not just here but all through society. That's not to say racism doesn't exist and be in denial. Racism will always be a part of human nature. It's not going to end because we open up and "talk" about it. Lets just admit that is is a human failing and move on. Whatever the person who says "no blacks or whatever race" in her ad, that's her deal and none of my business.

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I like a well written ad that shows the me more than just the generic. I love when a lady takes the time to put forth some sense of who she is. A great sense of humor with some witty humorous lines that make me smile will always grab my attention. As well, a well written piece of erotica in there shows me an intelligent, well read person behind the ad. A few other things too but it's hard to put a finger on specifics. As for pictures, I like them as much as the next guy but I love such a variety of women that they really are not a deciding factor. The one thing that can grab me any time is beautiful eyes. Even if that's the only part of the face I see. The "window to the soul" is a huge turn on. Recos/ reviews can be a guideline for me but I find that some guys tastes are different than mine so it's hard to use another guys experience to gauge what mine would be like. As for spas/agencies, I've never been with anyone but indys so I just don't know. Where I live, it's not really an option. All in all, I would say a combination of intelligence, wit and sensuality that comes through in an ad or website will get me interested more often than not.

Well, for me. it does not interfere with my daily activities or my ability to work. As for relationships, I am not interested. It's just not my cup'o'tea. Been there, done it and hated it. Do I think about sex? At times, a lot. At other times, not so much. So to say "addiction"? No.I don't see it at all. This is something I enjoy doing, period. I enjoy the company of beautiful, wonderful ladies without the emotional strings attached.

One thing that came to mind as I am reading this is because of SP's having to be more creative in their writing and not actually talking about services, I think we may see more bookings for longer sessions. I could be totally wrong but it seems that if we, as clients, have to find out after we arrive, we may not be able to do those walk in 15 min or fast15 or whatever that I see in some ads. Of course, there are guys who just want a quick bang out there and don't care about anything else so maybe things won't change much. Personally, I like to have more time and enjoy myself. Even 1/2 hr sessions are too short for my liking but that's just me. When all is said and done, I do go back to reading and comprehension, though. Guys need to slow down and read the ads/websites thoroughly and develop the skill of reading between the lines. Learning how to pick out the subtle nuances of clever writing will go a long way to avoiding confusion, imo. And saying they don't have time or can't because they are on their I-phone is a total cop-out. People need to stop being lazy and maybe that is one good thing that could come out of this.

I find it interesting that there is so much confusion and fear that most people are having trouble seeing the forest for the trees, so to speak. As was said, so eloquently by Fortunateone, there never used to be menus and some sites still don't allow it. The biggest problem I see as I read posts and reviews and such is clients that have gotten lazy and complacent and frankly, some who are too worried about specifics. I don't understand how they can enjoy any encounter or this hobby, period. For me, it has never been about specific details but about two people enjoying the moment and going with the flow. It's not always perfect but then again what is. However, more often than not, it becomes a great sensual, sexual experience for both of us. Now maybe my maturity has something to do with it. Yes,I am paying out a good amount of my hard earned cash to be with a lady but that does not mean and never should mean that it is all about me. As for ads and websites, it really isn't that hard to read between the lines and understand what is coming. Guys need to quit looking at ads worrying about bbbj/ cbj and all the other acronyms. It's really not so much about the "what" as opposed to the ability of the SP to read signals and react to maximize the pleasure. Her skill is far more important than what she offers, Honestly, I hope that all you ladies continue to thrive in this industry and that the fellows out there take the time to understand and appreciate the great thing we have here in this hobby. If we all treat this as mutually beneficial without expecting too much, we will all continue to enjoy ourselves and the details will seem less important as we go along. We are all adults, after all.And like RG , I too, take the time to actually read your websites and posts and whatever else so I can be as good as a client as you are as a SP.

That sounds like a helluva good time. I think scrabble would be my preferred one but they all sound like fun. :biggrin:

LMAO...classic, I love it. Like the man says, that's a "guy" question. :biggrin:

I'm sorry but I almost busted a gut laughing at this one. Seriously, that is just bad (and not the good urban version of bad) but I do love your response. Classic. On the serious side, I agree with treating people as you wish to be treated. It really is far easier to be respectful and decent to people than it is to act an ass and be insulting. At least for me, it actually takes work and thought to be insulting. After all, if you are going to insult someone, you should really make the effort to make it a good one, right? :icon_biggrin:

For the most part, that is me as well. The first contact is through the email link in the website or sometimes via pm on boards (provided the SP has that option posted in her ad). In that initial contact is the phone # I will be contacting from as well to save confusion. One thing I would add is that in that first text, my first words are always, "Hello, my name is (insert first name), I am 54 yrs old and live in the area and saw your ad on CERB (or whatever). My handle there is "peacectryguy" Then the other pertinent stuff that was mentioned. I believe it is important to make an effort to show the lady you are on the level and a name and brief description does help in that. If they require more info, they can and will ask but it shows you are placing some trust in them and usually they feel better trusting you. It is a 2 way street.

This is the hardest thing for us clients to figure out, imo. It seems that every SP has a different deal when it comes to texting vs. calling. Personally, I get disgusted with texting in my business dealings. Some of my customers will shoot texts back and forth 20 times and I find it annoying. I think if there are more than 2 texts, an actual conversation should take place. However, many SPs that I have contacted use text only so I go with the flow. I do try to ask in my initial contact what method of contact is preferred so as to avoid this particular turn-off but it doesn't always work when she says, "whatever works for you". :icon_biggrin:

This is really the only one of the "erb" boards that I am active on. I do have an account on the perb boards but even though I am in BC, that board is really more about the Vancouver/ Victoria/ Kelowna areas and there isn't any advertising or reviews for my neck of the woods. A little bit in central BC but not much otherwise so I find that I am more active in the Alberta boards (CAF). That is where most of the touring SPs are for my area so that is who I converse with more. I'm not as active here as I am there but I do like the positive attitude and mutual respect that this community offers. I like the people here and it seems that my meager contributions are appreciated. It's not a versus thing, I just find something I like and stick with it.

I have been somewhat remiss in my reviews/recommendations of my nerdy, geeky lovely friend so I thought I would remedy that. I believe there is some reviews of Sam in the Calgary or Lethbridge section but I have not done one on here yet ( I have elsewhere). Anyway, if you want uninhibited fun with a bubbly, quirky geek, Sam is the lady to see. Honestly, she is one of the funniest ladies I've ever met and it is all genuine right down to the cat ears she dawned at our last session ( I wore them as well, she insisted, lol). One look at her website will show you exactly what this lovely lady is all about. That smile you see is the real deal, folks. And the nerdy, geeky persona is totally authentic and it is fun with a capital F. Oh yeah, almost forgot, there is that other thing we do, isn't there. I have been blessed to spend time with some remarkable ladies who really love this work. Some are very good "actresses", lol and others, well, you can tell when it's really that intense. You just can tell, ya know. Sam is one of those. She gets into it like you would not believe and hell, so do I. I've seen Sam 4 times now as she tours up my way and will always make every effort to see her when she does. It can't always happen but she comes up this way frequently enough that I get plenty of opportunities. I am wise enough to treat this as what it is and not get emotional or creepy or silly but I honestly feel like I have found a really good friend here as well as a favorite provider of great sexual exploration.

Hello all, this Thanksgiving holiday was a special day for me. I was able to go see a lady that I have wanted to see for some time and am very "thankful" for it. This lovely gem of a woman was amazing and one of the nicest ladies Ive met in a long time. So down to earth and sweet, that I was completely at ease 2 minutes inside the door. After an initial quick rinse in the shower, it was 90 minutes of total bliss with some wonderful conversation thrown in. Athena Lust is very well reviewed out here in the west and it is for very good reason. She is a remarkable lady through and through. She is a petite treat as her pictures show in her website and ads but is so soft and touchable and natural. The details aren't necessary. The sex was obviously great but the other things made it a memory I shall cherish. If ever any of you are traveling to Edmonton and wish to do some hobbying, you might want to have your references ready and give Athena a call. She is worth much more than she asks for, imo. I'm happy I added the $50 La Senza gift card to my donation. I just am so thankful that in the last few months I have been blessed to get to see some of the most lovely ladies in the world. Canadian girls rock.:bigclap:

Ya know what, Liquor. You really open my eyes when I read your post. Every time I think I've had a bad day, I just read this and wake up to the fact that I'm pretty lucky. Love your outlook and sense of humor and wish you all the best.

I thought I would just add this to my first recommendation if that is alright. I recently was able to have a repeat visit with this magnificent and spectacular lady on her latest tour stop in Grande Prairie AB. As soon as I saw her ad, I just knew that I had to see her again. Once again, this beautiful woman amazed and thrilled me. I wasn't nearly as nervous this time around and I think our connection was even better but honestly, I think Victoria can make you feel comfortable and relaxed anyway. Just a remarkable, down to earth, friendly quality that is almost impossible to express in words. Not to mention a sensuality and sexiness that really gets the motor revving and the juices flowing. I was so happy, I forgot my watch in her room. Oh well, a good excuse for my next visit (like I need an excuse). Victoria, you are very special and amazing and am looking forward already to our next encounter.

That reminds me of a response I had to a recent review I wrote of you Victoria. For the rest of you, the guy read my well-written review and proceeded to ask me who this woman was and a bunch of other nonsense. I thought my head would explode but I gathered myself and as politely as I could, explained to him that just a couple forums down was the advertising section for our particular area and all her info was right there as well as a link to her website. He posted back thanking me and then asked, "Lovely looking lady, what's her rates, menu?" Luckily, a fellow poster stepped in and set him straight. I may have been banned from the site if I had responded. Thank god for self control. As I read this thread from time to time, it seems that basic reading comprehension has to be at or near the top of the list because 99% of the things some guys do are clearly stated as "no-no's" on virtually every SPs ad and/or webpage. I seriously don't know how you ladies do it. Your patience is amazing. Kudos ladies because I think I might snap if asked some of the shit you get asked.

It's 21st century journalism (I can't even call it journalism with a straight face anymore) in a nutshell, isn't it? The mainstream news media has become a totally ridiculous joke in this modern era. The great journalists of the past must be rolling over in their graves. Honestly, if we look at history, does all of this remind anybody of our studies of Nazi Germany, circa 1936? The government spewing propaganda and the media jumping in with both feet like puppets?

Well said. The foreplay with passionate kissing and "cuddle" play is a huge turn-on for me. Without it, I find sometimes that I even have trouble getting or maintaining an erection. With those things, I am completely turned on and more often than not, have better stamina as well. It's like you say about feeling it in all the warm places and it allows your whole body to be involved. Then afterward, being able to catch our breath while in a soft embrace and caressing her back brings it all full circle.

I've gotten to the point of not even caring what the stores do. I notice but it does nothing as far as my shopping. I'm a guy who goes in, finds what I want, pay for it and leave, regardless of the hype or advertising. I spend so much of my money on tools for work and all the day to day stuff that I keep purchases to a minimum. A little something for the grandkids and that's it other than a couple of cards. By mid December, I just want to get it over with. The stores move from one holiday to another so fast too. Hell, immediately following the "Boxing Week" specials, the Valentines Day crap goes out (phoniest holiday ever, imo). Than Easter, Mother's Day, Father's Day, Canada Day, Back-to-school and back to now with Thanksgiving/Halloween. Just a big cycle to make a buck. More power to them, not faulting the stores at all. Without profit, the doors close but I just don't get too excited or "into" it all.

While I was driving home from a great encounter this past weekend, I was listening to some Bob Seger and thought of this thread when I heard "Night Moves" and "Mainstreet". Earlier in the day, I was listening to Queen Latifa and "I put a spell on you" The old jazz standards always set a great mood for me, too. There's a ton of others as well.

It looks like a real thing but I must say, I don't like it. I would think it would be uncomfortable and make a guy sweat really bad. I would think that this thing would possibly put a damper on the encounter. It would get uncomfortable for both, I would think. And does it really serve any useful purpose? Is there really that much risk from skin contact? I don't know, seems a little bit much to me.