Honestly I'm reading this board for a couple of days now because I've always been around escorting services but I have never booked any actual meeting because so many people tell me so many bad things about it and I've always been around this forum because many people recommended it to get real reviews about SP and to know the know-hows of this domain but when I'm reading some of the things I see in this post I cannot believe my eyes that some people think in the way they do.
A prime example of this is this post, some SP I don't remember who it was and I'm too lazy to check it up said that, considering a situation where the girl who has posted pictures of her in her advertisement CLEARLY advertised WRONGFULLY and used FAKE PHOTOS of a very attractive girl when she is clearly not the girl on the pictures and even less has the attractiveness of the girl depicted, that when the guy opens the door and see's his deception. He should give the girl some money as a "peace-agreement" and that it wasn't required but it would go a LONG way in defusing a situation....
Just think about what you just said for a second... the guy probably had a rough day and wanted to relax and enjoy a session with a lovely Escort and he had expectations and probably though about the pictures advertised in the ad all day long and when he knocks on the door and see's that the girl is really far from being the girl on the photos and not only that, the girl that showed up is NOT EVEN the type of girl that this guy fancies why would the guy care if she has feelings or emotions and she will feel hurt if she is rejected.
SHE POSTED FAKE PHOTOS OF HERSELF TO BAIT THE CLIENT... It should be illegal as Escorting services are now legal in Canada/Quebec (at least that's what I heard from a couple people and from an SP and a client and one of my friend so If I'm wrong please correct me) So in my opinion, when something that was illegal becomes LEGAL, it also becomes REGULATED, and there starts to be RULES in advertising and Fake advertising can be a type of FRAUD as much as IDENTITY THEFT is.
In my opinion the guy should not only NEVER give her any money, but she should also ask to get some kind of compensation for all the deception that he has to go through to have hoped all day long to meet the girl depicted in the pictures in the ads and then opening the door to an unnattractive lady, the Escort should give him some kind of reimbursement for the time, deception and gaz he spent to get to her location (for incalls)
When that girl said that the guy's should give the girl money as a "peace agreement" I was ASTOUNDED... she just TRICKED you and you wanna PAY HER... what this is is doing POSITIVE reinforcement on a very negative behaviour... what should really happen is NEGATIVE reinforcement... get a punishement, and no don't "the fact that she won't get the money" is not a punishement, she didn't lose nothing at all, she just opened the door to an unsatisfied client, HE lost his time, hopes, and money to come to where she lives for a FAKE ad.
Not all guys are rich, and it doesn't require a guy to be rich to afford an Escort, I'm on the AFG (Recieving money from government every month while I find a new job to pay for MINIMAL REQUIREMENT expenses) People on AFG recieves 630$ Canadian per month, that is calculated to be the minimal average amount needed for people to just "survive".
BUT, I make sacrifices, I don't buy luxury for food, my rent costs about 200$ less than average and I never buy restorants and barely go and never buy alcohol. So in average even without working I can save up to 250$ per month (usually to pay stundent loans and credit card)
So if one month I want to spend that 250$ to get a ONE TIME 1h with an Escort, do you really think I will want to compensate a girl who made me spend 15$ of Gaz to go see her? Of course not, I will even me VERY MAD if I don't get my gaz money back, because that's not something I can afford everyday, and not because I can't regularly afford it that I should "NOT GET THAT KIND OF SERVICE" I'm as much entitled to getting that service as anyone else if I'm ready to pay the fees.
I do understand that this is my first post but I do think that even if I do say my opinion about some stuff and that I'm against what some people thing, it doesn't make it all negative, there is a lot of good in my post, and also it is my opinion and I share what I think should happen, my fears about stuff like that and what I think is right so I don't think this post should be deleted.
It's a very good first post in my opinion and it demonstrate that anyone can enjoy the services of an Escort, not just people who have jobs and get 20$/hour. Students on minimal wages can afford it too, even people without a job could afford it once a month.
And I'm always respectful because I'm also registered on 4 Dating websites in which I am very active so I do meet alot of girls who are interested in either casual sex or serious relationship, but most of the time, even the girls who want a serious relationship end up having sex with me on first or second encounter, and I always respect them and even if the sex was bad or I didn't particularly enjoy it I will make it my duty to keep talking to them and be nice to them and if I really don't want to see them again I'll keep them as friends and I'll find a very polite and respectful way to tell them it's not what I'm looking for.
So I'm a guy who would be the perfect kind of client for a girl who wants to offer me a GOOD first experience with an escort. It's a shame that people think down on us it's not because we don't CURRENTLY have jobs that we don't have a futur or that we're all hoboes dressing cheaply and having bad hygiene... hygiene is my PRIMARY councern when going to see a girl for a dating site type date. So it would also be for an Escort.
But seriously guys, what do you think, what do you REALLY think should happen when you are the victim of BAIT & SWITCH and the girl who opens the door is absolutely not to your taste?
Like I said I would ask for an amount equal to what I lost in Gaz or public transportation (Bus/Metro) to get to where she lives. I think that is only fair.
As for the situation with the kid, I would have left saying this is a totally innapropriate situation and you should clearly get some help for this kid.
And what I think about all other situations, clearly I disagree with everyone who left without getting any service at all and left their money to the escort, I do not think in any cases exept where she really was what she advertised and the place was as advertised but you just don't feel it at that time, then yes FULLY compensate her, otherwise, you should take your money back if the reason you turn back is because of a very unethical situation or the fact that the place/person is not as advertised
Altho, if a girl shows only her face and she ends up being 250 pounds, I do think you should discuss with her what price she would like for no service at all and then maybe just leave her a note to please put photos that shows her weight a bit more because you are dissapointed, but she still has the right to show only her face when she is fat, personally if she has a pretty face and nice boobs, I won't care how fat she is, given it's not a 350lbs whale...
That pretty much sums up all I had to say for this topic, but I have SO MUCH MORE to say about so many things...
I'm looking forward to becoming a known member here, so Peace Out, and Hail to my first of many posts.
