Ashley Ann

How shitty....most individuals should know better than to approach you and/or call you out like that...however, I can honestly say from a couple of past experiences..not all do, which you have also unfortunately been exposed to as well. However, these things are likely to happen a little more often when you show your gorgeous face in your pics, please note: I am not saying that this is right, or deserved, because it soooo was not....I am just a little surprised :icon_surprised: when ladies who show their face in pics are so shocked when they are recognized and/or approached...especially within this type of business. By no means am I suggesting that you should not show your face in your pics and/or is deserved. That is not what I am suggesting at all.:) Yes there are many smart, classy & respectful guys who know better...but when it comes to this profession, there are so maaaaaany lurkers and/or losers who get off on insulting or embarrassing sp's. (both male & female) Again, I am not saying it's right, it's wrong...but only in a perfect world can you expose yourself as a sp and never run into these types of situations. Buddy acted like a loser...and you handled the situation well. You stayed calm, cool and collected.:bigclap:

99% of my clients shower first & about 80% of them shower after too...I do not include the showering as part of the time...I never book back 2 back sessions anyway, so there is never any need to rush...I have to say all my clients are very respectful of this..and do not go overboard with the time. I personally , strongly prefer to have my clients freshly showered beforehand, so that is also why I do not consider this as part of their time...unless of course I am in the shower with them :boobies: I think it's simple little gestures such as this...that makes my clients happy :biggrin:

When a man takes the time and also has the courtesy to groom himself accordingly......major turn on..... To be touched, the soft kind... and caressed all over = goosebumps To be told how amazing I am while we are in the moment of passion....yes I am vain...but I really do love that! :boobies: Watching porn that entails women shaped like me :boobies:...a little addictive..oh, and magazines too,,such as Score's Voluptuous & Voluptuous XL Role playing.....

Had the privilege of assisting my former boss w/ the planning of a convention for 500+. There was such a wide variety of interesting tasks, which included leaving the office for the afternoon so we could attend the free weekly lunches at the hotel where the convention took place...to discuss business of course. Then when it was all said and done, and everything went down as planned, and everyone had a great time...this gave me the best feeling of accomplishment afterwards 8)

To be a PERMANENT FEDERAL GOVERNMENT EMPLOYEE.

Not all, but most sp's lie about their age..either by shaving off a few years or adding...mostly shaving off tho! Not trying to brag, but I really do look younger than my actual age...seriously, I don't just hear this through pillow talk,,,,, and not just from men either. So, when I returned to this business, I decided to go with the age of 26 because, like I said many sp's lie about their age, I presumed if I put my real age of 30 ( at that time)...the men would presume I am actually 40-something.... I personally think it is ok to adjust your age by a few years IF, again IF you can get away with it....... When it's too drastic.....that could alter your business, because if you shave off more than necessary..it's kind of like baiting & switching...kinda sorta!!!!

I only call back within a 15 minute time frame, IF THEY ASK ME TO CALL BACK, because you just never know! SHE should not have called back, very wrong. MOST OF US KNOW THIS, AND THOSE WHO DON'T, well that's kind of scary for those this happens to.... What a horrible scare!!!

Thanks for that Isabella! :icon_smile:

I too , am certain that I would gain more clients if I showed my gorgeous face :icon_wink:, but at the end of the day, the extra gain in my finances would mean nothing due to the fact that it could destroy my personal and family life. I still plan on exiting this business when I attain full time employment, I still go on many interviews, workshops, and testing sessions.....therefore to me, it is so not worth it...and your right Nicki, many of our pics are downloaded on onto whoever's computer......To me if you are out about it...it may be easier to show your face...and if your not, I would not suggest it, because unfortunately, we cannot control other's behavior....sometimes when we are out and about ( outside of escorting) you have to worry about the men you have actually previously met, I could not deal with people knowing me and what I do because they seen me in pics linked to escorting. The most important reason, my #1 , is because I have a child. The thought of my daughter seeing this stuff, especially since it's all online....is terrifying. Although my money helps me support my child, she deserves a happy, safe & care free childhood like I had....so therefore NO face pics for me.

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HAPPY BIRTHDAY Hot Sexy Miss!!!! Wishing you all the best! Vanessa XOXO

Happy Birthday Gorgeous Tiffany ! Hope you get to enjoy your day the way YOU like best! Vanessa xoxo

Miss Athana: :boobies: Happy Birthday!!! Bonne Fete!!!! :boobies: Wishing you all the best on your day and through out the year too!!!!

Most of my clients LOVE my perfume..however, I do have a few clients who strongly prefer NO scents at all, luckily most of these men always book ahead, so I can accommodate their request..there is one who does not, and what he does is gets undressed as soon as he comes through the door, I cant touch him or hug him or anything until his clothing comes off!! AND he also leaves his clothes in a separate room to avoid the saturation of the scent of my perfume lingering on his clothing. IMO, it is always a good idea to offer the use of the shower facilities along with unscented soap...this helps out those who feel it is imperative to be scent free .:bigclap:

As far as I know, in calls have been happening since the eighties....Ottawa sun was used to advertise..NO I did not work in the eighties BUT, when I worked for this one agency in the early nineties, they owner would always reminisce about how it was always so constantly busy for their girls in the late eighties (88/89)...and before the actual resident in call, I guess the guys would flood the massage parlors.. I also do remember when MOST of the yellow pages ads where owned by ONE agency.....when I was 14, my best freind and I used to prank call the agency numbers to inquire about a MAN DATE!!!! :icon_lol:...of course the receptionist would keep hanging up on us, so we would try another number and again, would be the same lady answering...this really confused us at the time...but in a fun way!!!

Did not have a chance to view the video you posted, but from what I can see in the pics ( I selected a few) that you have posted, believe it or not, some guys really do like this...of course now, no guy will admit it on this thread, since most have stated how nasty and gross these ladies breast are ( real or fake) Do I think the super duper out of this world breasts look good, no I do not, but I am ONLY referring to the FAKE SOCCER BALL TITTIES, but remember, most of these ladies with the super duper inflates, have done this for financial gain, and the gain is coming form men, most anyways....from the pics posted above, I can tell you a few of the ladies are actually consindered gorgeous by MANY, and have a HUGE following....such as Brandy Taylor, Samantha Anderson, and the top pic of the other lady, I cannot come up with her name, but she is in plenty of Score's magazines such as Voluptuous & XL Believe it or not...there are a many guys who love this sort of thing.....surprising to some....but really ..they do :boobies: Trust me :D

Horneysoldier, you got ripped off! My decision is based on the facts that you have provided. You clearly indicated what you wanted and what you were looking for, have top notch hygiene ( showering before app AND once you get there too) obviously you do this to ensure you are thoroughly clean which ALWAYS makes for a better time, and you say you are a gentle and sensual man. As an sp, I LOVE it when a client takes the time to email ahead of time to indicate something about themselves and what they are looking for and would like to have...for me, it always makes for a better time, and usually end up establishing repeat visits with guys who do this. However, the only thing I can think of to set her off would be if you were under any kind of influence, which is a turn off and/or if you have bad dental hygiene ....either or, she would be able to see that right away and if that was the case, just decline, rather that take your money and not follow through as you are expecting her to when you hand over your money. Again , my opinion is based on the information you have provided.

Ahhh thanks so much everyone!!! WIT, you are too funny..thanks for that..I will try and come up with a few more :boobies: Vanessa xoxo

Congrats to you Sexy Lady!!

I have many men from cerb who contact me via my email or telephone, they make it a point for me not to know their cerb handle. I personally think it is for the following reasons. While many guys use this site to read about other's experiences to find themselves an escort, they themselves will NEVER write or inform anyone of their own. Some guys are soooooo discreet, they will not even write a single post, and there are MANY guys on here like that. Another reason, I believe, is that many guys do NOT want to be discussed EVER amongst other sp's. Most sp's respect their clients privacy and will not discuss them unless they do something harmful or deceitful ( bad date section) however, not all do, and I suppose men are aware of this and just simply do not want to take that chance. Especially if they are one of those guys who always make it a point to indicate that they only see you and no body else..and/or if they choose to pay another lady a higher rate or what have you...I am not saying this is right, I just think those are some of the reasons behind it.

Well I for one freaking love your site!!!! :bowdown: And I really do admire you for the following reasons. Not only do you help out the gents with your accurate warnings, this also assist the ladies who DO NOT appear on your list, as this can somtimes help the men weed out the bad apples in their selection. Because after all, who really wants to spend time with a lady who lies about her services and/or uses fake pics or whatever else... You and your site have helped me out, personally in the past, when some one decided to use one of my pics.. you were the greatest help by pointing this out on the diary :bigclap:. All this to say, you are NOT a service provider HATER...You go above and beyond to help out & I also feel that us Ottawa folks are so very fortunate to have YOU and your site :milleunenuit:!!!

The bb practice is a choice, not referring to full service, just the other stuff. For me personally , my choice is NO bb as I see it as high risk. I used to get at least 2-3 requests daily for bbbj or cim, and because I would not do that, the clients would take a pass. To me, this was frustrating because I thought, ummmmm...have people forgotten what is out there??? I still have not changed my ways, and I won't change it for nobody. Now that I have been back for a while, most men are familiar with my ways, and lately, I have actually had more men than usual contact me, most being because they like that I do not provide bbbj and/or cim. So all this to say, it may take a while, but there are just as many men who want to spend time with ladies who only practice safe services as there are who want to spend time with ladies that offer bbbj & cim. It is what it is, all you can do is protect yourself accordingly, and ADVERTISE this too.

Gift cards from Shoppers Drug Mart, Tim Hortons or Starbucks!!! Super convenient :bigclap: A dozen roses from one of those " a dozen roses for $7.95" type of floral shops A $9.95 bottle of XOXO pinot grigio, the line also carries other types of wine, very reasonably priced too ( LCBO & the wine shop at Loblaws) Also, phone cards, the pay as you go kind, those are always very convenient too, if the lady is on a pay as you go plan. Just be sure to find out who her cell phone carrier is.

For the initial contact, I do in fact prefer emails ONLY when, the sender takes the time to tell me somethings about themselves..indicates what they are perhaps looking for and/or what it is they like best..as well as other pertinent information... What I DO NOT LIKE and honestly, will not even bother responding to is one liners such as: "If the price is right..I would love to see you" "are you into dirty talk at all, Do you enjoy receiving rimming ?" "I have a proposition for you...do you like liquor? If so let's chat! Let me know" If this is the way you choose to introduce yourself to me, so be it. However, these type of emails will NOT GET YOU A RESPONSE. I see emails as a great tool to break the ice so to speak....and if the person prefers to chat on the phone, I don't mind that at all...BUT, with that being said, I am not referring to talking prices or restrictions, because that is all listed on my site and/or my ad. I always insist on speaking with whomever I am going to meet with over the phone prior to our first meeting, even if we have chatted via pm's...Hearing the persons voice beforehand provides a certain comfort level for me....because after all a man can be sweet as pie via a pm, but when you actually hear their voice, you can kinda sorta get a feel of their demeanor too.

I only ask for a clients full name, if and when I go on an out call. I feel that is necessary for 2 reasons, the first reason is for my safety as I am stepping into an unknown territory , and the second reason is to confirm they are in fact there, so I do not waste my time or money. For in calls, what I like to do, is check out their posts....as this is a good way to kinda sorta get a feel for their personality. For instance, if a man comes off as cocky, rude or disrespectful, and feels no way about expressing himself in such a way...this usually means he will be a lousy client.