Ashley Ann

No bbbj for me either, BUT, I do prefer nicely trimmed or clean shaven. As for the 5 oclock shadow..it is all good..I just open my legs a little wider than usual to avoid the scrub-like contact to my thighs...Although I am a bigger girl, ;) I am VERY FLEXIBLE l!!!!:D

Aside from my sibling ?NO ONE knows about what I do & that is the way I would like to keep it?.Best way to keep a secret is to NOT tell anyone!! I know my sister would NEVER sell me out!! Before reading, please note this is regarding my OWN personal situation!! I come from a very loving & caring family, far from perfect, however they are ALWAYS there for me and my daughter?Therefore, if my mom or dad or any other family members were to find out it would be devastating? Although I am a grown woman, my parents would not only be terribly hurt, but they would also be repulsed by my choices, and to me this is very understandable (my honest opinion). I personally feel that very few parents would want this lifestyle for their child, irregardless of how happy or content they were with their work. I realize this sounds very hypocritical, however this is something I NEVER, EVER would want my daughter to be a part of!!! I want her to value herself more than I do (How?s that for honesty??) To be completely honest, I have days when I feel sooooo liberated. Why? Because I do not have a boyfriend, no fuck buddies & I don?t date either-so basically the men I see are not only used for financial gain, but for my personal fulfillment too! Personal fulfillment is very important..It is a very nice feeling to enjoy & be paid for it too!!! Then, I have my days when I feel totally shamed for choosing to do this. Why? Because I am someone?s mother. Unfortunately, society as a whole, is not as open or as friendly as the members of this site, therefore, the thought of someone ever passing judgment on my child because of the lifestyle her mother has chosen to participate in ( should she or others find out) , worries me quite a bit . I try to be as discreet as possible & hope to get the same from the clients I meet with!!!

They sure do matter to me!!! Although I like meeting new people?my hope is to connect with them so we can hook up again, ?I would say half of it is for financial reasons, the other half is because for me, it is so nice to look forward to seeing someone that you know will treat you right and that you can have a good time with (this is what make me really like what I do:wink: )?usually no surprises?as you know just what you are in for!! When I first meet someone, I am feeling both excited and nervous at the same time?I like the excitement?not so much the nervousness? Lately I have a been a little weary of meeting new friends, due to a really unpleasant incident that occurred last month (felt shamed, humiliated, and degraded) ??.however, right after the incident took place ( and a few tears later ), the first thing that I thought of was, my special regular friends?.seriously?It was kind of comforting to think about them cause it kind of reassured me that there was nothing wrong with me, I am a very likeable person and if I don?t want to see new people , I really don?t have to cause I have special friends!!! Please note, we all handle our business differently, I am not looking to gain a super lavish lifestyle?therefore, if I only see a handful of friends on a monthly basis, I am ok with that?For me I would rather much see 5 special friends per month, then 20 and take a chance that 15 out of the 20 guys would not be the nicest men?..I realize this is a business, however my personal mental health is very important to me?I know for myself, if I were to see many random clients, I would not be able to keep up my friendly demeanor and attitude?so all that to say I really, really value them !!!

Although I have never been asked for a reference...I would gladly provide it...without going into the full blown details of our time spent together (my preference anyway). The only assumption I can make right now is that perhaps some (NOT ALL) some, may get jealous (it happens) and they may have the attitude that they will not go out of their way to help another S.P connect with previous clients....I personally do not think that that is the best approach to take, because as far as I am concerned, when a hobbiest wants to meet with a new S.P, it WILL HAPPEN eventually, so why not assist in the matter, shows your a team player ;)!! Vanessa:boobeyes:

Back on the C-list ..... Up and at em again I guess, although there is no mention of BB-GREEK this time!!...Oh BTW, she would like you to know, it's the SAME girl, just a new number.. 6-1-3 8-*-9 2-*-*-8

I suppose your right..It does appear that I am judging by my post..and I apologize as that is not what I am trying to do. What we do to enjoy ourselves with our company is a personal choice...we all work differently..and I do respect that..thank you for your response..

This question has been on my mind for a while now and I hoping that the answers and/or opinions I am requesting are honest.... For some time now, I have been noticing that a lot of SP's have very limited or some time NO restrictions whatsoever (excluding BB-full service of course).....PLEASE NOTE I AM NOT TRYING TO JUDGE...I am just trying to get a better...or perhaps just a more accurate understanding of how these advertised options work and how others feel about them.... Evidently, in order to be successful in this industry, one must me open minded...which I think I am, how ever I am puzzled regarding all of the the unprotected activities people are willing to take part in ..so my question is this (to the SP's)....do these "no restrictions" policies apply to whomever you meet with???? This applies to the BBBJ..CIM, COF, DFK, and if not...how does that go over with the client if you decline to do those services to them ..I understand we all have the right to refuse, however when you advertise a type of service..and choose not to provide it ..(which I presume would be due to poor hygiene, bad oral hygiene, or perhaps just lacking in the looks department) Does the client leave, do they stay, do they return??? My other question is do these rules apply even on the busiest of days (with multiple clients within a short time frame) , again, this is curiosity, not judgement!! Last but not least..do you have any concerns with providing these services.. My questions for the hobbiest's are: a) Since those type of services are offered, are they a MUST when you meet with an SP or would this turn you away from an SP ?? I imagine the majority of the responses from hobbiests will be that they do thoroughly enjoy the unprotected services, as so many ladies now offer them..However, I guess I have a hard time believing that the sp's who advertise these service types ,,,,actually offer it to all the clients out there. Again, my apologies if I have offended anyone, we all handle our own personal affairs differently...I for instance always post assorted nude pics of my myself on here, my ads and my sites, ...many SP's do not post or display nude pics...some find that offensive and/or vulgar...which is understandable as the way we approach our own business is personal. Thanks, Vanessa

This one time, I had a client visit me for the first time whom I was speaking with before hand for a few weeks via email...I thought we provided one another with plenty of information about ourselves....so, we eventually arranged a time for him to come by for a visit...he did and we chatted for a bit, proceeded to my bedroom and started to make ourselves comfortable...well as he began to undress, he asked me if I could get him a glass of water, I did so , but when I came back, I noticed he was missing an arm and it was on my bed......His prosthetic arm that is....NOT THAT I think anything is wrong with that...however I think some kind of notice would have been nice, just so I could prepare myself accordingly...you know, so I would not have that open mouth, pale face, stunned reaction that I did....then again, maybe that was what he liked...the ability to shock and surprise!!!

Although I have met many nice gentlemen through CL, ( I advertise on there too) there is also a lot of trash on there ...with that being said 7 no shows sounds odd, yes the occasional no show can occur , but not 7..perhaps someone was indeed trying to mess with your business. Just wanna also confirm, that these no shows were from CL not here on CERB..That is one of the many reasons I love CERB so much..seems like 99% of the users on here are serious and not inconsiderate time wasters...I have yet to have a no show through CERB. Anyways, all that to say keep posting on here and I am sure you will do very well!!! Do not let others succeed at trying to bring you down... Good Luck :-) Vanessa

There was an earlier post regarding her & warning "that she was not the girl in the pics she uses"....

O.k, Thanks and I will.

Have already uploaded 2 albums...have been trying to upload new pics with no luck as I do not have the option given to me to upload????? Upload page does not show at all.....I can create an album, name it, describe it but CANT upload...been trying for 3 days now, does anyone else have this problem??? thanks in advance, Frustrated, Busty Vanessa..:roll: