MissAva

Could this perhaps be a misunderstanding on her part? I mean sometimes it is hard to gage a clients wants, especially if its a new client. I have some clients who know they wont climax, are fine with that reality, but like seeing SP's because they want the satisfaction of making a little hot thing climax. However I guess she did get mad at you in the end....so I am really just kind of surprised by her reaction, if that was the case. The situation given leaves alot of room for interpretation, especially since you seem heated over this. I would hope the if I were wearing a too much of a scent, I would just be asked to take a quick shower (this hasn't happened, but I would be more then willing) In terms of payment methods, not sure about a deposit, however, if you do book a time and show up, I would hope that if you changed your mind, some sort of compensation would be offered. This has been talked about greatly in another thread. Again, sorry that you had a negative experience sweetie. Big kisses and Hugs!

All I gotta say is he picked the wrong girl (and best friend) to deal with!! Love ya long time and big hugs!

I agree with Paige.... I have never offered special rates or changed my services offered to gain more clientele. Every SP will be desired by someone.However cattiness isn't required to the SP's that do. Its all marketing and a buisness. Avafoxx, welcome to the board... I agree with your perspective.

I think that yes perhaps some of these answere are biased, but some may feel that when it comes to their family they may just have an issue... I mean some already commented on if their sons met an SP they would want her to stop working. I have met several clients that have joked saying they wouldn't want their kids doing this. I think the question is Valid, and I appreciate those who responded. Dummpy, in regards to your step kids... "At lease if they were dating an SP they would be earning a living and not be sponging off me." ....Who is making an Earning?? Cuz its not them, its the SP, and if this were I, there is no way I would be someones sugar mama if they can't get their ass in gear and make their own money... nor would I make them my pimp and they live off my Earnings.... that is such SILLY TALK...lol

So, I was sorta asked this question and now I am going to ask you guys! If your Brother, Son or Friend started dating someone new and was just completely in a great/loving relationship. He was happy and was being treated really well....but the girl he was seeing was: A) an active SP or MP, or B) a Retired SP or MP What would you do?? if anything?

So very Sweet of you to say and your kind words are very appreciated! I consider myself very lucky to have become friends with you, and think you are just as much of a Gem!! Thank you!

Well personally I would be....hehe It was a bunch of naughty fun and a big thanks to Not a clue and Kerri for an amazing experience!! Kisses

Happy Birthday Sweetie Pie!!! I wont bother wishing you a great day.... as we both know you had one! Kisses and Birthday Spanks! Muah P.S. Your girlfriend is happy she got to spend some time with you on your special day! hehe ;) but told me later she was upset you didn't share cake with her....lol

I am single and purposely shy away from getting involved. I tried it, and it didn't work out.... I found it very hard to be intimate with someone who meant a lot to me, then give myself over to this buisness. I sacraficed personal relationships to make sure that I can accomplish a goal. I put myself first and don't regret my decision! I really enjoy my time with many great gentlemen!

I think its safe to say that at least someone would disapprove in our lives if we shared this. I am fortunate that my mother knows and supports my decision. Which is such a relief in itself. I don't really have a relationship with the rest of my family, so I am not really concerned. Being and SP excites me, and lets me experience things that may have taken years to accomplish (i.e travelling) I get to meet great ppl, help them destress as well as destress myself. I get the freedom I like, and the intimacy I desire. I have a couple close friends that know, and they didn't seem that surprised that I would have tried it out...lol (they know I love life and all it has to offer to be closed minded) I am very lucky that I get to talk to them about it, and when outsiders comment on how innocent I look and act.... hehe we just look at one another and smile... Its nice to have our little secrets that no one else knows... I also like that I live a double life.. It makes it more exciting for me. When it comes to my professional side, I do believe that it would end a career that I love so much and worked so hard for. It would be very difficult if I lost it due to my SP life being revealed... however everything happens for a reason, and I am one tough cookie to let it drag me down for long. All in all, I am content with my decision to be naughty little minx and appreciate all things it has to offer! Thank you Gentlemen for being apart of this great experience and chapter in my life... I don't expect that it will end anytime soon!! xo

I never even thought about that one..... Yikes that even worse!

Don't you think that it could really start to discredit someone or be hurtful because it is anonymous??

So, I know we have some issues with "rumors" being spread around, but I am wondering if having anonymous rep points will only add fuel to the fire. When I took notice of my points I recieved, they are given anonymously. Its really too bad, because I recieved a nice comment and I can't even say thank you since the person didn't say who they were. Now does this work the same as when you get disapproval points? Personally it should say the members handle, otherwise this gives room for anonymous slander. What is your point of view on the matter? Also, what do the different colours beside the comment mean?? PS> Thanks for my points sweeties! xo

I have to say I think this is the oddest request....lol How much time and research have you put into this?? You are searching to find out about compatability, is it under the impression that it will be the best or worst expereince? Very curious

Well, A client is just that a client.... I am fairly good friends with a couple clients, but thats where it starts and ends. It's a matter of maintaining my professionalism and not to blur my personal boundary lines. If I have a friend who has met a client, whether they are in the buisness or not, I would be happy. There are many clients in the sea, that there is no need to be petty and hurt someone else. If my friend was not in the buisness, I would never say anything. First of all if the guy was a catch and treated her well, thats all that matters to me. I for one can't judge the client for seeking the company of an SP. If my friendship is a true friendship, nothing would come between it, especially over something like this situation. I hope this answers your question.

This can be done sweetie!! ;) I am thinking lab coat with red fishnets!!! hmmmm now I got myself going...lol

Warning: If Paige trains you, you might not be able to move the next day...lol She kicks my ASS everytime! and I like it! lol

I am so pleased by all the responses.... Thanks!! I was just so curious as to what the guys would want.... now I know... Personally, I would hope that if someone saw me in public they would just smile and walk by... But I think it would be great naughty fun if in the bedroom we knew each other.... oh the role plays that could go on...hehe Thanks again for all the input!

I have a question to the all the Men: (SP are more then welcome to comment as well!) If an SP recognized you during a visit, would you want her to tell you?? I personally have had a couple clients that I know from the outside world of Cerb, but I never know if I should say, Hey remember me, your my dentist.....lol (thats an example) So I want to know what your thoughts are? Would it make you feel uncomfortable? Would it stop you from being a repeat customer? Or would you smirk and feel more naughty?? Kisses

Very well said!

As an SP, I really wanted to comment on this thread, I think that in one way or another an SP and/or well known hobbiest has been involved in a gossip mill. I think out of human nature it just seems to happen. However, i haven't heard too much that I am worried about, since I haven't really been here all that much lately. However, I would like to thank Dummpy for posting this. I think its great. Personally, I would hope that if someone heard something about me, that they would ask. I know that a couple months ago a well known hobbiest heard a rumor about me doing bbfs, I thank this person for asking my best friend Paige for clarification, as this is ABSOLUTELY NOT something that is offered. I think when we hear things, it should be taken with a grain of salt and the "rumor" should stop at you. Sometimes silence is your best friend. In regards to SP's back talking about other SP's, it would be nice if we were a tighter knit community ourselves. If I feel I can't provide a service that is desired, I have no problems, and have done it numerous times, recommend another SP that does. Whether a girl is 200 or 300+ an hour, you guys do your homework, you know what your getting, so it shouldn't be an issue of topic. Thanks again for this thread Dummpy

Holy Shnitzle I thought the same thing..... like really guys how many John's do we need?? I barely ever know which John is coming over until I look out of my peep hole...lol No more John, Mike, Rob, Paul, Tom, Frank, or Matt's allowed!! lol I wanna see some Enrique's, Antonio's and Pablo's....lol Kisses

I personally have been using this for a couple years, I love it and haven't had any negative symptoms. But Depo in't to be taken lightly. There is talk that it might be coming off the market soon. A woman needs to be very careful when trying it for the first time, since your symptoms are going to last for 3 months. I have to say though, that I too am disturbed if a SP isn't letting her clients know in advanced. I personally like it when a client is very to the point, makes for a more successful session.

hmmm, nothing like a warm up on a winter day! ;)

If its something that you seem to be running into, then I would just politely ask.... could make it a little awkward, but it ensures that you are able to recieve a service that you are really looking forward to. I personally wouldn't be insulted if I was asked. Kisses