Amber Rose

Couldn't agree more! I have no issues with a shower after and going a bit over time to clean yourself up, especially if I offer, but when you book a half hour, and literally shower for another HALF HOUR(I don't even take that long!), and I can hear you shampooing and conditioning, and THEN try and sit down and have something to drink after when it's clearly been almost 40 minutes past our time..like that's just rude. Posted via Mobile Device

People who block seats on the bus or subway with their bags instead of letting others sit down! Excuse me, but does your bag need a rest? No, so move it over, thanks! Posted via Mobile Device

Happy birthday big guy!! :) Hope he likes the strippers I got for him ;) Posted via Mobile Device

I passed all my courses, which means I finally get to graduate after putting it off for so long! Woohooo :)

So I've seen on several boards that men complain about when a service is YMMV; but here's the thing..every single encounter will always be YMMV, and that can be a very good thing. If we took the YMMV out of our services, then every encounter would be extremely mechanical and robotic. We'd have the same conversation, the same actions, etc. There would be nothing genuine about it, and who wants that? :P Also, every encounter is also different, because each person we meet is different, so everything we do with them will be catered to that person, their body, their personality, etc. Obviously if someone shows up with very bad hygiene, you can't expect to get the same service as someone who is squeaky clean, and also if you show up and are rude or aggressive or whatever else, you also won't get the same experience as someone who is friendly and respectful. That being said, I do notice that the encounters I have with people I have great chemistry with are quite different; Not in the sense that they get better service or even more services for that matter, but they get a different side of me. If I meet someone and right away it feels like we've been friends for forever and I'm extremely comfortable around them, then it just means they will see a more at ease version of myself, instead of the one who takes a little time to get to know the person before I fully relax. So, to conclude, every experience will always be YMMV because every person is different, but this isn't always a negative thing, and who wants the exact same experience some other guy got anyways? You should want yours to be unique! :)

Ryan Stiles and Colin Mochrie, hands down! Posted via Mobile Device

Moments before they get to the door, I'm actually going over and practicing in my mind what to say when they first come in :P When I get nervous my mind gets all jumbled and my words come out like gibberish, so I always try to go over what I want to say a few times so it hopefully comes out well when they first walk in. When they actually do get in the door, I have about 5 seconds of just getting a first impression from a person's look before we start speaking, and once we start talking my mind's a blank! I'll be honest, there's been times where I've pre-judged someone just from seeing them from the peephole, but as soon as they walk in and start talking, I realize we're going to have a great time, and you really can't judge a book by it's cover(cliche, I know!). You always do have those fleeting thoughts of "what if something goes wrong, or what if they try something bad?" and you sort of go over escape scenarios and what you would do if something bad did happen, but luckily(and hopefully) we don't have to use those very often.

I wish I could find the link but I can't seem to anymore, but apparently what happens after is nothing. They don't get them the help if they ask for, it's all for show. Apparently one of the ladies on the show posted a plea for the help that they said they would give, and had been arrested and was in a bad place after and even after calling the show they still never gave her the promised help. It's not a show I could possibly recommend, they don't actually care for these women or if they get the help they need. (I'll keep looking for the source to this!) Posted via Mobile Device

While I agree with all your points, the Extended Stay had a reputation for being very not SP friendly and kicking ladies out often, sometimes even before they've even seen their first client, since it seems they check BP often and if you show your face and they recognize you, they'll kick you out. It seems like just a hotel to avoid in general. Posted via Mobile Device

Ice4fun pretty much got it! It's only fair, acceptable, okay, etc. when the individual is doing it herself, since she is in control of her body and what she chooses to do it. If she wants to use her sex appeal to sell some houses, cars, clothes then she has every right to. However I think the lines get blurred a bit, and if someone in a specific profession is very good-looking, many people may blame their success on their looks or say they were using their sex appeal to sell, even if that person is hard-working and never tried to come off as "sexy" to get a job done. No, we are not as companions teaching others it's alright to sexualize women in other professions. This is a profession where literally sex sells, and while there are some similarities to other jobs, this one is very different is how we get business done, and we have to give enough credit to men that they aren't stupid, and know the difference between this profession and others. In the same sense, we deserve just as much respect as any women in any other job, so when we're being "sexualized" it's only okay when it's on our terms, which should be the same anywhere else in the world. Posted via Mobile Device

So then why don't you just do your real estate business yourself and then hire an escort instead for the sexual aspect? Because it sounds like you have no use for one and you would be wasting their time. I'm pretty sure a large majority of female real estate agents will absolutely not appreciate you only hiring them based on their looks and sexualizing them throughout the process. Like what is the point of this? Is it a fantasy you have? Then a companion would be much better suited for this, because I don't think a real estate agent will want to be a part of it without knowing. Posted via Mobile Device

I'm sure we could say the same about the "Turn-offs for a Hobbyist" thread. Posted via Mobile Device

Are you looking for free nudes? If yes, then don't bother asking at all. Are you willing to pay the lady for these pictures? Then say that straight off the bat when asking in a polite way, some ladies will be okay with this. This is the lady's business first and foremost, so if you're trying to get freebies, then everyone is right in saying they don't need your business. If you want nudes, you should be willing to offer payment for them. Even then she may not agree, but it's certainly more likely to get you them. Just make sure you actually pay up, and not dangle the possibility of payment in front of her for photos. Posted via Mobile Device

I was actually doing exactly this after reading the article to see what the results would be before I deleted my profile, and lo and behold the guys were not pleased when you just accepted their compliments and didn't bow down to them immediately :P I actually haven't found I've received many dick pics at all, whether in this profession or when online dating. But I have received an abundance of disgusting, rude, derogatory, and just plain mean messages, especially if you reject the guy. The world of online dating if a terrifying place, I'm steering clear for now! Posted via Mobile Device

I'm married to my Magic Wand, and we're fully exclusive to each other. We're going to renew ours vows in a few months :) In all seriousness, I love it more than anything, BUT because it's so strong, you have to be careful. I'm not sure if this is true or if I'm just crazy, but I feel like after years of use, I've become desensitized to anything less powerful. Posted via Mobile Device

Now I know this one has been said before, but it's been happening an odd amount these days.. Please don't ask me awkward questions like "what's the average age of men you see?" or "what do you usually do with the men you see?" or my all-time favourite "how does my penis compare to most of the guys that you see?" Do you REALLY want me to answer these questions for you? I should start getting surveys of every person I meet and their info(age, weight, size, height, likes, dislikes, etc) so I can give out proper statistics next times I'm asked these questions :P Posted via Mobile Device

Whoa, that was a far stretch. Posted via Mobile Device

Are we allowed to throw ourselves into this thread? Not new, but certainly still a fiery redhead :) Posted via Mobile Device

This is a good question, and I'm glad it's been brought up! I've always marketed myself as curvy, voluptuous, and most importantly, a redhead. But lately I've been tired of the red and considering changing colours to something else just as dramatic, but I'm afraid it might make me lose potential clients, since I wouldn't be able to advertise as a redhead anymore. I think if the men have met us, and there is good chemistry and connection, a bit of change here and there won't make them stop seeing us, but some men may be more specific in the reasons they see a lady and the changes could make them seek someone else. Then again, as they say the men like variety, and certain changes could make it feel like they're with a whole new gal while still enjoying the chemistry with the same one! ;) Posted via Mobile Device

I'll throw my thanks in too! Thank you everyone for a wonderful evening of great company, great music, great food, and then some! Looking forward to attending more in the future! :)

I'm not always in Ottawa, but I'm here fairly often, and I would certainly consider myself a little "chubby" though very curvy. Not offensive, I love it! Though like others mentioned, if she doesn't advertise as such, some ladies may find it insulting. Posted via Mobile Device

Kissing is so monumental and important, it's definitely a deal-breaker for me! As others have mentioned, it's so exciting, pleasurable, fun, and the anticipation leading up to a first kiss is so thrilling. Ugh, just thinking about a good make-out session is wonderful! I will almost always prefer there to be kissing during encounters. I can understand why some do not want to partake in it, and that's fine as well, but given the choice, kissing is the ultimate foreplay and definitely a sure-fire way to have a great and passionate time together. Everyone in the world should make-out more, it would make the world a better place :) Posted via Mobile Device

It's almost certainly been mentioned here before, but it's been happening so much lately, and it's a definite turn-off. Men who see me, we have a great time together, and then afterwards try and convince me to see them off the clock later, and then try and make me feel bad when I obviously decline. I just find that disrespectful..unless the lady has explicitly discussed with you that she would like to see you in her free time, you shouldn't try and convince her to, and then shame her when she says no. Nothing's more of a turn-on then a man who is respectful of the relationship you both have in the time you meet, and never makes you feel bad about it ;) Posted via Mobile Device

My bridesmaids dress for my mom's wedding and my dress for the Cerb social! Let's just pray it fits, since online shopping is risky! ;P Posted via Mobile Device

Came back from a great trip in Ottawa and got to see all my family which was nice. Also finished paying all my bills today and got two assignments finished for my classes and all my laundry done. I feel productive! :) Posted via Mobile Device