Amber Rose

I'm on Cerb, Terb, and Merb, and they all seem to be quite different, but each are useful in different ways. I was actually skeptical about joining Cerb for the longest time, since it seemed sort of like an exclusive club you need to be on the VIP list to get into. After joining on a whim, I realized how wrong I was, and how lovely and respectful everyone, both men and SP's are on here. I haven't really met many people from here..I think only one person? But from the ones I've chatted to, and just reading the threads and recommendations, everyone just seems to be very supportive of each other, which I find really beautiful, because that's so hard to find being in this business. Terb is..well, a whole other ballgame. It certainly has it's perks, since there are a lot of SP's trying to scam or rip people off, and it's good for the men to be able to share experiences such as that with each other, and I think that negative reviews can be a good thing as well, since if you take it as constructive criticism, it can help someone improve in areas where they may be lacking, such as communication, or overall friendliness, or rushing, etc. The only problem I've found with this board though(at least mainly in the Ottawa area I find), is that a large portion of men on there are malicious, nasty, and downright mean. I feel like I'm back in high school with all of the catty girls when reading through that board these days. And the thing is, there could very easily be men lying in their reviews, and yet the guys will pounce on anything negative as a reason to boycott an SP. I actually also know that some agencies will make deals with the men on here, that in exchange for a good review for a girl, the guys will get a discounted session, which isn't a very honest review in the end, since the SP may be very different than the men are painting them out to be. I've very rarely read anything on there that actually speaks as if the SP's are actual human beings worthy of respect. I do have to say though, it provides me my daily entertainment! Or is that wrong to say..? Merb seems to be the same as Terb, though not as exciting unfortunately! There does seem to be way more positive reviews than negative, but that could very well be because there's a lot of good SP's in Montreal? Hard to say.. All-in-all, each board serves a purpose and it's good in way to have that variety there. Posted via Mobile Device

I think this may have been mentioned before, but nothing turns me off more then when the guy can clearly tell I'm enjoying myself and stops to say "you should be paying me for this!" or when they're leaving, "I'm going to see you again, but I get a discount next time!". Well thanks for killing the mood, jeez :P Also, when they send a message at about 5 or 6 in the morning, and since I'm very much not awake at that time, by the time I'm up a few hours later I've received a bunch of "???", "hello?", "did I do something wrong?". Posted via Mobile Device

Hi all! :) So perhaps this is a sensitive subject for some, and I hope I'm not over-stepping any boundaries here, but I'm asking for some advice, and also out of curiosity.. With the holiday season coming up pretty soon, I'm wondering what some SP's do when it comes to the many questions families ask about what you're doing in life, your job, boyfriends, etc. Are you upfront and honest with your family? Do you dodge the questions, or come up with an innocent white life to satisfy your curious family members? I'm hoping to get some advice on the matter as well, from both the men and women on here; I'm completely open with what I do for a living with my immediate family and friends, and while they're all okay and accepting of it, my extended family can be quite close-minded. I'm not sure if I should be honest when I see them, or come up with something else? Would you suggest a better course of action? Just wondering about everyone's opinion on this subject, thanks for any feedback you may have! :) Posted via Mobile Device

Ah, the Nice Guy Syndrome, my favourite! As several have pointed out, this whole "nice guys finish last" myth is just that - a myth. It's a excuse they come up with to sooth their egos when they've been rejected by a women. They believe they are the ultimate package, and can't understand why a women would not sleep with them, so they find some reasoning behind it, besides actually looking at themselves. You can usually spot a nice guy by hearing their proclamations of "I'm a really nice guy!" If you're genuinely a nice guy, you usually don't start off by describing yourself as such, you just live your life in a kind and respectful way. If you really want to see Nice Guy Syndrome in action, just try some good ol' fashioned online dating! The "nice guys" are plentiful there! Usually these men are quite manipulative and sexist, and not actually kind or respectful at all. They'll usually start off by complimenting you endlessly, and then when you state that you are not interested, they will turn around and whine about how they were never interested in your anyways, and you would be lucky to be with a guy like them, they were just trying to do you a favour! These "bad boys" that women usually date and end up getting hurt by, usually come off as confident, respectful, and charming, which is why women are so attracted to them. It usually isn't until they're already invested in the relationship before they see that persons true colours! There are many genuinely nice and respectful men out there who women will love to be with, and just because one women isn't romantically interested in you, doesn't mean another might fall head-over-heels for you :) A good video to watch about "nice guys" and why the friend-zone is a load of crap: Posted via Mobile Device

Thanks for the help guys! :) Posted via Mobile Device

Hi there! I'm not sure if this is the right place to be asking about this, but when I asked a mod about this, I was directed to here, so hopefully some of you lovely people can help me out! I used to work for an agency, but am now working independently, and would like to begin advertising myself on Cerb as such. Only problem is, I'm still trying to figure out how this website works, and I can't quite figure out how to go about doing so. Again, I apologize if this isn't the right area for this, and if it isn't, hopefully someone can direct me to where the right place to go would be. Thanks! :) Posted via Mobile Device

I just wanted to jump in again to mention something, though I can't recall if anyone has already said this in earlier posts.. One thing to consider, since most of this SP's commenting on this thread are independent, is that if a woman is working for an agency, and not on her own, she does not always have the same luxury of having open communication with the client beforehand. While this may not always be the case, a few things to consider would be that, for the most part, agency SP's don't have any type of communication with their clients until their already in the door. At that point, if they do decide to explain to them that they are on their period, and allow the gentleman to decide whether to continue with the session or not, they run the risk of possibly having him become angry, for possibly paying for parking, wasting his time coming down there, possibly feeling set up, etc. It happens, so I'm not really being far-fetched by saying this, and just the thought of being in that position can intimidate a girl into just not saying anything at all. One other thing to consider with SP's working with an agency is that fact that they are not only supporting themselves with the money they make from their sessions. So if they come in to work, and try and keep and open dialogue with their clients and several of them decide to opt out of continuing with the session, they could potentially have other people losing out on calls, and possibly have others upset with them. The point I'm trying to make I suppose, is that it's not always so simple for many women as just being upfront about being on their period..many working women have many other factors, besides just "making money", to take into consideration. Posted via Mobile Device

Thanks so much for all the responses! I figured it was probably best to have your own on hand, but being a newbie to all this, I wanted to see what others take on this was. Would you want to still use your own even if they brought some, just to be on the safe side...or would that be coming off as rude?

Hi there! I'm still fairly new to this business, and also to Cerb, so I'm not sure if this topid has been discussed before. This may be a total newbie question to have, but I'm curious to hear both SP's and hobbiest's opinion on the matter. So when it comes to the clients that are a little more well-endowed, and certainly can't fit into regular-sized condoms, who should be bringing these to the appointments? Should the SP always make sure to have a few on hand, or should it be the client's responsibility to bring them along? Thanks! :)

Hi there, been on Cerb for a bit, but this is my first post. I'm throwing my two cents in here, since the situation that occured is not as the OP described(no, I'm not the one he is talking about). While I wholeheartedly agree that you should inform the client when you are on your period, and allow them to decide whether or not to continue with the appointment. The girl in question was brand spanking new, scared out of her wits since she had never done any sort of escorting before, and to top it all off, she unexpectedly gets her period RIGHT when her client(the OP) is supposed to show up. When the OP found out about the sponge, he was angry, which is not an inappropraite response to have. What is inappropriate, however, is that he yelled at her, took all of the money back, and threw a few twenties in her face while he stormed out. This poor girl was unbelievably upset, especially since this was the first escorting experience she had ever had. Yes, I do believe we should discuss this with the clients ahead of time, I think that's just being respectful to them; but it is not okay to take your money from her, after already spending a significant amount of time, and treating her in such a degrading manner. All-in-all, had she been in the business for a bit, I'd absolutely say she should have known better, but the fact the it was her first day, AND first client, and she was treated so rudely, I'd say let's cut the girl some slack.