misterdiscretion2014

I have seen Ms. Rushton a number of times now, and should have posted this review sooner. She is an absolutely extraordinary woman who creates a fantasy world you will completely escape into, where you can pretend you are the only two people on earth. For anyone curious, she is everything you are imagining and more.

I think a pretty large part of what goes on between consenting adults in this world could technically be classified as wrong, but in the end, all that matters is that it feels right :D

This site makes it pretty clear it is for recommendations only, and that no explicit comments or details are to be posted under any circumstances. That said, as long as there are people, there will be people acting foolishly :) Maybe we could all make better use of the "report abuse" icon to discourage this type of high school behavior?

I wasn't trying to say these people were legit, only that in the current climate, they are playing on the right fear :)

I have to confess, when I first saw the site being discussed, it did spook me a little, as a number of touring ladies either cancelled or cut short their visits to Northern Ontario at the same time the site starting popping up in google searches of their phone numbers. They even distinguished between sp's who were allegedly "busted" with their clients, and sp's working in concert with the police (or more likely, an officer posing as an sp). It's something in the past I would have laughed at, but with the new laws in effect, I'll admit to letting a little paranoia seep into my thought process. The fact they are obviously trying to funnel traffic to AFF is a pretty big clue as to their intentions, but in smaller, more isolated cities, the idea of ending up on the news can alter your thinking.

I know financial limitations can really suck (and not in a sexy way), but the sooner we accept them and move on, the better off we are. There are some actresses in the adult film industry who tour as service providers, and while there are a few I crush pretty hard on, I have resigned to the fact that I'm not going to be spending a weekend with the Brea Olsens of the world, and that's not really something to cry about, it's just a reality of my financial situation. And as an interesting side note, for people who are afraid to give out their personal information to a provider, you should check out the application form you have to fill out to see some of the adult film actresses - banks don't require as much to mortgage your house :p

I am sure you had only the best intentions, but that first part where you generalize that the sp's are being a little bit bitchy is not going to make you many friends. Also, comparing a service provider to groceries probably isn't going to open a lot of doors for you either. I understand that it may seem like a harmless question, but questioning the value of intimacy with a woman is slightly different from people not being able to find the rotisserie chicken.

A few reasons why trying to negotiate a rate with an sp is a bad idea: 1) It's dehumanizing. Sure, it's a business transaction in a capitalist society, but do you really want to associate that with intimacy? You think it's a good idea to try to lower a provider's self-valuation? That's a real life, living, breathing human you're dealing with, are you sure you want to try to tell her what you think she's worth, the same way you would when buying something on kijiji? It's difficult to imagine that anyone who thinks that way has much respect for the other person 2) It's tacky. Negotiating in any environment where the price is made clear is never a good look. Have you ever seen that guy in Best Buy trying to barter with a minimum wage employee over the price of a television? Nobody likes that guy 3) It's a fantasy breaker. I realize not everyone is like me, but I think the fantasy element of this hobby is a really big deal, and nothing ruins an illusion quite like haggling. Anything intimate or romantic you say will ring as painfully insincere when your first contact is focused on cost. Just my take, not meaning to hang anyone out to dry, just trying to point out what others might not see as obvious.

I thought this macleans article raised some interesting points about Khadr and the way rulers try to placate the masses ... http://www.macleans.ca/news/canada/omar-khadr-and-the-ancient-ritual-of-the-scapegoat/

Wow, there are a ton of solid recommendations on here. I didn't realize how far behind I had fallen in the world of anime! I may have missed it, but I don't think anyone has mentioned what is probably my favorite anime film, Princess Mononoke, which is both super interesting and visually stunning. Though I guess the people gushing about Miyazaki are probably fans :)

I think Doctors are living in the same dream world as almost everyone else in this country. I can't decide if the establishment is trying to preserve antiquated christian sexual ideas or is just hellbent on making sure an industry dominated by women isn't allowed to prosper to its fullest economic extent.

I am going to guess you do not speak english as a first language (and there's nothing wrong with that), so make sure you are 100% sure of what you are saying when you ask an escort "technical" questions, and see if a friend can tell you a more discreet way of saying "boob sex", as some ladies will stop communicating with you when you make a direct request of a sexual nature. I believe in the industry this is called a "Russian", by the way

I've always been a fan of anime movies, but I have to admit it used to feel like some of the television series lost a bit in translation. Then I saw "Attack on Titan" and I basically lost my sh*t and devoured all 25 available episodes in a very short period of time. I can't remember the last time I found something so terrifying and exhilarating at the same time. I'm so impatient waiting for the next slew of episodes (still a year away) that I ordered the mangas! Very interesting, and challenging to the brain, to read everything right to left, but I'm slowly getting used to it.

I was not singling you out, as I don't find that productive. Individual stupidity is something the MOD should monitor, not the rank and file members, so if I thought you were a habitual line crosser, I would complain to the site itself. I don't think anything stated here was horribly negative, but I did feel like some of the comments being made betrayed the positive spirit of the board, so like any other idiot with an opinion, I stated it :D After recent changes to the law came into play, I felt like this site had become more snippy and contrary, but I've come to realize that these types of threads and comments have always existed, they were just heavily diluted by the significantly higher volume of sp ads, as well as some other threads relating to certain aspects of the business none of us are very comfortable discussing. I am hopeful this country comes to its collective senses and we can go back to our usual conversations on lust and debauchery!

I will try to keep abreast of new developments in the future. Also, while I do agree that this discussion has indeed been more civilized than most internet forums, I don't think that is setting the bar particularly high :p

It's just my opinion, in a sea of many. I find that online discussions like this one quickly turn to heated debates, which most often devolve into two differing points of view stating the same facts over and over and insisting the other side doesn't appreciate their point of view, or know what they're talking about. I see where people are coming from, but once two opposing sides who are never going to change their opinions keep "debating', it usually ends poorly. I think some great thoughts have been put out there, but the major takeaways, "sp's value their safety above all else (and with good reason)" and "some guys are worried their personal info will be used against them (with somewhat less of a good reason)" were there after a few posts.

There has been some good thoughts put forward, but the rule about not saying anything when you can't say something nice has not always been observed.

When I was slightly more naive than I am now (I am still somewhat naive for those keeping score at home), I responded to someone that stated "i will be your girlfriend tonight - let me put these lips on you". I arrived and was very happy to see it was in fact the very pretty lady in the photos. We chatted for a little while, but when I leaned in, she recoiled with a look of horror that is still burned into my memory. "NO KISSING!!!!!!!!" she practically yelled and jumped to her feet. Then I got a lecture that only ladies who explicitly state g.f.e. allow that sort of activity, and that she was referring to putting her lips somewhere else. After a few minutes, she settled down and much to my surprise, offered to cancel the appointment with no fee since without the kissing it wasn't really going to work for me. I appreciated that gesture, but I will never forget the look on her face :)

Ms. Rushton prefers gentlemen do not post reviews of their time with her, but I think all who have crossed her path would tell you she possesses a rare warmth and grace.

While I think it's true that the negative stereotypes of sex workers is a factor in some of the gents making a bigger deal out of providing their name than it is, don't underestimate the level of paranoia some of the attached gentlemen feel about getting caught by their significant other. Your wife is not going to care if you join a gym, but she will probably not be as enthused to find out about some of the activities that are discussed here. I do want to stress that the stigma attached to ladies in this business is very real, and by no means am I trying to minimize or trivialize that reality, only stating that some guys don't get that far on the Irrational Fear Train of Paranoia.

My biggest turn off is when I arrive and the "business" vibe is emanating right from the beginning (face buried in a cell phone), where you feel like you're talking to the Tim Horton's drive thru window, and then at the snap of a finger, they try to morph into character, or worse, they don't, and expect you to be excited about intimacy with someone as enthusiastic as a minimum wage employee at 5am. I understand it is in fact a business transaction, but I still like a little fantasy and illusion with my commerce :p

This is a generalization, but often the more information an SP is seeking to verify your identity, the more established and professional she is. If you want to see a higher end provider, a lot of times, you are going to deal with more red tape, because these people often have a business plan that accounts not just for their budget, but also for their safety.

Everything you ever wanted Everything you ever thought of is Everything I'll do to you I'll fruck you and your minions too Your face reminds me of a flower Kind of like you're underwater Hair's too long and in your eyes Your drick's a perfect suck me size You act like you're fourteen years old Everything you say is so Obnoxious, funny, true and mean I want to be your bl*wj*b queen You're probably shy and introspective That's not part of my objective I just want your fresh young jimmy Cramming slamming ramming in me **** Slightly off topic, but does anyone know an SP that looks like Liz Phair? :p ****

In my mind, people in this business are not selling themselves, they're selling an experience, more often than not, a fantasy. In this world, more often than not, that fantasy is sexual, so using sex appeal to sell it seems perfectly normal to me. The best courtesans I've encountered are selling passion, romance, vitality, and as adults, I think we all know what activity those qualities tend to culminate in. When you are in the business of lust, it is in your best interest to do everything in your power to inspire that feeling in your patrons.

As Brad stated earlier, the OP simply asked if it would be okay to ask, which is one of the purposes of this site, no? To try and better navigate this world and show the people who work in the industry the respect they deserve? It's difficult to do that if you don't seek clarification when you're unsure of the usual boundaries of the business. Once we start condemning people for asking these kinds of questions, we drive the discussion underground. I for one prefer these things to be out in the open, where we can all learn more about them, and hear from people within the industry about not only what they think on the issue, but why. So while it did seem like a no-brainer to me that the majority of sp's would scoff at providing more intimate photos of themselves, I think this is a better site when people are genuine seekers, and not just regurgitating the same info we can all find by reading the stickies.