Jasmine Rain

Which I understand and I am sorry, but for most ladies, it is a scam as well. Men send money and then cancel it while the lady is on route. So if you see deposits required, either chance it or move on to the next one.

You can say that until you are blue in the face, but you have just been told that many ladies will not accept an EMT without the password. So if you don't like the policy, move on to the next girl. LL says they are MAYBE a scam, so you have to do your research first. And lastly, this is in the complete wrong section. This is the lounge, not the general discussion for Fort Mac. But as said, the quality of girls is usually a reflection of the quality of clients in a city. Just sayin

She is always re-tweeting providers too which is awesome.

Which someone could do. But I have been able to get plate info from having an address. I admit a normal lay person may not be able too. But I was able too. That is all I was saying.

You say you treat ladies with respect but then post that ladies don't deserve respect In your other post. i disagree that there is not a standard. There is. Many people follow the inner code of industry. Some don't. Just like any other industry. Just like there are some good cops and some bad ones. But there is the unwritten rules of the game and this person broke those rules. Breaking the rules leads to accountability and that person can be held accountable by being blacklisted. It all comes full circle.

There is always a way. $10 cash back here or there on purchases gives you cash in hand. So then you can use that cash to get a prepaid card and buy a subscription. Cash back on gas is the easiest because those prices change all the time. Since some really good memberships are only $10 a month, a $50 card will be good for 5 months. This may not be for you but I'm just saying, where there is a will there is a way. You must get cash to pay for escorts so I don't see not being able to get cash for online memberships.

That is awesome. Sad that it is needed but great that you guys did this.

^^^^ This. I think grizzly knows exactly what he is trying to say and I don't think it came off incorrectly. I think we all saw the post for what it was meant to be.

I am sorry you have this feeling. However my opinion is everyone is entitled to some respect regarding privacy. That includes sex workers. Just because we sell sex doesn't make us any less "human" and therefore not worthy of respect. But I guess I get why you think that. You think so low of clients as well. I don't have a single client like you describe. And I can bet I'm not the only one. I will admit there a few out there like you say, you probably are one of them with such a low opinion of the industry in general but most are not like you say.

I have read about lots of people who have made mistakes and killed people. They were not given a pass because of their mistake. Some times some things are just unforgivable and have consequences no matter what. Sharing intimate incall details like a short street location = blacklist offence.

That is how I make paypal payments for my adult stuff. It is discrete but totally throw away info. It is only to make payments though, not accept money. For that, I transfer through two other PP account before finally accepting to my account that is bank linked. Square works with many online platforms. A lady can set up a website with shopping cart features like wordpress with woo commerce and then link a Square plugin and payment will run through their site and billed to whatever name you create for that company. You can create many different companies as well with one square account. All done online and not needing to be in person.

Sadly places like OF do not accept Pre-paid CCs. I have heard of lots of men experiencing declines messages. This is yet another reason I created my own site to manage payments. So that anonymous billing was available. I have heard of guys buying amazon GCs or very discretely and by trusted clients only, using PayPal as you can use pre-paid CCs for those.

I agree with this. That is who I would nominate. That is for this month. Because I have a long list of members I would like to nominate as well. LOL.

The black sites are private not public. I said that already. I'm not sharing bad date information on twitter. My location is already comprised at this point and was shared privately so I see it as a proportional response. I'm privately sharing my experience of the breach.

Don't go for ladies on LL that are 18-20 years old without reviews. Most stings set up online are for catching guys looking for underage girls. Sticking to well reviewed ladies will minimize your risk greatly.

We will have to agree to disagree. Not like having my location can't set me up for blackmail as well. Give me a street and I can locate anyone. I can then get their name, plate numbers and vehicle information, spouse info, kid info, friends and family, work, etc. It doesn't take much. Again, it is my private home. But I get that you would put more emphasis on protecting clients over sex workers. That is generally how you feel about clients vrs escorts anyway. I stand by my post. If that means someone won't see me because of it, good. I want like minded clients anyways and if someone thought my safety is less important then someone who breached my trust like this, then we will not get along anyway.

It is making it hard on escorts since they can not advertise in person sexual services on platforms like Twitter. Escorts have had their accounts closed because of it. Which I don't get. It is on another platform completely. I would be able to advertise any and all business on one platform without risk of banning on another. Another reason I created my own fan based site so I don't have deal with restrictive rules like that.

Posting any location information is a complete breach and therefore a blacklisting offence. I stand by my post. I would be posting all his info on every black site to ensure no other lady is put at risk. He is not losing his life and it is not being "destroyed" You are being dramatic about that. I didn't say I would publicly out the person. Black sites are private. Would you like a few unknown escorts knowing where you live? I think not. I work out of my personal home. I am not screwing around and having my life put at actual risk. I can be physically stalked, hurt, etc by whoever it was, telling the wrong person. It only takes once. This is why I screen. If you are going to get my personal residence location, I'm am getting your phone number, email, real name etc. Quid pro quo and if you breach that, then you live with being blacklisted. Period.

I would be losing my shit. I work in my personal private home. if I found out someone was sharing that info publicly or privately, I would be taking issue. I would be banning the person, posting all their info on every black site I could find. Totally not acceptable. I'm very sorry this happened to you.

Zzzz

Toronto agencies have decided that stage two is when they will open. Which basically re-opened the industry here for everyone. Some ladies will be happy because they get to work without being shamed but other ladies will now be pressured to go back to work when they may not really want to. It is really hard to say. I figured when dentist open but even then I don't know. Part of me thinks I will go back to work in stage two as well. Just maybe a couple weeks into first to see how it goes. But another part of me thinks wait it out until stage three and yet another part of me thinks I may not go back at all. It is matter of risk level and comfortability and when the general public starts to feel that mostly at the same time. But when that time is, I have no idea.

Glad we could help. That is what this forum is for after all. LOL

I think you just told yourself about your own problem. 1 - you are wasting multiple escorts time 2 - you are extremely nervous So what I do is just flipping things around. Don’t contact the ad until AFTER you do all the searching. This way you can get the research done and not waste anyone’s time. As suggested, starting looking for your ads at more reputable places to cut down on possible flakes, then research reviews and GIS, and then content. When you contact an ad, you should basically already know you are going to book her because you have done all your research first.

I was going to come out this Spring but with Covid - it may have to wait u TIL next year hon 😞

Anything you can do to make the administrative factor easier would be appreciated. To do this: - Read the entire site/ad - only contact via the SPs expressed way of contact - fill out all forms to completion. - read reviews to find services levels So that you are not asking the provider - if she screens and you don't want to be, move on. Don't ask her to change her policy for you. There is nothing worse then having to do extra admin work. We are loaded up with emails/texts all the time. Anything that can reduce is appreciated. Right now, during this down time, subscribe to her online virtual services. One other thing that I think would help now, ask her if she likes to be reviewed and if so, review her. It helps her, it helps your fellow brethren and helps reviews sites. It is a win for everyone. That is all I can think of without coffee. LOL. Great question though. Thanks.