Jasmine Rain

You don't know the other woman and her reasons. They may be very necessary for her. But unnecessary for you. And that is OKAY! Because as you said, there are more for you to see and you are moving on. Example of being a gentleman right here. Thanks

Please back that up with stats. Please. I will take stats from any year in the last say ... 10 years on both and we will see who comes out on top. Because let's be real, we know more sex workers have been killed by clients than the other way around. Playing word games, which I know you like to do, does not negate the truth and the truth is in the numbers. We know violence happens more to women PERIOD. So unless you are backing up your claim, it is another counter-argument that is RUBBISH! I have not said it doesn't happen to men but it happens a hell of a lot more to women. I will continue to disagree on the same level of risk based on what I wrote above. I am far more likely to be killed then you in this hobby. That is not similar. And while not everyone is on board with screening, thankfully my clients are and that works for me. Same with all the other women who are successful with it. Which is clearly happening more and more because more and more men are bitching. So my point is simple, no I don't have to understand your side of the coin. I don't have to make a system that works for you, and I will continue to wish any man who wants to remain anonymous, all the best with the next provider because I have no interest in seeing him. What I ask, is for men who don't want to be screened, to just move on. Stop complaining like a little kid who lost his ball and just move on already. There are plenty of women still who don't screen. Us screening ladies are not making multiple threads on here or other boards, generalizing all men who refused to get screened, insulting them by calling them closest rapists and murderers. We just move on. So maybe lets at least get on the same "moving on if it doesn't work for you" page. If we can't even get on the same page there, how to do you expect a better system to be layed out at your feet for you?

Wait? So we have to understand your side of the coin AND make that system better for you? For what you like better? BTW - you do realize this was written by an Austrailain SP, where it is legal to work as an escort. They are still screening over there too. Legal has nothing to do with harm. Sorry So no. Her body first and foremost. SHE makes the rules for her and if that works for both of you, great! If not, move on. Men seriously need to stop telling women how to screen. You like the SP reference system better. Ok, so? Maybe that doesn't work for others. Can't always be about you, or what you want. We get it doesn't work for all of you. That is okay. We accept that, why can't you? When something goes wrong for you, it is lost money, lost time and could be a lost wife/family or a normal job. When things go wrong for us, it is all that PLUS possible loss of LIFE, on top of physical harms. So I am sorry but it is a no-brainer. Your right to get your d$ wet will never trump a lady and her right to live and not be murdered. I wish men could give me the numbers of how many men last year were screwed over by an escort outting their personal information? I know we can give you numbers of how many sex workers were killed. Hobbyist, {don't know why you insist on using the term lobbyists as it means something different} have their tools, and we have ours. Sometimes that matches up, sometimes it does not. Look at the screening just like services. If you like DFk and she doesn't do it, you move on. Do you keep going up on boards complaining that a woman you want to see doesn't do DFK? No, you move on. I am done "HAVING TO UNDERSTAND THE OTHER SIDE" of the coin. Because let's be real, I can pull up a dozen threads from the last 3 months on a variety of different boards on this very topic, and in most of them, men are not at all understanding our side of the coin. It is nothing more than women trying to politely explain our reasons for screening, different options to get screened, how to help newcomers, etc etc. while being bitched at by non-understanding men. This is litterally my second thread on this subject today. and the last response I got was that I am apparently admitting to overdoing MY screening because I can refer a lady similar to me who requires less. Yup, you read that right folks. Stupidity holds no bounds. Sorry, but most men are not looking to work with providers on a safe middle ground for both sides. Most men are looking to say their name is john, with a text app and $80.00 and wanting to put it all on us when they don't get it that easy and for that price. So no. We don't have to understand anymore. We are in control of ourselves and if you don't like it, move on to the next. We are perfectly happy with that. It is not an insult to us, it is not a threat to us. By all means, spend your money elsewhere. But don't worry, you won't get the same rude, insulting and disrespectful responses from us when you do, like we get from many men when they don't get their way, yourself included.

While it was cold, and I don't like your downtown streets {I hate my DT streets too} I had a wonderful time in your city. People are so friendly, the hotel I stayed was great. I ended up at the Detla DT. It was a truly wonderful little trip and I hope to be back again. To those I met - It was awesome fun and to all those who messaged me and helped me prep, thank you all so much. You really helped make my trip an amazing one.

Hehehe - I feel so awesome now. I get some Lyla loving and I am going for a mani today. How can my day get any better?!?!? Thank you again. That is wonderful of you.

My understanding that "Party" meant cocaine or other chemical-based drugs. 420 is for weed. At least that is how it seems to be here in Durham.

I am 42. I am coming to Ottawa this weekend.

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Thank you so much guys and to all those who PMed me. Lilith - I will PM you soon. Would definitely love to meet up.

[url]https://www.ctvnews.ca/politics/patrick-brown-denies-sexual-misconduct-allegations-from-two-women-1.3774686[/url] OTTAWA â?? Ontario Progressive Conservative Leader Patrick Brown is facing serious allegations of sexual misconduct from two women who spoke to CTV News. In interviews, the women allege inappropriate behavior by the rising political figure throughout his tenure as an elected official. One was still in high school when she says Brown, a well-known Barrie politician, asked her to perform oral sex on him. The other, a university student who worked in his office when Brown was a federal Conservative MP, alleges Brown sexually assaulted her following an event she helped organize. Brown's lawyer has responded, saying that Brown "categorically denies these false and defamatory allegations." In a hastily-called evening news conference, Brown further addressed the allegations. â??First I want to say these allegations are false. Categorically untrue. Every one of them. I will defend myself as hard as I can, with all means at my disposal. Itâ??s never okay. Itâ??s never okay for anybody -- for anyone -- to feel they have been a victim of sexual harassment, or feel threatened in any way. Let me make this clear: a safe and respectful society is what we expect and deserve,â? Brown said. After becoming aware of the allegations late Wednesday, a number of Brownâ??s closest advisors resigned. Campaign Manager Andrew Boddington, Chief of Staff Alykhan Velshi, and Deputy Campaign Manager Dan Robertston released a joint statement saying: â??earlier today, all three of us became aware of allegations about Patrick Brown. After speaking with him, our advice was that he should resign as Ontario PC Party leader. He did not accept that advice.â? As well, Ontario PC press secretary Nick Bergamini and staffer Ken Bossenkool tweeted their resignations. Both incidents are alleged to have happened inside Brownâ??s home in Barrie, Ont., after the women had been drinking in his presence. Brown, a well-reported teetotaler, was not drinking alcohol at the time of the alleged incidents, both women told CTV News. CTV News has agreed to protect the identities of the women who have come forward. The first incident occurred more than 10 years ago. The woman, a high school student in Barrie at the time, said she and a mutual friend met Brown at a bar. Brown then invited them back to his home and provided them with alcohol, though the woman was under the legal drinking age at the time. She says she was drunk when Brown invited her for a tour of his home. When the pair entered the bedroom, Brown closed the door and exposed his penis to her. "He pulled down his pants said, and I donâ??t know if he said 'suck my dick' or 'put this in your mouth,' but something along those lines,â? she said. The woman alleges that he then asked her to perform oral sex, which she did for a short time before stopping. â??It was like a controlling thingâ?¦ like I just remember I wanted to go, but that wasnâ??t happening." She says she then left his house and went to a nearby friendâ??s place. "He's an old, single, politician preying on young girls. Heâ??s just a sad person," the now-29 year old said. Another woman came forward with a similar story, detailing her time working for the MP in then-prime minister Stephen Harperâ??s government. She spoke to CTV News in an on-camera interview. She said she met the then-Conservative MP in November 2012 on an Air Canada flight when she was 18, coming home from university. Hours after the flight, at 11:21 p.m. -- a time that was verified by social media accounts viewed by CTV News -- Brown sent the woman a message: "Are you impressed I remembered your name? I am.. LOL" Brown gave the woman his phone number and the names of Barrie bars that heâ??d be at that night, offering her help to skip any lineups, even though she was 18 at the time -- below Ontarioâ??s legal drinking age. "I kinda laughed it off as an older manâ?¦ hitting on me," the former staffer said. She didn't take him up on the offer, but months later when she was looking for a summer job she reached out to Brown and asked if he had any openings or if he knew of other opportunities. After an interview in his Parliament Hill office, Brown hired her to work in his Barrie constituency office. Brown tasked her with organizing the Hockey Night in Barrie charity game he hosts annually. Emails from Brown viewed by CTV News confirmed this. "You know you are my favourite :)" writes Brown in an email to the woman days before the Aug. 15, 2013 event. At an after-party in a now-closed local nightclub, The Bank, the woman says Brown and others provided her with a string of free alcoholic beverages. She was by then legal age. "It was too many to count," the former staffer said. When the bar closed, the party moved to Brown's home, all captured on social media. The woman says she was extremely drunk when Brown invited her and a male friend of his to Brownâ??s bedroom to look at photographs of a trip to Asia stored on his iPad. Brown's friend then left, leaving her and Brown to sit alone on the bed. "The next thing I know he's kissing me. Sitting beside me, kissing me and then I was, I kind of just froze up. He continued to kiss me and he laid me down on the bed and got on top of me. I remember consciously trying not to move my mouth and I was just not moving, so I was laying there immobile and he kept kissing me," she said. "I felt it was sexual. I could feel his erection on my legs when he was on top of me so I felt that it would have gone to sexual intercourse if I had not done anything," she said. "I would characterize that as a sexual assault." "That scenario, like of a very inebriated young employee in the bedroom of her boss, alone with him, who hasnâ??t had a drop of alcohol all night, just thatâ??s an intimidating situation and I was not sure what to do about it," the former staffer said. She told him to stop, saying she had a boyfriend and told Brown to take her home, which he did, driving her back to her parentsâ?? house. The woman said she did not report it to authorities or otherwise because she didnâ??t know what options she had, and tried to move on. "I didnâ??t think that there was any sort of recourse that I could take because I did think this is something that in maybe in another job, I would go to maybe HR about. But I didnâ??t feel, I didnâ??t even know who HR was in this context. Particularly being in a constituency office. I mean, I just didnâ??t know what to do." Brown often travels to India. After the party, the woman says he pressed her to join him as his assistant on an India trip, promising all expenses would be paid. He also gave her a raise. "He told me that I, you know, he thought that I would look really good on an elephant," she said. "I remember thinking, well, 'Would I have my own hotel room? â?¦ I remember thinking, is there some sort of expectation?'" She later spoke with her father about the incident and the invitation. "I just remember feeling so relieved that I told somebody," the former staffer said. CTV has spoken to her father, who corroborated her version of events. He encouraged her to reject the offer. Three other people close to her also confirm that she recounted the incident with Brown to them in the months that followed. The woman chose to return to work for Brown the following summer. "The reason I kept working there was, I wanted to in some way and try and, despite the fact that this happened, I didnâ??t want to let this impede on what I saw then as a career opportunity." During the second summer, her job included driving Brown to various events. It was during these drives that she alleges Brown made inappropriate comments to her including about a woman he had sexual relations with, and about wanting to find an older version of her to marry. "I felt at that point it was kind of part of the job," she said. Brown resigned his federal seat after winning the leadership of the Ontario PC Party in 2015. He now threatens to topple Liberal Leader Kathleen Wynne and become Ontarioâ??s next premier in the June provincial election. His former staffer says she is speaking out now to support other women who have had similar experiences. "I donâ??t think that any woman young or old should be subjected to that and put in a situation where they have to decide between the career opportunity thatâ??s in front of them and being-- taking themselves out of a situation thatâ??s at best uncomfortable and at worst unsafe." Brown has denied these allegations. None of the allegations have been proven in court.

I have a mac mini hooked up to my TV for Kodi. How is Covenant working for you? I find have to switch between that, Genesis reborn and Exodus. And the change is sometimes within that day. I have Traktv so all my shows and movies are saved from add-on to add-on, but flipping is becoming a pain. I know, first world problems bitching about free illegal streaming. LOL

I have reached out to a couple privately, but I thought I would come here for public replies as well. I may be coming out to Ottawa to do a podcast about the industry. I would like to make a trip out of it. I would see maybe a client or two, but I would like to tour the city, do some sightseeing, etc. The goal is not to escort, but I would leave my schedule open to take some clients, so hotels that are SP friendly would a great recommendation for me. Are there must-see places that I have to go to while in the city? Must eat restaurants? I mean let be real, I didn't get fabulously full-figured by not eating. LOL Any suggestions from guys and gals would be awesome. Thanks in advance.

Happy Birthday Meg!!!!!!

Please be prepared to be fully vetted, and have to pay for travel expenses, pay a deposit, etc. If you are serious about this of course. I would suggest following a ladies booking policies to a tee for something like this. Most women are going to think you are not serious, so you will have to show otherwise.

Love threads like this. Thank you for taking the time to see your wonderful companions for the people they are and for sharing that with others so they can see that we are more than just sex objects for the release of men. We are more than just our bits and pieces. We are human, we are women, we are wonderful.

I love being an older woman. When I was younger, I had a very big sexual appetite but I was not confident enough to share it or even demand it from my lovers. And when I say demand, I mean in terms of things that please me. When we are young women, at least back in my day, it was expected that the guy cums, your job is to please him and even DATY was a scary thing because of the pressure to have the perfect pussy with a great scent, look, taste. It could seriously make a girl have a complex. Now, I have more experience and therefore more confidence. I can be more vocal about my likes, I can be more forward, I can be more submissive, I can be whatever I want that day based on my mood and desire. I can look for men who are likeminded sexually and ensure we both have a great time. Almost every sexual experience I have now left me satisfied and completely exhausted. It is awesome. Compared to my 20's when I would often masturbate while he was in the post-romp shower.

It is apparently a play to get around some legal troubles in the US. I don't know all the details, but they don't really care if the links are real, just that they are there.

I wrote this on the other board and I am simply going to copy and paste it. Some of it is not based on the topic, it goes a little beyond that but it all ties into the simple and easy notion of respect for women in this industry and how negative behaviour by some men is, in fact, a form of sexual assault or harassment to us. Please note that references to "other boards" or "this board" in the below are NOT a referenced properly. It is, in fact, the opposite.

Research, reviews and chance. This is why boards like this are important. Communication between your fellow hobbyist is essential here. There are tons of recommendations here but you have guys who always want to try the unknown. Sticking to ladies with sites usually helps but again, you seem to want to see others that don't have that presence so then take the risk. That is on you. That is all anyone can expect in this industry. I am sorry but there is not simple "fix". You are at risk just like everyone else here. Every first time meeting is the same for both men and women. None of us know the outcome of a first date until it is over. I understand your are trying to minimize your risk, but other then what has already been mentioned, you are on your own for figuring things out and deciding if you want to risk it.