Jasmine Rain

[SIZE="4"][FONT="Verdana"][CENTER]My name is Jessica Rain. Allow me to tantalize you into my world of companionship, pleasure and eroticism. I am a mature elite companion standing 5â??7 with a fabulously full figured frame. I am in my late thirties, have soft curves and an hourglass figure. I was naturally gifted with a big bouncy 44DD bust line and the booty to match. [IMG]http://www.jessicarain.info/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/DSC_7823.jpg[/IMG] Beautiful, confident and sexy, I have an insatiable sexual appetite and sassy sensual feminine flair. Fun and frisky, I am enthusiastic and playful as well as passionate and imaginative.Time with me is the perfect retreat from the stresses of ordinary life. I want to tease and tickle your mind, body and soul. Leaving you positively contented and satiated. [IMG]http://www.jessicarain.info/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/DSC_78411.jpg[/IMG] [B][I]I will be hosting at a nice upscale hotel in a full suite Sudbury from [U]August 5th-8th[/U]. Pre-booking is highly recommended. Rates for my time and companionship are $160/half, $250/hour or my favourite prefer date time - $450/2 hours. [/I][/B] I truly enjoy the art of the French Kiss. The teasing and pleasing of two people with their tongues in twirling motions of blissâ?¦ What is not to love? However, I am a non smoker, so therefore my lovers must be as well. No kissing is a deal breaker for me and I can/will not lick an ashtray. A gentlemen enjoying a nice cigar after a meal or our evening out is acceptable on the rare and special occasion. I prefer a masculine/dominant yet non misogynistic man. I prefer a gentlemen who enjoys pleasing a woman as much as I enjoy pleasing a man. A man who truly appreciates the softness of a womanâ??s body and wants to explore every inch of it. I prefer a confident man who knows that I want to worship him because I choose him to be my date and not because of the donation he leaves me later as an appreciate to my TLC. [IMG]http://www.jessicarain.info/wp-content/uploads/2015/07/IMG_0936.jpg[/IMG] Looking forward to hearing from you. Let's Make it Rain! [url]www.jessicarain.info[/url] 289-335-6060[/CENTER][/FONT][/SIZE]

I have family members who have dreaded it up for years, and they have not met much scrutiny based on race. They have been thought of as dirty and not wanting to wash, but surprisingly it has never been about race. However, they are very hippie style as well and it flows naturally for them. I think that there are many hair styles that I like that I know I could never personally pull off. As for a companions having them - If I was a client, I would like to know a head of time as I think hair plays a role simply based on the femininity factor but since it is a very unique style, as the companion I may have privacy concerns. That would be a tough one to call.

If I am not in the mood for chit chat, I usually try to politely get that out of the way in the beginning. When most ask how I am doing, I simply say that I great now that I get some "me" to sit in piece and quiet getting pampered. I then close my eyes and just try to relax. For the most part, people get the hint. They are service people, they know that sometimes people use their services as a time to relax as well. It is just easier to tell them straight at the beginning. Then I don't have to reply on body language or possible offending someone who is not picking up the cues.

I can't see any of the pictures??? I only see MissJessicaLee and Michelle_MA

Your site is not active sweetie.

Here is where my jealously kicks in. Reading about everyone's great time. I am very happy to hear it was such a success. Hopefully there is another one and I will not be missing it.

Just east of Toronto for me, but I love to travel and can't wait to take my show on the road.

I am also new and have not posted any ads. I will not be starting until the new year. I did start posting a few months ago on various forums as a "prep" for my introduction. I was hoping to be started by now, but alas, me at the wee morning hours on stairs with a little dog, did not work out in my favour. My tailbone being injured has left me with no tail to offer to others at the moment. What I decided on was references from either a forum or provider. I have met a couple of ladies in the industry for dinner and asked all the questions I could. I searched over hundreds of sites. I am still fine tuning what I want to offer, what locations, etc, but I have resigned myself to a motto of "I can always say no" When I think of my what adult companion life will be once I am finally advertising, I get nervous and have to remember that I can always say no. I have to set rules and boundaries and then find clients that will work within them. I would be silly to think I should market myself to clients who enjoy 20 something spinner type companions when I am a mature curvy woman. So there is not only a market for escorts, but there is one for clients as well. I know the market of clientele that I am looking for. They will, for the most part, have no issue with my screening process, and the ones that do are free to look else where with the best of wishes from me. I need to feel comfortable, just as I want to ensure my gentleman callers are comfortable. So for me, I am prepared to say no. I think one thing I have heard a lot of warning about for newbies like us, is we fail to see or feel that we can decline a visit request, or that we can stop the visit during the encounter for any reason. There is nothing wrong with saying no so long as it is professional and honest. In my opinion at least. Good luck and welcome to the board.

I hope everyone enjoys their time tonight. I was very much looking forward to attending and am extremely disappointed I am not able too. I do hope there is another one in the future.

This one is the one that most forget about. Financial planning is key to any business. Budgeting, evaluating expense to see where you can cut cost, saving, paying out of pocket, not on credit. Etc. Some ladies don't even keep track of their income vrs business expenses before looking at take home cash vrs natural living costs.

I know I am new here but I would love to attend the social. I have made arrangements for my own hotel booking and transportation.

Client verification is a huge concern for me as well however I don't have a reputation yet either so I felt asking for information that may be considered "too" personal was not the way to go for me. I decided on using Sp references for verification in combination with board handle and verified white list services like P411. I do hope that in time, I may be able to require more information with out reputation concerns should I feel that I need to. However, stating all of that, I think that if you feel you need a certain check list of items before meeting someone, then you should ask for it. Clearly women are able to request this information and are getting it. I can't say for certain if the volume of inquires will change based on the amount of information required and that may be something that you may need to look at before hand and therefore may be able to deflect that possible loss in volume with adjustments to service, rates or location. I think the only way you can really ask for the information is simply ask for it and not accept less then what you feel comfortable it. I think that providing a online information and booking request email form on your site as the only method of contact helps in this manner and seems to be what most of the providers do who are looking for this same type of client verification. This way you are not left in uncomfortable situations in text or on the phone trying to ask for this information. Good luck

I would split it. If it was a large sum, I would probably want them to cash it in to be honest. I am a very private person and I don't want the spotlight. So I would be trusting them to give me half anyway. On the matter of giving the gift to someone, I would be upset if someone won a large amount and didn't share. Not because I would want the money but because I would be disappointed in my choice of friend. For someone in my life that I choose to have there to be that kind of selfish would be upsetting.

I was not aware of an SP only section. I would have asked there as I would really like to opinions of some of the ladies. Hopefully some can then PM me as suggested. Thanks for the replies.

As I slowly put my self, my site, and marketing together for my official launch, I am seriously struggling with determining my rates. I think that is because I am not a full, nor even a part time sex worker. I believe I am slightly a unique breed in this industry, or at least on the very small size of the market base. Standard rules of business would call for calculating expenses, required/desired income level and the divide that by the amount of clients you want to see in a day/week/month to obtain your quota. However, that does not apply to me either. As I sustain my financial independence via my outside business, there is no need to meet a certain quota other then to ensure I cover expenses. I do not want to under value myself. I am not looking for a daily dates, I would be happy sexually with a couple a week, but if I don't see a gentlemen for days, weeks or even months, the only issue I will have is battery replacement in my toys. Sexual experiences for me would ideally be a minimum of 2 hours. I would prefer longer as well as dinner dates or drinks out and dessert in type dates. I have no issue with obtaining a hotel to host from in any city so long as it is worth while. Worth while meaning considerations for my travel time, etc. I don't want to raise rates per location as I would simply prefer a longer date be arranged. I would only book one appointment so the hotel would only be used for that date. This would have to be considered in the expenses aspect as I can not split the expense over multiple client bookings. I would like to offer the following: 2 hour date basically entailing what a standard hour would be, just hopefully more time for MSOG, MPOS, and lots of foreplay 3 hours would be drinks added with more time for companionship and conversation as well as the above 4-5 hour dinner date with "dessert" back at the hotel. Naturally, I just thought $250x2=$500. Seems so simple. However, should I consider something slightly higher to compensate for the individual hotel expense? Should I just offer outcalls? Or only outcalls for 1 hour appointments? I have had a few gentlemen comment on frequency of hour bookings and therefore suggest that I may lose out on many potential clients. However again, a hour really is just not long enough for me. I don't think that will work for what I am looking to get out of being a sex worker. I don't want to under cut my fellow ladies in lust. I don't want to over price myself that I never have sex again. I never thought this would be so difficult. I don't just want to go with what everyone else charges either as I feel there needs to be some personal "ends" that justify the need for the donation amount and that is different for everyone. Ladies, any help would be appreciated. How did you determine your donation amount? Gentlemen, how do rates play into your choice of companion?

I want to address this comment to ensure that I have explained myself properly. I am not discussing the merits of health or safety in my posted opinion as that is for each individual to ascertain for themselves. My opinion is solely on the informed consent basis of engaging in sexual services. That is all. I do not negatively judge ladies who use sponges. I do not judge on anything. I am very open and understanding to how and why ladies feel the way they do. So what a lady should or should not disclose based on risk is not my concern. At least not for this topic of conversation. My opinion is strictly on informed consent of the client. Also, as with all opinions, they are merely an opinion. Not fact, law or right/wrong. It is just my personal on this matter. I did offer up the suggestions of financial planning as an aid and tool that can be helpful to my fellow working ladies. I do not want anyone feeling the feast or famine battle. Before I start working in mainstream way back when, many many years ago, I was homeless, sleeping in a stairwell and starving from not eating for days. I do not want any person to ever have to experience that. While I did not start escorting then, I did find work and that was my start to my own business. I had to learn how to manage money, work hard, plan ahead to ensure I never have to be in that position again. However, it was very traumatic for me. To the point that even though I can fully retire from my mainstream work, actually from all forms of work right now, I don't. I don't because I still fear being destitute unrealistically. No amount of zeros left of the decimal in my bank account are going to change the embedded fear that I now carry. I know the battle and I want to help others if I can.

I think that all of us are and can be sensitive to the other person, however I still have to say that offering sexual services while using a sponge and NOT telling your partner/lover/friend is not allowing them the choice. That to me personally is voiding informed consent. I don't think anyone would be as passive about that if the gender roles were reversed. We are women and we get our periods monthly. We know this. We should prepare for this. That would also mean to me personally, budgeting my income cash flow with my out going expense. I understand that some feel they can not do this. Some are not aware of what options they have in financial planning and we never know the bills of someone else so who are we to say. I understand that not everyone has the same business sense as me and I completely understand that while I have the advantage of working or not working at this point in my life, others do not. I am 38 and can fully retire. From every line of work. I am a rare breed in this regard. I accept this and do not preach. However, I worked extremely hard to get where I am. I am not in some luxury status now. I worked extremely hard, sacrificed a lot and now can enjoy the benefit of it. Being that escorting is generally a cash business, I can see how managing that money can be difficult but not impossible. There are many financial planning tricks that would work so much better for a companion. Things that would grant her the ability to take time off during regular menstruation but even more importantly, it would give her more freedom and control over her business. Something that I think all women should look into and not just because of this sponge/period issue. This industry does not, under any circumstances, have to be feast or famine. It can be very much different and I strongly encourage all ladies to look into proper financial planning to ensure that you never have to feel that feast or famine feeling. Having said all that, I really can't help but think of the men who have, for a variety of different reasons, issue with sex while a woman is on her menses. This would go for any woman in his life, including his wife. We are not talking about when "accidents" happen. I also fully agree that tact and respect when these accidents happen however is a must. However some of the comments from the ladies regarding her right to work trumping a mans right to informed consent to sexual services is a little shocking to say the least. I know I am the new comer here, but I can not support the idea of "he didn't notice, so I am all good". That does not work for me regardless of the gender role of the person or the issue that person might be having. Informed consent should be in my opinion the TOP priority when rolling in the sheets with anyone. Client or civilian lover.

Yes, you were mistaken in your interruption of my post and I accept your apology. Common sense to me would be the same. Common sense to me would be not to make first contact as I suggested. For me personally however, AFTER first contact is made and I start to inquire into likes and dislikes, then it would be appropriate to continue the conversation with same tone and terminology that I introduce into the conversation. I hope that has clarified things for you.