Tempted Monk

The whole post is very impressive declaration of intelligence attractiveness! And I am afraid the bridge should be constructed from the other side in the most cases :-)

Summarizing these remarkable comments, I would say that client - provider relationships can be much more stable than average marriage :icon_lol:

I was introduced to this term "sapiosexual" by one Lady on this board (thank you, Talia). The meaning of it: " finding intelligence sexually attractive or arousing" or in more remarkable words "seduce my mind and you can have my body" Does this type of attraction play any significant role in escort business on both sides? Can "sapiosexual" attractiveness prevail over the physical one? Does it work for the short escort session or it works in the long run only? Is it one of the factors which makes regular client? What is your opinion?

Hi Karmen, Welcome to this virtual community where providers and hobbyists live together as Ladies and Gentlemen respecting and supporting each other. This community built around escorting but the best part is amazing people you can meet here. Enjoy reading, participate in the discussions, ask questions, don't hesitate to send private messages if you have not public question. As escorting itself, this is virtual world, temporary escape from the reality, and this is a good place to come.

Yes Daisy, this is the real one!

I would be okay to be in the same escort world but being 20 years younger :-) Where to get this ticket back?

Yes, I agree with this. Connection is personal, mental, and emotional thing. Chemistry is emotional and physical thing. But that emotional part is common between them. And chemistry is what happens at the moment of meeting, like spark, this moment feeling. Ideal situation when connection and chemistry go together but it is possible, I think, to have just chemistry or just connection. And connection can be established later with deeper personal knowledge and more communication. In my case I have examples of both. I have perfect personal connection with one Lady. We consider each other to be friends, we can talk about everything, we meet sometimes outside the business to go for lunch or coffee together. And there is another Asian Lady, whose English is very limited. So, it cannot be connection without the possibility to really communicate. But chemistry was there from the first meeting. We just perfectly feel each other and have great time together.

Summer remarks are very true. Long time ago I tried to see 20+ yo girls and found out that most of them had no clue what the intimacy and sexuality really are. I decided that it was worth to set age cut to 30+. I followed that rule since then and never regretted. But interesting how my vision of maturity was changed. I came to that conclusion about maybe 20 years ago and saw usually women of my age or older at that time. But I kept the same age cut over years and now I meet 30+ young girls! Change of view as life goes on :-)

Angelica, It really depends on what city you are in. Different forums are popular in different places. TM

I had a pleasure to see this legendary woman (http://www.ericathefox.com/) several times and can recommend her without any doubts. It is difficult to say something new about the Lady who has about 100 very good reviews on TER but I will try to give my personal vision. Erica has been in escorting for a long time and, I would say, she represents the best this business is about - not just very enjoyable diverse sex partner but dream woman, who is pleasure to be with, to look at, to talk to. She is a true c_ourtesan with outstanding attitude. Erica is mature tall blonde with athletic body, svelte long legs, and beautiful full size breast. Her website has many photos from the earlier days and several pretty recent ones and provides you with the right impression of her physique. If you prefer twenty something spinner, she is not your cup of tea. But if you are looking for the act of intimacy with very sophisticated and physically attractive Woman who is completely into it and cares for you, you will enjoy every moment of your rendezvous. Her in-call location is upscale condo in Downtown, very clean and cozy. Erica greeted me being in very interesting half- transparent outfit emphasizing all her curves, keeping open the view of perfect breast, and leaving some space for imagination. First hug and kiss, conversation on the coach over the glass of wine to make me comfortable and then...Clothes are taken off and fun begins...It was very sensual, affectionate, and passionate encounter with a lot of kissing, caressing, o_ral, multiple positions, collapsing together...And second round was even better than fist one... Erica is very enthusiastic, creative, and encouraging sex partner who makes it really enjoyable for both. I think, she is one of the best in Toronto despite all the young generation. Erica doesn't "serve" or "please" client. With her, it is the real act of intimacy, it maybe different next time but never fake. I hope I will be able to see this woman sometimes again because I always smile remembering our time together

Welcome to this virtual community where providers and hobbyists live together as Ladies and Gentlemen respecting and supporting each other. This community built around escorting but the best part is amazing people you can meet here. Enjoy reading, participate in the discussions, ask questions, don't hesitate to send private messages if you have not public question. As escorting itself, this is virtual world, temporary escape from the reality, and this is a good place to come.

I would definitely recommend these two: http://www. theredzone/asian/nicole/index.htm (remove space in URL) Asian Nicole is a legend in this business, one of the best in Toronto. There is my recommendation on her on this site in Toronto section https://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=236064 Rachel is relatively new in this business (at least in Toronto). Very good service, natural, responsive and passionate. And very good massage. Her English is limited. http://www. theredzone/gta/rachel/index.htm (remove space in URL) Both are located in Downtown Toronto. Hope this helps, TM

I still remember myself in my twenties. I was single, I was free like a bird, could have any type of relationship with any available girl around - from casual sex to deep emotional involvement. I simply didn't need escort dates at that time, never thought about this. I started it being grown up man after many years of marriage, which I still consider to be happy marriage. I wouldn't consider to be together with any other woman than my wife. And again I completely agree with this. I believe, not just intimacy in real life but escort date to be enjoyable needs open dialog and communications. I had an interesting experience regarding this. I have met once wonderful Chinese woman whose English was very limited. I prepared for each date what I wanted to tell her and printed out Chinese translation. First time she was very surprised but very happy and grateful for my efforts. I would say this moved our dates to next level :-)

I completely agree with Meaghan - all these ratings just don't have any sense, it is too personal. I never write this sort of reviews with ratings or too explicit details. I write recommendations not often, only when I had really good and distinguished experience. I understand, it is just my personal opinion. And in my recommendation, I try to express the general feeling about this date, give some ideas about Lady's personality, describe what impressed me the most. From my recent observations, writing good recommendation can have interesting side effects: - A couple of PMs from Ladies offering some discount if I turn to be in their area. And no strings attached - I don't need to write recommendation. - Was asked after the date if I am still seeing that girl (I wrote recommendation for). Positive aspect here - the Lady has taken some efforts to know me, have read my recommendations/ posts. But definitely some comparison was expected in my answer - positive of course, I am here and not there. - One young Lady asked me after the date to give her some suggestions regarding improving her service and mentioned my recommendation as a target. It looks like posting recommendations can lead to interesting experience :-)

"Is BP good or bad?" It seems that question itself is wrong. It is not bad or good, it just exists, it is reality which we need to accept, like a weather. Weather may be different, we just need to be prepared: if it is rainy - we need an umbrella, if it is cold - we need to be dressed accordingly, if it is sunny - we need sun glasses. The same with BP: going to such commercial website client must be aware of possible scam, B&S, fake photos; SP should be ready to deal with some jerks and time wasters. We have to face the reality that nowadays this industry cannot survive without sites like BP. Business cannot be done based just on personal website and place like Lyla (there are exceptions of course). Who goes to Lyla? It is mostly registered members of this community, we have about 38,000 of them and many are not active. Toronto BP has much more hits every day. It speaks for itself. In particular, the Ladies who travel regularly usually advertize on BP because there are just no other options. There is always one-two guys who are interested in this particular provider and knows her schedule from personal website. But 10 other guys will just go to BP to find out who is available today or tomorrow. And many of them are good clients. Business cannot be based on those 1-2 well informed guys, the other 10 should be taken into consideration. There are different types of advertising targeting different types of clients. On Eros for example, client finds the provider he likes and then plans the rendezvous according to her schedule and usually books in advance. It is sort of advanced client. BP gives the information about providers available today, at this moment. BP's target is occasional same date client, it is a different and probably bigger category. In general, client from Lyla will be probably the guy who is interested in this particular Lady, "knows" her from her posts, plans to meet her. Client from BP will be mostly the guy who has time at this moment and just wants some SP from the area who looks more or less suitable. So, different advertising will bring you different clients.

And don't hesitate to say some compliments to this beautiful woman you just have met. And it never harms if you bring flowers - this is a date after all and you want this woman to be in a good mood :-)

The chances to find right match through the escort dating are definitely higher than with speed dating :-)

Escorting is a business, maybe specific one but still business. And pretty standard business rules should be applied. If some client wants to book again after "no show", he must pay some reimbursement for that, let say 50% or more (???) extra. I think it would be fare. If "no show" second time, he should be blocked and included in the any possible black list. Just my opinion.

Best days should be spent in the place of your dream. For me it is ocean, and beach, and sunbeam

Asian Nicole (http://asiannicole.escortbook.com/) - Exotic Asian Princess...Sophisticated well educated woman with amazing petite body and gorgeous well shaped long legs any dancer can dream about. She likes classical art, traveling, good dresses, beautiful flowers, and...independence. I went to see ballet performance after reading her article on this ballet posted on escort website as a part of her advertising thread - very unusual way to attract clients but it worked for me. You need to meet Nicole to understand why many who know the escort world consider her to be a legend. This wasn't my first date with Nicole. I have met her first time about five years ago (but she doesn't remember me from that time - so that doesn't count :-) and recently returned to see her after reading that ballet article. Her in-call place is nice condo in the heart of Toronto Downtown, conveniently located close to business district. Booking is very simple - just phone call (or text for returning clients). And Nicole always answers promptly all contacts - very professional in this sense. There was cold cloudy weather outside when we met, but behind the door of her apartment, Nicole was like hot summer day - bright sparkling beautiful woman waiting for me. She made me feel comfortable from our first hug and greeting kiss. Our time together was amazing, slow and sensual in the beginning and much more playful and energetic by the finale. Nicole likes what she is doing and that shows. She is very open and natural during the rendezvous, she keeps you being the center of her attention and enjoys intimacy herself at the same time. And shower together in the end - it was very tempting to stay for one more round after this. This Woman I met recently is much more sophisticated, impressive, sexy, and advanced than the girl I have seen five years ago. Do I like this woman? - Yes. Did I really enjoy our time together? - Yes. Will I return to see her again? - Definitely Yes

It is not just normal - it is the best what can happen to you. Yes, maybe it is "just" a dream but if you found the woman of your dream - value this, enjoy your time together, make her feel your goddess even if it is only short hour or two. When two diverse person meet together and share some act of intimacy, the myriad of different outcomes is possible including good memories, friendship, and yes emotional involvement as well. It is all very personal. Who can give the rule which outcome should be avoided, what is right and what is wrong? Personally, I think that even illusion of feelings is better than nothing. And can we really define which feelings are real and which are just illusion...

Maybe this sounds strange, but attention to me as a person. When Lady makes me believe that she is happy to see specifically me by some small signs of caring and attention. For instance, I did not ask for specific outfit but mentioned in the conversation she looks fantastic on that photo - and next time she reproduced it exactly for me. Or I told her about something important for me - and next time I am asked how did situation developed. Small signs but they mean a lot...

And here is the tool to find out your real age: http://www.arealme.com/mental/en/Check if you fit this condition (19 - 101) :-)

Hmmm.. Good photos are attractive of course. On the other side, I prefer to see not professional photos and better looking in reality Lady than vice versa :-)

Over the years, I had several regular Ladies for different reasons. But with that one it was very simple - I just could not see the other Ladies. I thought about her being with the other woman and such a date did not have any sense. This made her not just regular but exclusive one. I always waited for our next date and I missed talking to her, I missed her smile, the feel of her body when I hug her, taste of her kiss, her laughing eyes, her silky skin... I have forgotten long time ago that I can feel something like this. And I will be always grateful to this woman for that wonderful year when I felt really alive again.