Tempted Monk

... make the woman of my dream to believe she is only one I need..

Multicolored (it is usually white without lights :-) To drink: vodka with cranberry juice or whiskey with soda?

Drinking red French wine and thinking of Woman I'd like to be with but cannot... at least for now...

Amazing shopping windows Christmas decoration at Bay department store in Downtown Toronto

Of course Champagne! Snow or warm weather for Christmas?

Welcome to this virtual community where providers and hobbyists live together as Ladies and Gentlemen respecting and supporting each other. This community built around escorting but the best part is amazing people you can meet here. Enjoy reading, participate in the discussions, ask questions, don't hesitate to send private messages if you have not public question. As escorting itself, this is virtual world, temporary escape from the reality. If you need such an escape sometimes, this is a good place to come.

There was pretty detailed discussion in couple threads regarding if provider's age is important: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=92425 http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=192305 But I did not find thread devoted to the question: "What is preferred client's age?" Which client is better - young and energetic or mature and sophisticated? More physically oriented or looking for emotional connection? I see in many ads (even from young girls) restrictions like preferred clients 35+ or 40+. What is the reason for such restrictions?

A trip twenty years back - can someone offer?

To cross Atlantic on the ship with Lady of my choice!

Have looked at this age preferences question at the other angle and found interesting thing. Long time ago I tried to see 20 yo girls and found out that most of them had no clue what the intimacy really is. I decided that it was worth to set age cut to 30+. I came to that conclusion about maybe 20 years ago and saw usually women of my age or older at that time. But I kept the same age cut over years and now I meet 30+ young girls! Change of view as life goes on

* Go to church for confession. It can be long and definitely private

One more date with Cherry... Will it meet the expectations from the good past memories? Familiar apartment door opens after first knock. I come in and...Where is that a little bit shy Asian girl? I see stunning, confident, and unbelievably sexy Woman. She is packed in fantastic black dress emphasizing all her curves and keeping open the view of perfect natural breasts. Legs (to die for) in stiletto shoes , tasteful makeup, silky black hair waiving around her shoulders. Live version is definitely better than photos on her website. And she knows how attractive and irresistible she is. Cherry greets me with sparkling winner's smile and laughing eyes, a bit ironic and promising... Couple compliments, first kiss - and all I can think about is to kiss and caress every inch of this perfect body. Cherry has unusual for Asian women body of Greek goddess - slender but curvy - such a pleasure to keep her in my arms. Her kissing with full body contact is amazing - passionate, deep, tasty, playful, involving tongue - one of the best kisser I have ever met. Cherry jokes about required training for my undressing skills - she has unique and unpredictable sense of humour - and helps me with this. We are ready now to enjoy each other and proceed to the bed. I cannot miss the foreplay with perfectly shaped breasts responding by arousal of hard nipples. Her oral - slow, sensual, intense, artistic - brings me almost to the edge and keeps there. I am ready for the main part and she likes long lasting energetic play. Missionary is her favorite position, she really enjoys it. And, oh boy, you have to perform with this woman if you want to keep up to her. After I finish (hard to postpone for a long time having so hot partner), Cherry gives me little break to calm down my breathing and smiles at me: "You know I am not done yet, right?". Brief oral to make me alive again. The second round is even better. She knows I like to keep my hands on the partner's body to feel the thrill and to give additional pleasure and she allows me to be in such a position. Performing by her, it is not a Cow Girl, she doesn't "ride" me. Cherry rather moves slowly and carefully adjusting our feelings to each other. It is great to feel every move and every desire of her responsive body from in and out. We collapse finally together, she on top of me covered by her beautiful silky hair. And I think that I will never try to imagine or predict our time together. I will let her be that enigmatic Asian beauty and surprise me every time - yes, I want to come back. And, yes, I want to see her again even before I left.

"Women are never disarmed by compliments. Men always are. That is the difference between the sexes." Oscar Wilde Compliment is a part of any relationship short or long. I invite both Ladies and Gentlemen to share the best compliments you ever received. Here is my part. I was fortunate to meet very special Lady here who is my regular SP for a long time already and who I really care about. Over the time we became friends who can ask for help each other and who can discuss very private issues freely . Recently, we discussed our plans and she said that she was thinking about retirement from the business. Then she smiled and added that not seeing me is the only reason that keeps her from that decision. For me, it was one of the best compliments I aver had in my life.

Dealing with unwanted client? I am just curious how Ladies deal with the situation when they don't want to meet some particular client who requested appointment? Maybe you have met this guy once, didn't like him for any reason and don't want meet him again. What would you do: don't answer his calls/ e-mails, tell him directly about this, find some excuse, ...?

This question is old as this world. Many of us probably tried to answer it. I would not change something particular but I would make my younger version to understand some basic things. 1. "Life". There is only a moment between past and future. And this moment is what called life. Enjoy this moment, do right things now, don't postpone anything. 2 "Happiness". Happiness is the moment in your life (time and place) which you would not want to leave. Your life is moving in right direction if you believe you will have such moments ahead. 3 "Love". True love means that you are ready to give everything you can without expecting anything in return, you care for someone unconditionally. If I had come to this when I was young and stupid, life of some people would be better including myself. Or maybe it is just a fantasy, and everyone is supposed to make his/ her own stupid mistakes.

There are many reason the girl can become regular, and SOMEGUY summarize them very well from the beginning. For me, I have very clear indication: if I go to one Lady and think about the other one I was with recently, then I found the regular. No sense to go to someone else, at least for a while.

Your story Peachy can be real inspiration for many, congratulations on your achievements! Yes, education itself, some additional knowledge does not define the person but hard work, dedication, ability to reach the goal really do. And there is one more thing I'd like to mention. My university professor liked to repeat that it does not matter what to learn, what really does matter - from whom to learn. The bright and caring people who we meet on our learning path change us and make us better.

I would like to answer these questions in the context of "second article". As it says "they want a piece of your soul' - exactly right, many of us, clients, pay for the illusion of having a small piece of soul, not just sex. And "Maybe 20% of the time I truly hate the sex,... and the other 60% is tolerating it" - to be honest, I probably prefer to know and pay for NOT being with that woman. This is the case when I want to use my consent for no. Very personal opinion of course.

If I have chosen to meet mature Lady, then I want to see sophisticated elegant mature lady and not a school girl. For me personally, small cocktail dress without anything under would be good. Or outfit from your signature would work too :-)

This thread underwent the interesting transformation starting from the discussion of reliability of information on BP and ending on discussion if participation in BP is good or bad. Actually, I don't see how using some website can make someone or something better or worth. Let me put it this way. As a client, I go to BP from time to time. Does this change my personality or makes me worth client? I don't think so. If I come to the escort companion from BP, will she treat me in a different way then the guy who came from Eros or personal website directly? I hope not. Or am I wrong Ladies? If I found companion on BP, will I treat her differently than Lady from Lyla? - no way, with the same respect and high expectations. It does not depend on website, it depends on person. Being general commercial site, BP is just less reliable source of information than some special sites for escort advertising - that is all. This means that a little bit more efforts are required on both sides. Clients should do some search and verification, Ladies are expected to do smart advertizing to save us some time on that search and verification. (BTW, Mia's ad is the perfect example how it can be done right on BP - no doubts about person authenticity or service quality - IMHO.)

Be aware: Bait & Switch - how it works: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NLxoCtaJmlw&feature=youtu.be

Just went through this thread and want to add a couple of comments regarding this BP subject. "Is BP good or bad?" It seems that question itself is wrong. It is not bad or good, it just exists, it is reality which we need to accept, like a weather. Weather may be different, we just need to be prepared: if it is rainy - we need an umbrella, if it is cold - we need to be dressed accordingly, if it is sunny - we need sun glasses. The same with BP: going to such commercial website client must be aware of possible scam, B&S, fake photos; SP should be ready to deal with some jerks and time wasters. We have to face the reality that nowadays this industry cannot survive without sites like BP. Business cannot be done based just on personal website and place like Lyla (there are exceptions of course). Who goes to Lyla? It is mostly registered members of this community, we have about 38,000 of them and many are not active. Toronto BP has much more hits every day. It speaks for itself. In particular, the Ladies who travel regularly usually advertize on BP because there are just no other options. There is always one-two guys who are interested in this particular provider and knows her schedule from personal website. But 10 other guys will just go to BP to find out who is available today or tomorrow. And many of them are good clients. Business cannot be based on those 1-2 well informed guys, the other 10 should be taken into consideration. There are different types of advertising targeting different types of clients. On Eros for example, client finds the provider he likes and then plans the rendezvous according to her schedule and usually books in advance. It is sort of advanced client. BP gives the information about providers available today, at this moment. BP's target is occasional same date client, it is a different and probably bigger category.

Keep be positive, believe in yourself, everything will be back to normal! We will all pray for your recovery.

Many Ladies travel around regularly, some go occasionally to new places. I herd several times that experience can vary and Toronto for example is very different from Montreal. Is there really difference between the cities in this aspect? And if it is, what is different - environment in general, client base, client habits? Is there best place for escorting?

What would you expect out of the rendezvous with lovely sexy Lady? Escape from the real world for a while sharing act of intimacy with the person who is all into it and cares for you? Expressing your admiration and being loved and cherished in return? Giving pleasure to your partner thrilling body and receiving even more back? Being yourself and open with someone who is engaged and understanding? You will get all of these and maybe even more with Cherry, this enigmatic Asian beauty, warm and intelligent person attributed with exceptional physique. We met at her cozy Downtown apartment tastefully decorated with the original paintings. Cherry, leggy slender brunette, greeted me dressed in small half-transparent white blouse which encouraged imagination and left open the long lasting legs (to die for) in high heels. Her smile was beautiful. From the moment I stepped in, I felt welcomed, expected, and desirable - not in general way but particularly me. Cherry was very natural in establishing first personal connection and proceeding to the more intimate part. And then...it was passion, caress, and, yes, physical drive devoted to me completely and entirely. I have to confess (monk's habit) I forgot about the time and stated longer than expected (was compensated later of course). I never saw any hint from Cherry regarding the time passed. This break from the reality of life was really enjoyable. Remembering this date (probably the best word to describe what it was) later, I always have the warm feeling that something really good happened to me. I believe it will happen again next time... HER WEBSITE: http://www.cherry6076.com/