Tempted Monk

Sorry for returning to this one more time. Nothing is more or less ethical in stealing. There is just small nuance here: I never suggested to steal ANYTHING. Let me briefly reiterate what I suggested in my post: 1) Put content aside (which should be personal and unique). 2) Do research regarding the content representation: - Choose the best existing sites from your point of view; - Investigate, compare, and choose the best sections on those sites; - Use these best templates (examples) to start working on your own vision and implementation. All these sites are publicly available. And anyone is allowed to look at them as an example of high quality standards. I never used words "copy", "rip off", or "steal". I used the words "choose", "starting point", "create", "start working with". I apologized that my initial statement was not clear enough. If someone wants to interpret this in different way, it is the problem of that person and not mine. We all see things through our own biases.

This thread is another confirmation that the beauty of human being is a variety - we are all different. Some of us just sort of allergic to real world and practically live here, the others need to be loved and cherished (even if it is just for an hour), and some want to be with the woman of his dream (even if it is a couple times a year). And Ladies involved in this business are not less different. When two diverse person meet together and share some act of intimacy, the myriad of different outcomes is possible including good memories, friendship, and yes emotional involvement as well. It is all very personal. Who can give the rule which outcome should be avoided, what is right and what is wrong? Personally, I think that even illusion of fillings is better than nothing. And can we really define which fillings are real and which are just illusion...

I want to apologies for my first post on this thread. It was not my intention to suggest the coping of any other site. I was talking about presentation design having content out of scope completely. But it is clear to me now that most people don't separate content of web site from its presentation. And considering my post from this point of view I see that it looks inappropriate and it is completely my fault. It looks like recommendation to use other site content what was not my intention at all. My apologies.

Dear Gabriella, I am sorry you interpreted my post this way, there is clear misunderstanding here. It was never my intention to suggest stealing your or anyone's else web site. One of the first statement in my post is " - content (which should be personal and unique as was mentioned by Ladies already)" Any design has some starting or, as you say, inspiration point. Web design is not an exception. What I suggested is to find the best from my point of view representation of each site section on some exiting site and use it as an example of quality to be achieved in my development. Using something as a template does not mean stealing. Template definition from Webster dictionary gives: "something that is used as an example of how to do, make, or achieve something". It is some sort of standard or example to be achieved. I suggested to find the highest standard for each section and to try creating you own according to these standards. I assume anyone is allowed to look at your site from this point of view: as an example of high quality presentation. I never suggested to copy any content or pages.

I will try to explain how I would start working on such a project. Of course it is just personal opinion but maybe it could help somehow. First of all each web site has two components: - content (which should be personal and unique as was mentioned by Ladies already) - look and feel or form (how this content is presented). SP web site content usually includes (with some variations) several sections: introduction, bio/ about me, photos, services/ donations, contact, etiquette/ FAQ, maybe something else. Any project is easier to create based on some template or having some starting point. - Choose let say 7 sites of established SPs. - Go through them and select 3 which you like more. They will reflect your vision in some part. - For each section compare these 3 sites and select the section you like the most. - Think how would you modify this section to make it your own, to reflect your personality. This way you will get some draft version to start working with. Hope it helps, TM

I did my home work (thanks to Gabriella's recommendation) and came to a couple of conclusions. 1) There are 71 posts altogether in 3 threads from different years on this topic. Only 9 of them are posted by SPs. It looks like Ladies are not interested in this idea at all, even in the discussion of it. Obviously, without Ladies support, this idea is dead born regardless of any reasoning or "grey" legal area. So, nothing to discuss here and probably additional explanations are not required. 2) The style of discussion (based on the same subject) evolved over years. Nowadays it became more informative and multidimensional: OP has the opportunity to learn a lot of new things about him/ her-self based just on the suggested subject :-)

Thank you to mistert, we have the references to two old threads regarding the same question. I believe there was even earlier similar discussion in 2006 or 2007 but I could not find that thread. Considering that this idea is alive for many years and pops up from time to time, there is probably something here and it is not so bad. Regarding the discretion and confidentiality, I don't see much difference between client giving recommendation to the Lady or Lady giving recommendation to the client (but maybe I am missing something here). And of course I did not mean any ratings or scores, exactly like it is for Ladies.

Cherry, you must have the following in the activation e-mail from TERB: "If you are still having problems signing up please contact a member of our support staff at [email protected]" Your account is not really activated yet. Send message to that e-mail and they will resolve the issue in couple days. Good luck

I look at the ad picture quality from the practical point of view. The first and main requirement - photos should be real (I am not talking about CERB profiles here, the situation on the many other sites is very different). And from this angle, bad photos have the positive side - they are real. But if the quality of the pictures is really bad they are not attractive and just useless. If photos are " too perfect" the simple Google search shows often they belong to someone else and cannot be real. Such an ad cannot be considered seriously. It is probably my personal experience but perfect photos make me suspicious. I prefer to see the real person and not the ideal image created by photographer's art (with all my respect to photographers). Maybe I am wrong, just personal opinion.

Jenny "Six Foot" is really six feet tall and nice girl: http://jennyjuggs.wix.com/irishamazon

And even physical beauty can be developed and depends on the personality underneath. Nobody has said better than Coco Chanel: "Nature gives you the face you have at twenty; it is up to you to merit the face you have at fifty"

Hmm.. Confession would be a good reason to spend some time out alone. In contrary to Home Depot, it is auricular act and nobody can accompany you. Just thank Lord for the opportunity afterwards.

Interesting statement Emily, especially from the Lady who is definitely "material" for developing feelings. Probably, it is based on experience and I respect this. But as a client I choose the Lady considering her personality, I want to develop some feeling. Without any feeling it is just something mechanical and I don't want it this way. Am I wrong? And it is not necessary to walk away - just have feeling but don't make things weird. Maybe not that simple to do but all this industry is not simple. Just my personal opinion.

Just practical advise: make your age cut 29 instead of 30. From my observations 29 is y longest lasting advertising age :-). But as many have already said maturity is not always refection of the age. It is more related to the experience, personality, and how you see the surrounding world. Saying that I have to confess that I have maturity age cut myself, just to feel more comfortable.

It is interesting how many different way are there to find out which provider could be the next. As many of other guys, I prefer to meet the girl whose personality is attractive and who I believe I would enjoy to spend time with. And I found pretty effective way to get some impression about the woman I am interested in - Twitter. Most of ladies have Twitter accounts nowadays and publish it on their web sites or adds. Spend half an hour on reading Twitter postings and you can understand if you have something in common and have something to talk about. For sure, you will see if this is "no go" case. At least it works for me well

Returned to this thread because it happened to me recently and question popped up again. Simple situation: I am your client and I ran into you in public place or just on the street. We definitely recognized each other. What would be the best for me to do: pretend I don't know you, just smile, say "hi"? I understand you don't want probably to be recognized in public place. But on the other hand, ignoring the person I know (and, actually, glad to meet) looks very impolite and I feel bad about it.

Cutting off factors first: location and rate. Much appreciated if add includes rates and there is no need to get this additional information separately. Add style, sense of humor, if there is something unique about this Lady. Good quality photos may become decision trigger :-)

I vote for 45 min. 1. For the first rendezvous, it is long enough to understand if there is a connection and if you want to come again. If there is a personal "click" you can feel it very quickly. And if this "click" does not happen it cannot be developed during the extra time. 2. Convenient session during the busy day when there is just no more time literally.

Considering the list, location and rates are simply cut off factors: - I have convenient for me area and just don't have time to go far away (prayers, prayers :-) ). - It is very specific business. From my observations, higher rate does not mean higher experience (not even correlated after some point). So, no sense to go higher then some reasonable limit. Connection or personal "click" is obviously important but you cannot say for sure until you meet the person. Communication (including ad style) is very important to me especially on the first contact. Something else... There is my regular Lady who I have known for many years and who I call my friend. Sometimes (not often) I ask her opinion regarding the other sp I could be interested in. Knowing me very well and knowing about the girl, she usually can give me advice and I trust her completely.

Cannot say for sure not having experience, but Brazilian wax looks like specially invented medieval torture for women. Is keeping hair down there natural way with nice hair cut such a bad idea? - Just thinking out loud

Regarding the age... Are there any discounts for seniors? (just humbly wondering :-) )

Thank you FORTUNATEONE for your calm and thoughtful response. My apology for disliked 'daughter' question. If someone feels offended by this question, I am sorry, it never was my intention. As I said, it is sort of personal question for me. And I just wanted to hear honest opinion on this subject from "first hands" - official society stereotype on this is well known. Sometimes, all of us cannot avoid answering disliked questions. And it is not easy to do especially if this question is not just theoretical one. And. right, nobody wants to fail as a parent.

Just went again through this thread from the beginning - very impressive reading... There are incredible great Ladies in this community! It is obvious that Ladies who took part in this discussion like or even love what they are doing. And it is clear that escorting is very specific business with its pros and cons, which gives some advantage for right person but creates some problems as well. So, here is the question: Would you like such a career for your daughter? - If you have one or just imagine. (I understand, this is pretty personal question, I have daughter myself)

Have looked at this age preferences question at the other angle and found interesting thing. Long time ago I tried to see 20 yo girls and found out that most of them had no clue what the intimacy really is. I decided that it was worth to set age cut to . 30 and higher. I came to that conclusion about 25 years ago and saw usually older women at that time. But I kept the same age cut over years and now I meet 30+ young girls! Change of view as life goes on

Hmm... Feel much better and younger when cannot remember my age, comes with maturity :-)