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2 words: search tool If someone hasn't already asked your question, that will be what shocks me most.

I love lilacs but hate that they are only around for a month at a time!

Just want to point out that this is a generalization, and not always the case ;)

This is exactly why I post my ad thread listing ALL of the available services (at no extra cost!)...mind you there are a few extras, which only lead up to a 275/hr total anyways. Every SP has a right to advertise/market herself as she wishes, whatever works for her. Keep in mind that agency girls do not keep all of their money, and are more inclined to charge extras. If you don't like the services vs the price, move on and find another! ;)

As was previous stated in the thread, your SO probably would not feel the same way! On a side note, I don't think the thread was started with the aim to label anyone, it's clearly just a discussion about a word that may have a negative meaning in our society. If we cannot come to CERB to share our thoughts, ideals and opinions, then someone please tell me what it is exactly that we are doing here....??? Like most other thought-provoking threads, this one shows us that not everyone acts, feels or thinks the same way.

It's actually wonderfully good for the skin, based on my experiences.

Without knowledge, there cannot possibly be consent. Therefore, cheating.

wow I need to come in and check BDSM threads more often, just now seeing this reply! Thanks guys for all your input!!! You've given many new directions to let my thoughts wander to, much more understanding (still much more to be had) and such insights as to what could lead to this type of play. I think it's important to learn about the psyche in these cases as it certainly helps to understand the client's needs as far as atmosphere and dialogue etc. If you don't know what the client seeks specifically, it can be a complete disaster, I'm sure. I will make sure to ask the right kinds of questions should a need for this ever arise. Also, I will need to learn a whole lot about the physical risks before I venture forth! This is such a grey area and I thank you all again for showing me that nothing is completely black nor white, especially in this community.

I thought I'd start a thread with some FYI's for the gentlemen...Ladies and gents alike, please add in some thoughts/experiences as well! 1. You cannot just jump right in and jam on. If you're scared to warm up the oven with your fingers (or a toy), forget about baking your bread in there. 2. Lube goes a long way. No, your spit is not enough. 3. I don't care if you're only 5 inches long, you also happen to be 4 inches wide! NOT GONNA HAPPEN! 4. You're right, I can't get pregnant that way. But I can come across an array of STDs and other infections. JIMMY UP! I know most of you will see the above info as "DUH, isn't all of that obvious?" It is not obvious to all. I've had to "educate" a number of people recently which is what inspired this thread. Many people seem very intrigued by the topic, but know nothing about it whatsoever. Hope we get a nice discussion going on here and we can all maybe learn a little something!

Yes, these are mine. :)

I personally disagree, many clients have a particular fetish or specific interests and I for one would not like to have a client leave unsatisfied because he never asked if I offered that and it turns out I didn't. I am a firm believer that if you want something, ASK IF IT'S AVAILABLE. This helps to ensure a good client/SP match rather than throwing your sausage and beans into the dark and hoping for the best. If I don't offer what you're looking for, rest assured that someone does and hopefully other SPs agree with me that being asked what is on the menu is not distasteful. The only distasteful way to approach it would be to ask if there is any reduced costs for such & such services...as most of us know, it's the time you pay for not the service. But asking what services are available should not be taboo, imho. That's like saying it's wrong to ask the McDonald's cashier if Big Mac's come with pickles or not. You're not asking for a price check on a pickle-less burger...simply informing yourself of the...err...toppings. :) Additional Comments: Yes, most of us I'm sure have "heard it ALL before" ... I don't think there's much left to surprise me!

I used to host these types of parties... perhaps if the interest is great enough I will start again :D just to be clear though; my parties do not have other women on their guest list! ;)

I think the best advice for you is to find an SP who A) doesn't mind answering questions for you and B) would be willing to walk a 1st-timer through the mechanics of it I am one of those, if you would be interested in seeing me I would be most glad to assist you in your endeavors. :)

You could join the threesomes group...maybe 2 fine gentlemen both interested in this could find each other (and you!) there! :) link to group : http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/group.php?groupid=144

as mentioned above, paying someone to do your bookings is considered "living off the avails" which is as illegal as street soliciting. How are you and your friends SPs without knowing this in the first place? I think before you venture forth into this agency idea, you should consider educating yourselves more on the sex industry and canadian laws surrounding it. Then make a more educated decision.

Why not book through PM for the simple reason of ladies being able to identify you by username? It's anonymous, so why not? Sounds like you might benefit from it....might be worth a try. Additional Comments:

http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=117199

Perhaps he's addressed it privately with myself or other SPs mentioned. Perhaps leaving the discussion open to all scenarios allows all users to know the many options available to them! ;)

BEST GROUP EVER! Thanks a bunch Emily J Eff'in brilliant!

Yes, that seems to be what happened since my photo is still posted in the group, but simply is not available anymore in my "private album"... I don't see any other way of getting these particular photos onto the site however as posting in a group gives you ONE option to add photos, which is providing a link. To me, this means the only pics that I can post are ones I have in my album (no nudity, nothing excplicit), or are the property of someone else's online link (Is there no copyright law being violated here?). There is no option to upload directly from my PC, perhaps we should address that to the mod?

For the record, my partner is open to any and all scenarios ;)

Just a head's up, I got an infraction for posting an "action" pic in Emily's group, so private or not, regular photo rules still apply.

Thanks for the reco Emily!

Phew! I was worried I was the only one! Thanks guys.