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it's a privacy thing for sure, she as elected to hide themin her photos....not intended to be B&S....Jus tryin to remain anonymous. take my word, she has a couple tatoos.

You may be interested in my good friend maxine....as far as i know you can currently find her thru PK. she's definately what you're looking for.

am i missing something? .... mod.....are u ok?....should we send a search party???

I think, like Kim, that this is really mind boggling. Why ask for a photo? getting that photo is a guarantee that the person in it is the person who's gonna show up at your door? LOOK HOW EASY IT IS FOR SPs TO POST FAKE PICS!?!?!?!?! hahahahaha If a serial killer wants to slit ur throat, he's gonna send you someone else pic and get your address still. whoever this lady is who's going around breaking YOUR (as in the client) privacy.....well i hope she can read this thread ad see where other people's opinions lie on the subject. That being said, since i don't know who this unmentionable woman is, i canot say for sure why she would want to do this. Perhaps she's on the same train of thought as i am? which is; trying to figure out a way to not be overly busy. for example, my recent "rule" of no new clients. It's quite simply that i do not wish to be as busy as i previously was. This is an excellent way of slwoing things down for myself....maybe she feels the same way about her business?

PERFECT HON! cuz he's not lookin for a spinner....re-read the first post in this thread....he wants you.

no...LOL only physical descriptions, email address/phone number etc.

MOD - Will the voters names be public or hidden? Personally - if it were up to me, i'd go with public. Let me explain WHY. In my previous experience with polls on this board as well as others, members seem to find more credibility in the numbers if they can judge the credibility in the names. If the names are hidden from view...well...

Yea, i think a few members may be confused, this isn't a popularity contest, LOL. no one should be voting for who they think is hottest, or has the best service. Obviously, as SPs, we can't have made a recomendation that turned out to be positive for you, that's where the male members come in handy....But if u ever wondered what's it like from our point of view on any given topic...well then you've read posts by some of the lovely ladies (present company included) nominated in this thread. Or maybe you've had bad luck communicating with an SP (or many SPs) and you can't seem to figure out what the problem is? Well i am willing to put money on this...some of these ladies would have gladly given you advice and their perspective on the situation, even if they weren't the woman (women) in question... And let's not forget about all the "basic" info that any member could have given you, SP or not....things like definitions (bbbj,GFE,etc), help navigating the site, funny jokes to brighten your saturday morning, advice for out-of-towners on hotel rooms,sightseeing,bars etc... There are countless ways an SP can contribute positively to the board and I'm glad the mods came up with this, gives a chance to those of us who put forth efforts in this community to be recognized. Vote for someone who may have given you insight, advice or direction. Someone who posted anything at all that u found useful. That's what this award is about people.

LMMFAO ur too cute.

Thanks guys. I'm glad someone reads the crap i post. ROFL

I operated the same way, no number, no nookie. It did improve things, but didn't make them quite 100%. Le Sigh.

I currently am not involved full time in this "hobby". I am only here today and saturday then I'm off again to enjoy the other side...i hear the grass is greener....anyways, my point is, i used to care about getting new clients. yes, even "old" clients can bail, but if i enjoyed them as a client previously, it's probably because they don't pull stunts like that, or at least they have the decency to CALL AHEAD if something should arise. Otherwise, they'd have ended up on my "F*CK OFF" list long ago. I knew that not offering incalls for new people would influence them to go elsewhere, but that's what i want, RIGHT NOW. The comments i previously made were more in regards to my previous involvement. Now, if i were still concerned with this hobby a month from now, yea i most likely would be trying to gain new clients now. And guess what? Allowing "new" people would cause said "bullcrap"... because even on a good week, there's still at least a 25% failure rate. AND THATS A GOOD WEEK PEOPLE!!!! (hence my comment about no shows helpin me deicde to leave) So, by eliminating this, i can ENJOY my brief return as opposed to be stressed for hmmm about 25% of the time. On another note, it's VERY easy to take a guy seriously if he gives up his cerb handle easily. As opposed to some "john" who won't even give you a cell phone number.

No shows were half the reason I left the business in the first place....and my "no new clients" rule (for incalls) helps weed out all the bullcrap, seeing as the people I am willing to meet, are known to me for NOT being no shows. its more than frustrating guys, seriously. "Did you ever think just maybe there was four or five other hobbiest that wanted to see the same service provider at your time that you just finished not showing up for?" DING DING DING!!!! theres always 3-4 guys asking for the same time/date, i think it may be one of newton's laws or something....and of course, when there's a last minute cancelation, or "no-show".....u think those other guys are still around waiting with their dick in their hand? no! they took their dick (and wallet) elsewhere....sigh. this isn't a problem for touring SPs only....i'm pretty local if u ask me.

My vote is the same as last time....i duno how the cowboy didn't win to begin with....

this is true to my knowledge, but in a sting scenario....who's gonna give up their cover BEFORE they catch you???

i agree that being SUB doesnt HAVE TO include pain. it can be about torture (yes, painless torture exists, if u like u can come over and i'll show u how good torture can feel), or perhaps about ridiculing etc those types of things. It doesnt have to mean pain, or bondage for that matter. What is truly important in sub/dom relations is simply WHERE THE POWER LIES.

unfortunately, wether u believe it or not, it's still illegal.

no harm meant,none taken....i just don't understand what exactly about my first post that u see the opposite of? And i don't think he's asking for opinions....he's asking to discuss the GOOD and BAD points of each. WHY DO U PREFER INCALLS.....what is it about outcalls you don't like? and not only from your perspective, think of it in their shoes also. I'm not "bashing" incalls, what do you think i did for the past 2 years?!?!? Wether its my preference or not, I'm tryin to help this guy by pointing out the PROS AND CONS....the good, the bad....maybe even the ugly....

no hostility.....i tend to come off that way cuz my words are snappy but i promise it's not like that. I was just carifying what i had said cuz i think she got the wrong impression. and as far as "settling" things goes, I'd never fight a woman unless we were in a tub of vaseline and chargin you guys an arm and a leg to watch.

I had the same thing happen my 1st year in the business. A woman started calling my cell and leaving a lot of msgs as well as texting me off the hook. There is nothing else u can do but cut him off as a client, which is what I had done. Othwerise, be prepared to continue dealing with this aggrivated woman.

SHE SAID IT BEST: i think we need to clear some things up here : THIS GUY ISNT LOOKIN FOR A DOM, HES LOOKIN TO BE DOM!!!!!!

Calling the police if ever in danger doesn't take away the fact that every time u have a new client for an incall you are in possible danger. Go ahead, call the cops, AFTER YOU HAVE BEEN IN DANGER. Not to mention how you're taking a HUGE chance of being charged with either soliciting, prostitution or wtv the charge is regarding a "bawdy house" cuz wether ur in danger or not, INCALLS ARE ILLEGAL. And if the client doesn't do his homework, the incall could be just as dangerous for him. I've heard stories about people being at the location when the client arrives, etc. I never said incalls could lead to a sting, i just said they COULD be dangerous. For both SPs and clients!!! You disagree with THAT? __________________________________________________ Out calls can actually be just as dangerous, also for both sides. ie: -client's perspective: *hotel outcall - possible sting *home outcall - lord knows who you are inviting into your home. -SPs perspective: *You don't know where you're going to until u get there, regardless of what area of town its in, or what type of residence it is, there could be one guy there or 15. Even with only that one guy, if u haven't met him b4, you don't know what's going to happen. In this case i wouldnt hesitate to call the police if anything arose, seeing as OUTCALLS ARE LEGAL. where are YOUR pros and cons of each...as per the question?

incall - illegal outcall - legal (If the SP is indy....) incall tend to cost less (many girls tag on $20-$40 for a driver when doing outcalls) incall - puts client in a possibly unsafe scenario. outcall - puts SP in a possibly unsafe scenario. Outcalls, if in your own home, have the "home bed advantage". i can't really think of anything else to tell you at the moment.

hahaha i do what i can to put a smile on ppl's faces. glad to see my job here is done.

hahaha that comment makes me think u believe thats the only bbbj around....sure it might be the only 30$ one but look around hon - many girls will suck ur dick without u being a senior member. trust me on this.