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I'm still just trying to figure out what ATF means.... *confused*

Unfortunately not an option. That's why this is titled GANG BANG and not ORGY. Sorry to dissapoint you....

Thanks everyone for all the comments and feedback! I do wanna clear something up though that some of you have missunderstood....the issue I have isn't no-shows, It's NO RSVPs! Yes, no shows for this are a dissapointment, but when 4 of 5 guys show up I don't really think dissapointed is how I feel right there and then .:w.i.n.k:. What I don't like is having to cancel the entire event because 2 guys were available in the a.m. only that day, 2 others only mid-day and one of em only late night....maybe not in that exact order but you get the picture. I guess to sum it up is I'm just a little frustrated that within, let's say 100 men, I can't find 5 who are free on the same day/time? REALLY? I am really starting to feel like I'm being told day and time don't work as an easy escape route...they ask about, seem interested, want to stay on the mailing list etc....but can never make it....coincidence? I'm starting to think NOT. This poll was to help me establish if the real reason is date/time or if it's more about nerves or hotel location etc....some things I can change, or alter in some way to suit the needs of those interested....some things I won't be able to.... Additional Comments: This is EXACTLY what I am feeling, it's not "may be part" of it! Well minus any "backlash" ...if anyone has a negative opinion of me in regards to my lifestyle I am glad they are smart enough to keep it to themselves.

"MSOG available if time permits" and "MSOG not allowed, period" are two different things. I previously said nothing in regards to time constraints because I assumed it was a given that I was implying the clock had not run out yet. I simply said it was hypocritical to not allow MSOG (when there is still plenty of time left) if you claim to charge for your time. I still stand by this statement, mho. As unlikely as it may be for some men to even be able to muster up a 2nd (or 3rd!) SOG in a short period of time, it's just as unlikely for other men to last more than 5 minutes in your mouth. This blade is 2-sided. And in regards to what a GFE experience means, my answer and your answer and their answer would all be different. Therefore, I base each encounter on THE GENTLEMAN'S idea of GFE! If he feels MSOG would make for a good time, he will get it. So long as what the client looks for is part of my allowed services, without going over the allotted time, I will cater to his needs. I have had many clients claim they want a "gfe" and some of them think that means kissing, some think it just means unrushed service, some think it means cuddling and conversation, but guess what? Some clients believe MSOG is part of a GFE too. Not saying they are right or wrong, just saying that your OPINION of a GFE experience is not the same as everyone's. On a side note, who said anything about the OP looking for GFE anyways?

please take part in the poll (link below) to help me increase the success rate for these parties! I need feedback! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=505109#post505109

I do target the appropriate people, the "lifestyle community" you spoke of, the issue isn't finding those interested in these events, it's getting them to BOOK for the event. I get TONS of messages of people who seem interested, but they do not RSVP a spot for the party. This is the reason for my poll, to see if there is anything I can do (or not) to increase the success rate for these events. I have had a few successful ones, but the number of events cancelled surpasses that of events that took place.

Additional Comments: I disagree 100% Allow me to elaborate.... If you limit the amount of orgasms a man is allowed, you are selling an act not an experience. The act being ONE SOG. I personally don't see any GFE when a woman says "we can't have sex again because you already blew your load" -- A woman who says this sold SEX not TIME. (act vs experience) Yes, GFE is a lot more than just the completion of sex...that I do agree with....but saying MSOG is not allowed is super hypocritical if you advertise that your TIME costs X amount of dollars.

While I appreciate your opinion RG, I want to point out that I am running this poll specifically for the people who ARE interested in this sort of encounter. As I said in my OP, I have 75+ cerb handles on the mailing list for these events, so there are some interested folks out there. For the record, these folks aren't looking for a GFE...I am well aware that this type of play is not for everyone, hence the reason it was posted in the fetish section. And there is time for socializing, not everyone arrives in the same minute! The eager ones who show up first get all kinds of talk-time! See redbeard's reco of one of these encounters for more info! :)

As some of you already know, I do TRY to host gang bang parties on a monthly basis...I used the term TRY simply because most of the time, the events fizzle out and don't work out. I am curious as to why! I'd like to know if the reasons for these failed parties are within my control or not...Should I continue trying or not bother? I have 75+ cerb users on my mailing list for these events, yet I can barely organize one.... and even the ones that do happen have only 3 of the intended 5 members show up. I ask those who are interested to please partake in this poll so that I may have a better insight as to how to make these events successful. If you are not interested in gang bangs, have no intention of ever going to one, I ask that you please refrain from partaking in the poll... but please do feel free to comment in the thread with any feedback/comments/opinions you may have.

Keep in mind also that agency girls are more likely to have a lot of "extra fees" simply because they do not keep 100% of the funds you give them. (This is only a generalization and does not apply to everyone...) Another important note, in regards to your comment about "safe side" ... you do realize independent SPs are 100% LEGAL while agencies are 100% ILLEGAL? Seems to me you have the "safe side" flipped ;)

It could be a communication problem! Maybe these SPs don't realize you have another one in you! Not every man does you know! My advice, shop around for a companion and make sure she is aware before hand that you are looking to have msog. If she doesn't allow it, she should inform you of that BEFORE you spend your heard-earned money. On a side note, I don't understand how some SPs don't allow MSOG when they are so adamant that its their "time" you pay for....seems hypocritical. *end rant*

are these puffie enough?

I do have to agree that the shoutbox seems to be dominated by ads... and since I do post in the AD section, I don't really see the point of adding to the shoutbox since that isn't what it was intended for... as one member previously stated in this thread, it seems "desperate".... To the ladies who "spam" there all day: please take note of the majority of replies to this thread from gentleman; they say they look in the ads section when "shopping" for a companion... I would second the motion to disallow ads in shoutbox....otherwise having the ad section at all seems rather redundant.

Well, my birthday is coming up next Sunday, and what better way to spend it than be surrounded by cock! Looking to host an evening get-together for those interested - PLEASE PM!

Both book and movie are titled the same, the saga is the chronicles of narnia, each book or movie has its own personal sub-title... It would be : The (Chronicles) Anals of Narnia : The Lion, the witch and the (wardrobe)Anal (You could really use anal for any of the 3 words;lion witch or wardrobe) The (Chronicles) Anals of Narnia : Prince Anal or Anal Caspian (Prince Caspian) Alternatively, we could also say; The Chronicles of (Narnia) Anal : etc.... Additional Comments: When Anal {harry} met Sally Two Anal {if} by sea 3 Men and a little Anal {lady} DUDE! Where's my Anal {car} ? American Anal {history} X / Anal {american} History X Single White Anal {female} Anal {death} becomes her 6 degrees of Anal {separation} Anal {oz} : The Great & Powerful School of Anal {rock} Anal {curly} Sue Anal {teen} Wolf / Teen Anal {wolf} The Great Anal {gatsby} Anal {sleeping} with the enemy I LOVE THIS GAME!

Are we confirmed for this? :)

The purge was awful! The concept behind it seemed so thought-provoking...I was intrigued... Throw in Ethan Hawke... I am now drooling... Yet somehow I wanted to barf by the time it ended. In fact, I may have threw up in my mouth a little bit somewhere in the middle of the movie.

so exciting! :D

I'm a smoker, I understand some people are turned off by it, but since the OP asked, voila!

Thanks everyone! I promise there will be many many many more "cum-covered" posts! :D

its not working because your link is for a website, not an image... you have to right click the image you want from the web, the same you would if you were going to "save as" except that instead of "save as" select "copy image URL" The URL is what goes into to the little box :)

to add images directly to the thread, use the little yellow square box that looks like a lanscape picture and copy the image URL there. The lil yellow box will be on the top header section of the replying box :)

I just want to say that I am shocked by the level of hobbyists saying they are approached by SPs to "come visit me,I need money" or "Haven't seen you in a while, miss ya"... Seems highly unprofessional! I would have to think that if these particular women cannot exude discretion, they may have chosen the wrong profession. JMHO, discrete is the first thing an SP should be, and reaching out to clients is not discrete. In these cases, even if they are soliciting you for paid visits, they are already blurring the lines by initiating contact. Most of the lovely ladies here will tell you that isn't classy. I won't even reply to a missed call or text if I received it more than 30mins ago! DISCRETION, DISCRETION,DISCRETION! I understand some SPs may struggle financially for whatever reasons, but it's just so unprofessional to approach potential clients who did not approach you first! It's been my personal experience that placing an ad (be it here on cerb, or EC or BP, whatever!) will generate visitors, no need to "harass" hobbyists. For the record, I would never want to be romantically involved with someone whom I met via this industry. Like some of the other SPs have stated, we kind of live double lives... and to be brutally honest here; if it's Alexxxis you are falling for, you're not in love with ME.

Firstly, I was speaking about NOT openly disclosing your previous employment as an SP....simply being "known" to the employer. Secondly, don't take me too seriously! ;) Every single one of my posts should have a disclaimer that reads : "BEWARE OF SARCASM AHEAD" You had a firstly too, where's your secondly?

She states 20 calls who RESPOND to her ad... $1000 a day would mean she sees an average of 3-4 men per day.