Nichole Jenisen

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Thank you everyone! I really appreciate all the advice! I am soooo excited for lots of girl kissing and touching!

I thought I maybe saw you!

Thank you for your messages! My partner and I are going to try to do this in the next month! Appreciate it.

The Burlesque show at Maverick's this weekend was VERY sexy and fun!!!

I found some of the stuff at SlutWalk hard to hear, but I think it was totally worth going. A lot of my friends were there and I got a lot out of it. I was glad to see so many people come out for it! And I thought literally every single one of the speakers were great.

I know of one SP that occasionally exchanges services, like for web services and photography. But a lot of people who call themselves "photographers" are not.

My tip to everyone: If you are ever in a sexual situation where you can't remember your safeword or you neglected to make one, say "safe word", or say "Stop - I am saying my safeword". I have been in situations where a lot of "no"s and "please stop"s were being thrown around but really everyone was having a GREAT time, and it was all consensual. So just saying "stop" isn't enough or it can be frustrating if your top actually stops what they are doing. Any decent BDSM participant (SP or not) should stop if they hear the word "safeword" uttered.

Oh totally hot I love this!

NuDen does one night a month where they bring in male dancers from Montreal, or at least they used to.

There is a Burlesque show at Maverick's on April 16th.

I really like going to Barefax and always enjoy watching the stage show while I have drinks by myself, with my boyfriend, or with a group of our friends. I like that the girls at Barefax always seem to have GREAT asses. I dislike when the door guy tries to give me trouble for being a woman in there alone. I get private dances and tip beyond the $20 per song, but sometimes the girls seem *really* disinterested in the private dance. I always try to make sure they are okay with a woman client before I go upstairs with them and I am not grabby or pushy. One time my boyfriend and I had a dance from this AMAZING and enthusiastic brunette who was SO fun and she bent over and showed us her asshole and did all these other wild things. I really wish I knew where she was now because my boyfriend and I always wish we could go get more dances from her. It is great when the private dances have enthusiasm, and too bad when they don't. I wish there was more diversity among the dancers a Barefax - more thicker girls, different looks, etc. Also - the black light is so stupid because unless you sit really close you can sort of only see a silhouette. Years ago it wasn't like that, I think. I really appreciate that all the dancers have always been friendly to me at Barefax,

Hey I read this rule about posting what you are looking for so I hope it is okay: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/faq.php?faq=vb_faq#faq_guyads (This is my first post so apologies in advance if I am doing something wrong.) I am looking for a lesbian/queer/dyke or at least queer-friendly SP in Ottawa. The services would be for me, and possibly my husband too. We are in our early 30s and very clean and respectful and feminist and pro-sex worker and can respect any boundaries and are not looking for anything rough or dangerous or unprotected or even that kinky really - just, you know, the usual FFM fantasy stuff. I imagine that as clients go we would be pleasant enough ones. We are not assholes looking to haggle about rates or whatever. I also might want to arrange meetings just myself. What the SP would be like: I am not rich, so affordable-ish is nice, but I am not looking to be cheap and I am willing to pay what is fair. We would be interested in someone that hosts incalls. We have never done this before. We are basically looking for someone with the right attitude for meeting up with a woman or a couple - the attitude is the most important thing. But in terms of other requirements: curvier is more our preference than skinny, I think. Race is not really important. "Alternative" is great. Whatever. Also, I would be interested in a lot of girl-on-girl kissing. Other activities to be discussed. Discretion required, obviously. Also we would like someone that will not judge us for our large-ish body size. If you are the SP we are looking for or you know the right person please direct me to their website. Thank you for your time!